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  • Ice
    Confirmed User
    • Nov 2002
    • 26053

    #1

    Is cybersex cheating?

    What are your thoughts?
    41
    Yes
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    22
    No
    0%
    13
    Maybe, Depends, Etc.....
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  • Ross
    Ik ben een aap
    • Sep 2002
    • 18874

    #2
    Nope. Not at all.

    You haven't actually fucked someone else.....

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    • XxXotic
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      • Jun 2002
      • 8500

      #3
      absolutely, cheating is not limited to physical relations by any means
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      • arial
        Confirmed User
        • Jul 2002
        • 4012

        #4
        Maybe if you have an internet girlfriend.

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        • axelcat
          Adult Locals
          • Jun 2002
          • 25450

          #5
          No not really its the internet now if you meet that person outside the internet and get together now thats cheating

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          • Steve
            Confirmed User
            • Feb 2001
            • 6894

            #6
            bet your ass it is

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            • XxXotic
              Confirmed User
              • Jun 2002
              • 8500

              #7
              Originally posted by Ross
              Nope. Not at all.

              You haven't actually fucked someone else.....
              that does not excuse it, "mental" cheating is as bad if not worse then "physical" cheating..
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              • ad-lib
                Registered User
                • Jul 2003
                • 140

                #8
                This question is a paradox in itself. If you actually had a woman why would you use virtual communication as means for cumming.

                Anyway, short answer: Of course not.

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                • tootie
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jun 2003
                  • 6041

                  #9
                  Originally posted by XxXotic
                  that does not excuse it, "mental" cheating is as bad if not worse then "physical" cheating..
                  That's how I feel about it. When I was pregnant with my first child his father was having an online "fling". It totally killed my spirit. It took time away from me and it made me very upset, just like an offline relationship would have. Of course, if he'd been having cybersex with someone that he would have never talked to again AND he'd let me know about it before hand, then I probably wouldn't have cared.

                  I guess it does depend on the context. An online fling with someone you never talk to again isn't that bad, but an ongoing thing is, in my opinion.


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                  • Loryn
                    Super Connector
                    • Jul 2003
                    • 12853

                    #10
                    IT IS TOTALLY CHEATING!!!!!

                    It is more of mental attraction than physical attraction. They are both there, but you can start to develop a longing for the other person, a deep desire. That would scar me more than just a physical one night stand. When you meet on a computer you share things more than you would if you met face to face.

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                    • Halcyon
                      Spread The Pink!
                      • Dec 2002
                      • 8609

                      #11
                      Anytime you lie about intimacy with another, it is cheating.

                      It is not the physical act that is cheating (swingers aren't cheating), it is the deceit.
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                      • Ross
                        Ik ben een aap
                        • Sep 2002
                        • 18874

                        #12
                        Originally posted by XxXotic
                        that does not excuse it, "mental" cheating is as bad if not worse then "physical" cheating..
                        In that case then:

                        Is flirting with a girl cheating?? Its basically the same, all the same intentions are there. You'd like to do it but you have a girlfriend. Its all a lot of shit. Its not cheating but I can see why it would upset some people.

                        I see no reason any self respectale person would want to have cyber sex anyway! Anyone who says she is 21 and has long blonde hair and big boobs is really a middle aged guy with a problem or someone who is messing around.

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                        • Ice
                          Confirmed User
                          • Nov 2002
                          • 26053

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                          IT IS TOTALLY CHEATING!!!!!

                          It is more of mental attraction than physical attraction. They are both there, but you can start to develop a longing for the other person, a deep desire. That would scar me more than just a physical one night stand. When you meet on a computer you share things more than you would if you met face to face.

                          Ask yourself this question, would the person you love be hurt if they knew what you were doing? If the answer is yes then it is betrayal.
                          I agree words can be powerful... more so than actions.
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                          • WiredGuy
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                            • Aug 2002
                            • 34515

                            #14
                            Originally posted by iceicebaby
                            I agree words can be powerful... more so than actions.
                            So true....
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                            • fuzebox
                              making it rain
                              • Oct 2003
                              • 22363

                              #15
                              Of course it's cheating, what the hell kind of question is this?

                              Is having phone sex with someone else cheating? How about meeting them in person and telling them you want to fuck them?

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                              • Brad Xtremepay
                                So Fucking Banned
                                • Dec 2003
                                • 2000

                                #16
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                                • SleazyDream
                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                  • Jul 2001
                                  • 41470

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                  IT IS TOTALLY CHEATING!!!!!

                                  It is more of mental attraction than physical attraction. They are both there, but you can start to develop a longing for the other person, a deep desire. That would scar me more than just a physical one night stand. When you meet on a computer you share things more than you would if you met face to face.

                                  Ask yourself this question, would the person you love be hurt if they knew what you were doing? If the answer is yes then it is betrayal.
                                  by that logic then flirting would be cheating, if it made the person you're with jealous as it usually does if even for a second. Or even LOOKING at someone else lustfully if even for a second as that always makes the other person in a couple feel inadequate if only for a moment.

                                  real fact is cheating is what a couple DECIDES it is before hand. If you're not DEAD then you have entertained the idea of having sex with someone else other than your partner in your head at some point. The second you flirt, be it just a little glance, you've acted on that. No reasonable couple would call that cheating in our society, but the real question lies in where we draw the line. That line is a PERSONAL choice and not a fixed in stone absolute. One person might think going to lunch with a member of the opposite sex is cheating, another may not. One may think cybersex is cheating, another may not.

                                  Many Swinging couples deeply love each other and don't consider fucking someone else cheating.
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                                  • myjah
                                    Back in the harbor
                                    • Sep 2003
                                    • 11482

                                    #18
                                    i think it can lead to cheating...but if you're in a happy, healthy relationship why would you even want to spend time online with someone else? thus, in my opinion, people who are having cybersex online already have an unresolved issue in their relationship and they are having sex online because they aren't 100% happy
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                                    • CDSmith
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                                      • May 2001
                                      • 51460

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Ross
                                      Nope. Not at all.

                                      You haven't actually fucked someone else.....
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                                      • PlayGirl
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                                        • Jan 2004
                                        • 1062

                                        #20
                                        what kind of idiot would waste their time having cybersex if they already have a significant other?

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                                        • Sly_RJ
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                                          • Feb 2002
                                          • 17042

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Ross
                                          Nope. Not at all.

                                          You haven't actually fucked someone else.....
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                                          • CDSmith
                                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                                            • May 2001
                                            • 51460

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                            Ask yourself this question, would the person you love be hurt if they knew what you were doing? If the answer is yes then it is betrayal.
                                            That is the bottom line right there. Period.




                                            If your partner wouldn't like you doing it, if it would hurt your partner, then what you are doing is wrong. And comparing cybersex to flirting is retarded. Cybersex and phone sex are "sexual" in nature. Flirting is.... flirting. The best thing to do is find out where your partner draws the line and then if you have any real love and respect for your partner you won't cross that line.
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                                            • 0zzy
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                                              • Jan 2002
                                              • 505

                                              #23
                                              Yes, it is, but only if you have a girlfriend
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                                              • CDSmith
                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                • May 2001
                                                • 51460

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by PlayGirl
                                                what kind of idiot would waste their time having cybersex if they already have a significant other?
                                                Good god, go into a yahoo chat sometime and it won't take long. You'll talk to tons of people who are married or in relationships but are still looking. I've talked to a few idiots years ago that were actually sitting at the computer trying to get me to cyber with them while their husbands were upstairs sleeping after working all day. Can you believe it? It's true. I asked if hubby knew what they were doing, the answer was no.


                                                The world is packed full of cheating assholes, both men and women.
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                                                • PlayGirl
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                                                  • Jan 2004
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                  Good god, go into a yahoo chat sometime and it won't take long. You'll talk to tons of people who are married or in relationships but are still looking. I've talked to a few idiots years ago that were actually sitting at the computer trying to get me to cyber with them while their husbands were upstairs sleeping after working all day. Can you believe it? It's true. I asked if hubby knew what they were doing, the answer was no.


                                                  The world is packed full of cheating assholes, both men and women.
                                                  how sad

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                                                  • WiredGuy
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                                                    • Aug 2002
                                                    • 34515

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                                    Ask yourself this question, would the person you love be hurt if they knew what you were doing? If the answer is yes then it is betrayal.
                                                    I agree with that, its all relative to the relationship you're involved in.

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                                                    • Morgan
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                                                      • May 2002
                                                      • 10520

                                                      #27
                                                      who is CyberSex and what program did he try to cheat? hehhe
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                                                      • JDog
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                                                        • Feb 2003
                                                        • 7453

                                                        #28
                                                        IMHO, It's what you & your girlfriend think. If she's cool with it its not, if she isn't, it is! But I've never ran into that problem!

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                                                        • Loryn
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                                                          • Jul 2003
                                                          • 12853

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by SleazyDream


                                                          by that logic then flirting would be cheating, if it made the person you're with jealous as it usually does if even for a second. Or even LOOKING at someone else lustfully if even for a second as that always makes the other person in a couple feel inadequate if only for a moment.

                                                          real fact is cheating is what a couple DECIDES it is before hand. If you're not DEAD then you have entertained the idea of having sex with someone else other than your partner in your head at some point. The second you flirt, be it just a little glance, you've acted on that. No reasonable couple would call that cheating in our society, but the real question lies in where we draw the line. That line is a PERSONAL choice and not a fixed in stone absolute. One person might think going to lunch with a member of the opposite sex is cheating, another may not. One may think cybersex is cheating, another may not.

                                                          Many Swinging couples deeply love each other and don't consider fucking someone else cheating.
                                                          If someone is in a relationship with a person who is always jealous then that person has a self-esteem problem and that is a totally different issue.

                                                          I have always stuck to the rule of if my man was in the room would he be hurt by my actions. Now if I am in a relationship where we enjoy sex with other people then I would not be hurting him and it would not be considered cheating!!! Of course there are lines of respect in that type of situation too.

                                                          I agree it is different for every couple. But a chick who thinks she is lower than every girl that walks by and is jealous of her man looking, is keeping a man in a cage and is being immature and ridiculous. IMO (Same for a man doing it to a woman.)
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                                                          • Loryn
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                                                            • Jul 2003
                                                            • 12853

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by CDSmith
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                                                            • Vitasoy
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                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                              • 58202

                                                              #31
                                                              Depends on your GF, if she knows about it and shes kewl with it, then it would be no.


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                                                              • makefuckingmoney
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Oct 2003
                                                                • 3277

                                                                #32
                                                                only if its with females..

                                                                i only cyber with old men..

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                                                                • MetaMan
                                                                  I AM WEB 2.0
                                                                  • Jan 2003
                                                                  • 28682

                                                                  #33
                                                                  yes it is of course!

                                                                  i would smack my g/f if she did, although she wouldnt.

                                                                  cybering is for complete nerds who have not seen sunlight in their lifetime. i mean how dam hurt are to get turned on by a font on a screen? pathetic losers are funny as hell.

                                                                  omg this font is so much sexier ya baby type it ya baby type it.

                                                                  ???

                                                                  losers.

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                                                                  • tayloryum
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                                                                    • Jan 2002
                                                                    • 423

                                                                    #34
                                                                    maybe -

                                                                    i can't explain why i feel this way, but if my bfriend were watching a cam girl performing in a chat room, that would not bother me. but if he were typying to her/on the phone with her, that would bother me. i guess it's there personal one-on-one interaction that, to me, would be cheating. passively watching is okay.
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