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  • galleryseek
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    • Mar 2002
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    #101
    Originally posted by CDSmith
    Girls back in the 70's wore some of the tightest snuggest form-fitting jeans possible. Us junior high guys would gawk at their asses all day long, and the girls really teased us with their asses. But I don't recall even one person saying anyone was "slutty" for dressing the way everyone else was, nor do I recall anyone saying "she asked for it, her parents are to blame for letting her dress like that" if anyone was molested or anything.

    This is bullshit. Something isn't right with DJ and galleryseek's opinion on this.

    You know, often times it is the older pervs who take the position of disgust like this when in fact they secretly have wood for the girl. Not saying that's the case here, but it sure makes me wonder just the same.
    haha, well then here is the problem. i guess you and i must have 2 different ideas of what the word "Slut" means.

    I think girls who dress in such a way with a mindset where they WANT guys gawking at their asses, constitutes a slut. They want guys looking at their asses and they let it be known, which can be inferred that most of them WANT IT, and probably from more than one guy.

    and what the fuck is so wrong with my opinion? i'm a bit more conservative on the way people dress... is that so horribly bad? what negativity can come from my perspective?

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    • CDSmith
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      • May 2001
      • 51460

      #102
      Originally posted by galleryseek
      and what the fuck is so wrong with my opinion? i'm a bit more conservative on the way people dress... is that so horribly bad? what negativity can come from my perspective?
      Your perspective fosters the notion that the victim is to blame rather than the criminal.


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      • KRL
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        • Oct 2002
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        #103
        Originally posted by BigFish


        How many girls go out on their own in America every single day? MILLIONS!!!!! Now how many of them get abducted? ....

        Maybe I should put it this way, the chance of your daughter dying in a car wreck is much higher than getting KIDNAPPED at the mall by a stranger. Should we restrict them from driving now until they're over the age of 18?
        You guys really need to do research before you go blurting out statements like this.

        According to NISMART-2 research, which studied the year 1999, an estimated 797,500 children were reported missing; 58,200 children were abducted by nonfamily members; 115 children were the victims of the most serious, long-term nonfamily abductions called "stereotypical kidnappings"; and 203,900 children were the victims of family abductions.

        Nationwide there are over 1 million people reported missing since records were kept who have open case files, and were never found.

        The sexual victimization of children is overwhelming in magnitude yet largely unrecognized and underreported. Statistics show that 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 10 boys are sexually exploited before they reach adulthood, yet less than 35% of those child sexual assaults are reported to authorities.

        According to Highlights of the Youth Internet Safety Survey conducted by the U.S. Department of Justice ?one in five children (10 to 17 years old) receive unwanted sexual solicitations online.?
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        • DarkJedi
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          • Feb 2001
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          #104
          Originally posted by jennym


          He said Jr. High.....in case you didn't make it that far, the girls in Jr. High are usually 10-12. Do you honestly not remember girls in JR. FUCKING HIGH wearing make-up?

          tell me, what would be the point for a 10-12 y.o. girl to paint her face up and put on tight-ass clothes ?

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          • LadyMischief
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            • Sep 2002
            • 18135

            #105
            Originally posted by DarkJedi



            you are putting your own words in my mouth.


            anyway, 11 y.o. girl should not dress SEXY.
            and her parents should pay attention to that.
            But you said they should spend time with her once in a while.. you're assuming (ASSUME makes an ASS of you and me, pal), that they don't, and you're ASSUMING again. And I thought this thread was about them letting her dress like a slut (which most people seem to agree she really isn't). You don't know SHIT about their lives, their parenting, their situation, maybe her mom dropped her off for an hour at the mall. Do you honestly think that at 11 years old she should be accompanied by a parent at all times like she was 3?

            You need to stop now before you dig yourself any deeper and contradict yourself again.

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            • jennym
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              • May 2003
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              #106
              Originally posted by DarkJedi
              Are you aware of your utter stupidity, or are you to be scaled alongside the amoebe on the evolutionary ladder?
              So I guess your personal attack on me means that you have no fucking idea what the circumstances were when the picture was taken, and you just make the general ASSumption that if an 11 year old girl EVER wears make-up for any reason she is an automatic slut.

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              • LadyMischief
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                • Sep 2002
                • 18135

                #107
                Originally posted by jennym
                None of you dumb fucks ran all around the neighborhood as kids? We all did, and we didn't dress like sluts, so explain these numbers to me...

                According to FBI reports, kidnapping rates are as follows:

                1977 - 536
                1981 - 782
                1998 - 115
                1999 - 134
                2000 - 106
                2001 - 93

                They are only making the news more now. It had absolutely nothing to do with the way the girl was dressed (which is very fucking mild!!)

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                • MetaMan
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                  • Jan 2003
                  • 28682

                  #108
                  i cant even belive this is being debated,

                  only a fellow rapist or abductor would ever say its an excuse because she looks "slutty".

                  it doesnt matter wtf u look like, u dont abduct people no matter wtf there age are.

                  for all the people who are saying slutty you are just an inbred peto, now go stare at the tawnee stone sites and waste away the remaining speck of brain cells you may hold.

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                  • LadyMischief
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                    • Sep 2002
                    • 18135

                    #109
                    Originally posted by DarkJedi



                    she did not get ubducted,moran.
                    she ran away with the hippy and they got "married"
                    A few months ago in Toronto a 10 year old girl was abducted from her bedroom in her home, in her pjs.. So how slutty was she dressed, eh?

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                    • CDSmith
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                      • May 2001
                      • 51460

                      #110
                      Originally posted by LadyMischief
                      A few months ago in Toronto a 10 year old girl was abducted from her bedroom in her home, in her pjs.. So how slutty was she dressed, eh?
                      Her parents are to blame. They should have made her wear Kevlar® armor and had her chained to the floor.


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                      • jennym
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                        • May 2003
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                        #111
                        Originally posted by DarkJedi
                        tell me, what would be the point for a 10-12 y.o. girl to paint her face up and put on tight-ass clothes ?
                        Ok, let me throw you a bone here.

                        I agree, you did not say she deserved it.
                        I agree that there is a difference between "asking for it" and "deserving it"
                        I have a nine year old daughter, and I agree that MANY parents let their children look too slutty.

                        However, Jr. High is about the time most girls start wearing make-up. (My dad did not let me in Jr. High, but I put it on anyway...that whole fitting in and rebellion thing.;))

                        And, that girl is not dressed slutty at all! Not to mention the fact that you are making a LOT of assumptions about her family life. Walking home from a friends house in broad daylight, less than a half a mile from home is not that big of a deal (depending on the area).

                        Again, I ask...did you and your friends not "roam the neighborhood" as kids?

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                        • LadyMischief
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                          #112
                          Originally posted by KRL


                          You guys really need to do research before you go blurting out statements like this.

                          According to NISMART-2 research, which studied the year 1999, an estimated 797,500 children were reported missing; 58,200 children were abducted by nonfamily members; 115 children were the victims of the most serious, long-term nonfamily abductions called "stereotypical kidnappings"; and 203,900 children were the victims of family abductions.

                          Nationwide there are over 1 million people reported missing since records were kept who have open case files, and were never found.

                          The sexual victimization of children is overwhelming in magnitude yet largely unrecognized and underreported. Statistics show that 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 10 boys are sexually exploited before they reach adulthood, yet less than 35% of those child sexual assaults are reported to authorities.

                          According to Highlights of the Youth Internet Safety Survey conducted by the U.S. Department of Justice ?one in five children (10 to 17 years old) receive unwanted sexual solicitations online.?
                          And I highly doubt any of that has anything to do with how those kids dress.. It's all about the sick predators and family situations that are beyond their control.

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                          • DarkJedi
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                            • Feb 2001
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                            #113
                            Originally posted by LadyMischief


                            But you said they should spend time with her once in a while.. you're assuming (ASSUME makes an ASS of you and me, pal), that they don't, and you're ASSUMING again. And I thought this thread was about them letting her dress like a slut (which most people seem to agree she really isn't). You don't know SHIT about their lives, their parenting, their situation, maybe her mom dropped her off for an hour at the mall. Do you honestly think that at 11 years old she should be accompanied by a parent at all times like she was 3?

                            You need to stop now before you dig yourself any deeper and contradict yourself again.

                            Maybe not, but why not do everything possible to avoid calling pedo attention to your 11 year old daughter. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing good that can come from dressing a little girl like that and let her wander alone.

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                            • galleryseek
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                              • Mar 2002
                              • 8234

                              #114
                              Originally posted by CDSmith
                              Your perspective fosters the notion that the victim is to blame rather than the criminal.


                              I have nothing more to say on this.
                              i never said that. i actually stated that this girl probably would have been abducted regardless of her clothing. right now i'm focusing more on just the idea of how girls dress in general.

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                              • LadyMischief
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                                #115
                                Originally posted by CDSmith
                                Her parents are to blame. They should have made her wear Kevlar® armor and had her chained to the floor.


                                Bad parents.
                                Wonder how slutty the little girl they found cut into pieces floating in the lake was dressed, and if HER parents were bad parents too..

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                                • MetaMan
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                                  • Jan 2003
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                                  #116
                                  i sense alot of backtracking on thise page already.

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                                  • 69pornlinks
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                                    • Mar 2003
                                    • 5560

                                    #117
                                    It IS what it IS

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                                    • LadyMischief
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                                      • Sep 2002
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                                      #118
                                      Originally posted by DarkJedi



                                      Maybe not, but why not do everything possible to avoid calling pedo attention to your 11 year old daughter. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing good that can come from dressing a little girl like that and let her wander alone.
                                      Wander alone? Since when is going to a mall with friends wandering alone? You try having a child and tell me you can tell what that child is doing every second of every day at all time. And you say the PARENTS are to blame, do you know how many 11-12 year old girls SNEAK makeup to school or whatever? What on EARTH does that have to do with the parenting of her friends? Hell I knew girls in high school that would wear conservative clothes to school and have slut clothes in their locker and change when they got there. So how isi that the parent's fault? Does that mean those girls deserved to be victimized? Where is your logic in this?

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                                      • LadyMischief
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                                        #119
                                        Originally posted by jennym


                                        So I guess your personal attack on me means that you have no fucking idea what the circumstances were when the picture was taken, and you just make the general ASSumption that if an 11 year old girl EVER wears make-up for any reason she is an automatic slut.
                                        Yep that's it! :P

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                                        • dig420
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                                          • May 2001
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                                          #120
                                          Originally posted by galleryseek


                                          i never said that. i actually stated that this girl probably would have been abducted regardless of her clothing. right now i'm focusing more on just the idea of how girls dress in general.
                                          stupid dickhead

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                                          • dig420
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                                            • May 2001
                                            • 9240

                                            #121
                                            Originally posted by DarkJedi



                                            Maybe not, but why not do everything possible to avoid calling pedo attention to your 11 year old daughter. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing good that can come from dressing a little girl like that and let her wander alone.
                                            stupid pedo dickhead

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                                            • xxxdesign-net
                                              My hips don't lie
                                              • Nov 2002
                                              • 10129

                                              #122
                                              Pedo of the year..

                                              DarkJedi or sexed ?

                                              How many threads have you started about young girls dressing sexy? Didnt you post a 13yo girl a while ago from a HotorNot site.. saying you would hit it !?

                                              You need help

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                                              • TurboAngel
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                                                • Jun 2003
                                                • 30122

                                                #123
                                                Well I now know why I don't look at DorkJedi's threads!


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                                                • galleryseek
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                                                  • Mar 2002
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                                                  #124
                                                  why the fuck do you people keep saying shes wearing simple t-shirt and jeans? lol. shes NOT.

                                                  This is a simple TSHIRT:



                                                  This is NOT:


                                                  (that girl was basically wearing what the girl on the RIGHT in this picture is wearing, except a tad bit more shoulder..)

                                                  there is quite a difference between an average joe t-shirt, and what that girl was wearing.

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                                                  • pamphage
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                                                    • Jan 2003
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                                                    #125


                                                    the word is pederast
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                                                    • DarkJedi
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                                                      #126
                                                      This is amazing. Nobody says this abduction was OK or the guy shuold get a lighter sentence. The point is proactively protect your kids. An 11 year old is still a little kid, parents should exercise some control. Typical liberal bullshit. Wake up - there is an idealized world and the real world. When you idiots learn the difference then society will get better. Stomping your feet accusing people of approving of this tragedy because they offer opinions on how to possibly avoid or at least reduce the risk of a repeat is just proof of what an idiot you are.



                                                      Oh, and all the band-wagon jumping cocksuckers like dig420 can eat a dick. Come back when you learn how to come up with an original argument, idiots.
                                                      Last edited by DarkJedi; 02-03-2004, 11:19 AM.

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                                                      • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                        • Dec 2002
                                                        • 40077

                                                        #127
                                                        I need to stop carrying a purse...apparently it makes me a slut

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                                                        • CDSmith
                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                          • May 2001
                                                          • 51460

                                                          #128
                                                          Originally posted by galleryseek
                                                          right now i'm focusing more on just the idea of how girls dress in general.
                                                          I see society talking to itself, it goes something like this....


                                                          "Hmm, young girls are being abducted, raped and killed."

                                                          "What should we do about it? We've already increased the penalty for doing this."

                                                          "why does it keep happening to our children?"

                                                          "Maybe it's the way they are dressed"

                                                          "Yes, maybe if we make them less attractive, the pedos won't want them as much"

                                                          "Yes, let's take away their makeup and their tight revealing clothing!!"

                                                          "Yes, THAT will make the pedos not want them"

                                                          "It's a plan, we'll do it"



                                                          Will the pedos be fooled? Will they truly "leave the children alone" because they are dressed better? Stay tuned to our next episode ten years from now where we reveal the aweful truth about what REALLY motivates pedos to take your children!
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                                                          • MetaMan
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                                                            • Jan 2003
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                                                            #129
                                                            Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                            This is amazing. Nobody says this abduction was OK or the guy shuold get a lighter sentence. The point is proactively protect your kids. An 11 year old is still a little kid, parents should exercise some control. Typical liberal bullshit. Wake up - there is an idealized world and the real world. When you idiots learn the difference then society will get better. Stomping your feet accusing people of approving of this tragedy because they offer opinions on how to possibly avoid or at least reduce the risk of a repeat is just proof of what an idiot you are.



                                                            Oh, and all the band-wagon jumping cocksuckers like dig420 can eat a dick. Come back when you learn how to come up with an original argument, idiots.
                                                            hmm if u rnt in some way condoning it you are providing an excuse to it by saying:

                                                            This is what happens when you let your daughter dress like a slut.

                                                            then providing a link to the story.

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                                                            • galleryseek
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                                                              • Mar 2002
                                                              • 8234

                                                              #130
                                                              Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                              This is amazing. Nobody says this abduction was OK or the guy shuold get a lighter sentence. The point is proactively protect your kids. An 11 year old is still a little kid, parents should exercise some control. Typical liberal bullshit. Wake up - there is an idealized world and the real world. When you idiots learn the difference then society will get better. Stomping your feet accusing people of approving of this tragedy because they offer opinions on how to possibly avoid or at least reduce the risk of a repeat is just proof of what an idiot you are.



                                                              Oh, and all the band-wagon jumping cocksuckers like ig420 can eat a dick. Come back when you learn how to come up with an original argument, idiots.
                                                              i totally agree.. god, some of you people are either just really fucking stupid or being in porn has really desensitized your version of what "slut" is.

                                                              it is NOT ok to let your children do whatever they want and wear whatever they want. it is OBVIOUS to MOST normal people that that girl is dressing in a revealing manner.

                                                              and for those of who idiots who keep saying that i am implying that she is asking for it or deserves it, i am NOT at ALL. all I'm saying is parents should take a bit more of a controlling stance on what their children wear.

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                                                              • MetaMan
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                                                                • Jan 2003
                                                                • 28682

                                                                #131
                                                                Originally posted by galleryseek


                                                                i totally agree.. god, some of you people are either just really fucking stupid or being in porn has really desensitized your version of what "slut" is.

                                                                it is NOT ok to let your children do whatever they want and wear whatever they want. it is OBVIOUS to MOST normal people that that girl is dressing in a revealing manner.

                                                                and for those of who idiots who keep saying that i am implying that she is asking for it or deserves it, i am NOT at ALL. all I'm saying is parents should take a bit more of a controlling stance on what their children wear.
                                                                hmm which topic are you also reading now, i am getting confused read the topic title:

                                                                This is what happens when you let your daughter dress like a slut.


                                                                this is not what happens when you dress like anything, anyone who preys on young children doesnt have anything to do with the way they dress.

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                                                                • LadyMischief
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                                                                  #132
                                                                  Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                  This is amazing. Nobody says this abduction was OK or the guy shuold get a lighter sentence. The point is proactively protect your kids. An 11 year old is still a little kid, parents should exercise some control. Typical liberal bullshit. Wake up - there is an idealized world and the real world. When you idiots learn the difference then society will get better. Stomping your feet accusing people of approving of this tragedy because they offer opinions on how to possibly avoid or at least reduce the risk of a repeat is just proof of what an idiot you are.



                                                                  Oh, and all the band-wagon jumping cocksuckers like dig420 can eat a dick. Come back when you learn how to come up with an original argument, idiots.
                                                                  And apparently you have NO FUCKING CLUE in what's involved in parenting a child.. I think everyone here pretty much agrees that dressing little girls like sluts isn't cool... But you made a lot of lame assumptions about the parenting of this child when in reality, you have no clue. Can you state that you know without a doubt that this girl didn't sneak makeup from her friends, or try makeup on in a drug store in the mall, or that she didn't change shirts, or that some people wouldn't think her shirt was slutty at all? My beef isn't the fact that you said little girls shouldn't dress like sluts. I agree with you there 100%. My beef is that you stated like you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOING ON that her parents were bad, and essentially, asked for their child to be abducted. If you're going to make a statement, make sure you can back it up with fact.

                                                                  And please, don't ever have children.

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                                                                  • galleryseek
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                                                                    #133
                                                                    Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                    I see society talking to itself, it goes something like this....


                                                                    "Hmm, young girls are being abducted, raped and killed."

                                                                    "What should we do about it? We've already increased the penalty for doing this."

                                                                    "why does it keep happening to our children?"

                                                                    "Maybe it's the way they are dressed"

                                                                    "Yes, maybe if we make them less attractive, the pedos won't want them as much"

                                                                    "Yes, let's take away their makeup and their tight revealing clothing!!"

                                                                    "Yes, THAT will make the pedos not want them"

                                                                    "It's a plan, we'll do it"



                                                                    Will the pedos be fooled? Will they truly "leave the children alone" because they are dressed better? Stay tuned to our next episode ten years from now where we reveal the aweful truth about what REALLY motivates pedos to take your children!
                                                                    nope, i've been a tad bit off topic about this... right now i am only addressing the issue of parents allowing their children to dress like that... i am in no way stating, inferring, insinuating etc etc, that by making kids dress less revealing will stop pedos.

                                                                    but i'm willing to bet that most pedos who target girls in that age range, go after ones that appear as though wouldn't give them a lot of trouble lurring them to wherever they want them to go.

                                                                    dressing revealing (a form of rebellion for a lot of kids) would probably give the pedo the indification that this girl won't do what mommy and daddy says like don't talk to strangers ;)

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                                                                    • icedemon
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                                                                      • Jun 2003
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                                                                      #134
                                                                      I'd like to know where these people live that think she is dressed like a slut? I'm assuming the ones that feel like she is dressed like a slut live a small town in Nebraska or something.
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                                                                      • LadyMischief
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                                                                        #135
                                                                        Originally posted by galleryseek


                                                                        i totally agree.. god, some of you people are either just really fucking stupid or being in porn has really desensitized your version of what "slut" is.

                                                                        it is NOT ok to let your children do whatever they want and wear whatever they want. it is OBVIOUS to MOST normal people that that girl is dressing in a revealing manner.

                                                                        and for those of who idiots who keep saying that i am implying that she is asking for it or deserves it, i am NOT at ALL. all I'm saying is parents should take a bit more of a controlling stance on what their children wear.
                                                                        I agree with you in theory, however, Darkjedi's statements were about THIS PARTICULAR CASE, and he has NO KNOWLEDGE whatsoever of all the facts involved.

                                                                        And remember, girls, especially 11-12 year olds want to fit in and act and look older. They are GOING to sneak makeup even if they aren't allowed to, and they ARE going to try to impress boys and do all the things budding teenagers do. Nothing we can do or say is going to change that, and it's not the fault of the parents that this is a natural process of a little girl growing up. Sure, parents should enforce rules, but giving a child rules is NO GUARANTEE that they are going to obey.. Unless of course you suggest a girl should be sequestered until she's of an age where she doesn't have to obey her parents anymore..

                                                                        Do you have kids? :P

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                                                                        • xxxdesign-net
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                                                                          • Nov 2002
                                                                          • 10129

                                                                          #136
                                                                          Originally posted by MetaMan




                                                                          this is not what happens when you dress like anything, anyone who preys on young children doesnt have anything to do with the way they dress.

                                                                          lol exactly... most pedophiles are looking for the innocent looking ones... while other sex predators might be looking for the good looking sexy ones... mmmh so what to do... Should parents of cute teen boy and girls try their best to make them look ugly!?

                                                                          Hey Dark Jedi.. where's the thread where you said you would hit a 13yo girl from a HotorNot site...!?

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                                                                          • LadyMischief
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                                                                            #137
                                                                            Originally posted by galleryseek


                                                                            nope, i've been a tad bit off topic about this... right now i am only addressing the issue of parents allowing their children to dress like that... i am in no way stating, inferring, insinuating etc etc, that by making kids dress less revealing will stop pedos.

                                                                            but i'm willing to bet that most pedos who target girls in that age range, go after ones that appear as though wouldn't give them a lot of trouble lurring them to wherever they want them to go.

                                                                            dressing revealing (a form of rebellion for a lot of kids) would probably give the pedo the indification that this girl won't do what mommy and daddy says like don't talk to strangers ;)
                                                                            If a predator wants a child, they will want that child makeup or not, they will make that child a victim no matter what people do to protect them. Like I say, I agree about the principle of not allowing little girls to dress provocatively, but the reality is the ONLY way to TRULY protect a child would be to never let them leave the house.

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                                                                            • CDSmith
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                                                                              #138
                                                                              Originally posted by galleryseek
                                                                              nope, i've been a tad bit off topic about this... right now i am only addressing the issue of parents allowing their children to dress like that... i am in no way stating, inferring, insinuating etc etc, that by making kids dress less revealing will stop pedos.

                                                                              but i'm willing to bet that most pedos who target girls in that age range, go after ones that appear as though wouldn't give them a lot of trouble lurring them to wherever they want them to go.

                                                                              dressing revealing (a form of rebellion for a lot of kids) would probably give the pedo the indification that this girl won't do what mommy and daddy says like don't talk to strangers ;)
                                                                              Thank you doctor Gepedo for that rousing insight into what you think the mindset is of most pedos.


                                                                              btw, indification isn't a word.
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                                                                                • xxxdesign-net
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                                                                                  #140
                                                                                  Originally posted by galleryseek




                                                                                  dressing revealing (a form of rebellion for a lot of kids) would probably give the pedo the indification that this girl won't do what mommy and daddy says like don't talk to strangers ;)
                                                                                  lo yeah keep assuming! Rapists fear SO much that a girl might refuse to talk to them!!

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                                                                                  • galleryseek
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                                                                                    #141
                                                                                    Originally posted by LadyMischief


                                                                                    And remember, girls, especially 11-12 year olds want to fit in and act and look older. They are GOING to sneak makeup even if they aren't allowed to, and they ARE going to try to impress boys and do all the things budding teenagers do. Nothing we can do or say is going to change that, and it's not the fault of the parents that this is a natural process of a little girl growing up. Sure, parents should enforce rules, but giving a child rules is NO GUARANTEE that they are going to obey.. Unless of course you suggest a girl should be sequestered until she's of an age where she doesn't have to obey her parents anymore..

                                                                                    Do you have kids? :P
                                                                                    no. but i can only imagine how hard of a task it is to raise an obediant child in this day n' age...

                                                                                    my gf i guess, is one of those rare exceptions.. she was homeschooled for a long time, and her mother was an extremely strict (boredline pscychotic) parent... and she has never wanted guys gawking at her, so she always dressed comfortably like a tomboy, and has never much makeup (but, she doesn't have to cause she has that natural beauty )

                                                                                    of course, a lot of that could be genetics, but i imagine living in the environment that she did helped her out a lot to mature quickly and get passed the typical teenie-bopper state of mind.

                                                                                    therefore, instead of acting upon a liberal mindset when raising your children, maybe being very strict isn't such a bad idea.

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                                                                                    • galleryseek
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                                                                                      #142
                                                                                      Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                                      Thank you doctor Gepedo for that rousing insight into what you think the mindset is of most pedos.


                                                                                      btw, indification isn't a word.
                                                                                      you're how old, and you're resorting to lame comments like that? grow up buddy.

                                                                                      error*... i'm used to typing "modification" too much

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                                                                                      • CDSmith
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                                                                                        #143
                                                                                        Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                                        Stomping your feet accusing people of approving of this tragedy because they offer opinions on how to possibly avoid or at least reduce the risk of a repeat is just proof of what an idiot you are.
                                                                                        No, but this post of yours proves what a total wanker you are.

                                                                                        YOU said that her parents were negligent.
                                                                                        YOU said that she was dressed like a slut.
                                                                                        YOU said she had bad parents ("sorry but they are bad parents")
                                                                                        YOU said her parents didn't spend enough time with her
                                                                                        YOU said an 11 yr old should not dress sexy (makes me think that YOU think she is sexy)


                                                                                        Dude, your whole thread topic, your whole point of view and every post you've made here SCREAMS that you are placing blame on the victims rather than the pedo scum. This point of view is what is wrong with society, and people then wonder why pedos and rapists get off scott free or with reduced sentences..... it's because jerkshits like you suggest that because they were dressed trendy, dressed in the style of their peers, that they "had it coming". THAT is what your opinion comes across as.


                                                                                        Setting yourselves up as knowing what motivates pedos is a joke too. You don't know shit. If all the young girls everywhere were laced up to their throats in in baggy clothes you think pedos would stop grabbing them?

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                                                                                          • LadyMischief
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                                                                                            #145
                                                                                            Originally posted by galleryseek


                                                                                            no. but i can only imagine how hard of a task it is to raise an obediant child in this day n' age...

                                                                                            my gf i guess, is one of those rare exceptions.. she was homeschooled for a long time, and her mother was an extremely strict (boredline pscychotic) parent... and she has never wanted guys gawking at her, so she always dressed comfortably like a tomboy, and has never much makeup (but, she doesn't have to cause she has that natural beauty )

                                                                                            of course, a lot of that could be genetics, but i imagine living in the environment that she did helped her out a lot to mature quickly and get passed the typical teenie-bopper state of mind.

                                                                                            therefore, instead of acting upon a liberal mindset when raising your children, maybe being very strict isn't such a bad idea.
                                                                                            I was raised VERY old fashioned by my grandmother and my great-grandmother, so I know where she is coming from. I am what some people would consider to be strict with my kids, but it's out of love. However, most children will eventually chafe at a lot of restrictions, no matter what parents do and they will want to fly on their own. Every child is different, some are ok with that kidn of thing, some are not. Myself I was a tomboy and didn't date until I was like 16 or 17, but that doesn't mean I didn't try on makeup and sultry clothes now and again. Some kids go further with it. My grandmother was strict with me, but she couldn't account for my whereabouts every second either.

                                                                                            Rebellion happens, and in this day and age it's harder than ever to put children on the right path. They are absolutely inundated with stereotypes, images, ideas, etc of this day and age. Trying to shelter them from it all is abosolutely useless, and trying to tell a child they ABSOLUTELY CANNOT do something (especially something that they may get ridiculed for) is only going to make them more curious. Doing the right thing today as a parent is hard, and honestly, nobody is perfect.

                                                                                            Pinning the responsibility for predators on the parents of children is pushing the envelope BEYOND ridiculous, and although I see where YOU are coming from, as I said my beef with Jedi is the fact that he is making out like he knows all and everyone else is shit. He doesn't even have kids.

                                                                                            When the world is perfect there will be perfect parents and perfect kids, until then, we all just do what we can to keep them safe and hope beyond hope that they will follow our direction and stay safe.

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                                                                                            • galleryseek
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                                                                                              #146
                                                                                              Originally posted by LadyMischief


                                                                                              I was raised VERY old fashioned by my grandmother and my great-grandmother, so I know where she is coming from. I am what some people would consider to be strict with my kids, but it's out of love. However, most children will eventually chafe at a lot of restrictions, no matter what parents do and they will want to fly on their own. Every child is different, some are ok with that kidn of thing, some are not. Myself I was a tomboy and didn't date until I was like 16 or 17, but that doesn't mean I didn't try on makeup and sultry clothes now and again. Some kids go further with it. My grandmother was strict with me, but she couldn't account for my whereabouts every second either.

                                                                                              Rebellion happens, and in this day and age it's harder than ever to put children on the right path. They are absolutely inundated with stereotypes, images, ideas, etc of this day and age. Trying to shelter them from it all is abosolutely useless, and trying to tell a child they ABSOLUTELY CANNOT do something (especially something that they may get ridiculed for) is only going to make them more curious. Doing the right thing today as a parent is hard, and honestly, nobody is perfect.

                                                                                              Pinning the responsibility for predators on the parents of children is pushing the envelope BEYOND ridiculous, and although I see where YOU are coming from, as I said my beef with Jedi is the fact that he is making out like he knows all and everyone else is shit. He doesn't even have kids.

                                                                                              When the world is perfect there will be perfect parents and perfect kids, until then, we all just do what we can to keep them safe and hope beyond hope that they will follow our direction and stay safe.
                                                                                              good post, i agree...

                                                                                              its just some of the people (well, a lot) seem to be the type who would parent their children with little or no discipline.

                                                                                              my fucking sister raises her oldest (shes almost 6 now) dressing her up, dying her hair, makin her look like a little pop star.. i think it is both shallow and ignorant. the kid is already a little stuck up brat.

                                                                                              so, i am in NO way blaming parents for sexual predators.

                                                                                              but as a seperate issue i believe parents just need to take a bit more control early on.

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                                                                                                #147
                                                                                                Originally posted by galleryseek


                                                                                                this thread needs some words of wisdom

                                                                                                first of all, let us examine the situation:

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                                                                                                • Theo
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                                                                                                  #148
                                                                                                  11y.old girl shouldn't wear makeup or dressed sexy.

                                                                                                  It's not matter of morality, how conservative or not a family is, but with the fact that a 11y old girl is still a kid and all these are nothing else than attempts to alter it.


                                                                                                  "especially 11-12 year olds want to fit in and act and look older. They are GOING to sneak makeup even if they aren't allowed to, and they ARE going to try to impress boys and do all the things budding teenagers do."


                                                                                                  well this wasn't happening a decade ago in the degree it happens now. Yes, times change, BUT the nature,mentality,perception, innocence of a 11y.old barely changed in a ten years period of time.

                                                                                                  Better be overprotective towards your kid than irresponsible. That's my belief.
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                                                                                                    • LadyMischief
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                                                                                                      #150
                                                                                                      Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                                      11y.old girl shouldn't wear makeup or dressed sexy.

                                                                                                      It's not matter of morality, how conservative or not a family is, but with the fact that a 11y old girl is still a kid and all these are nothing else than attempts to alter it.


                                                                                                      "especially 11-12 year olds want to fit in and act and look older. They are GOING to sneak makeup even if they aren't allowed to, and they ARE going to try to impress boys and do all the things budding teenagers do."


                                                                                                      well this wasn't happening a decade ago in the degree it happens now. Yes, times change, BUT the nature,mentality,perception, innocence of a 11y.old barely changed in a ten years period of time.

                                                                                                      Better be overprotective towards your kid than irresponsible. That's my belief.
                                                                                                      Overprotective can backfire just as quickly. And if you think this wasn't happening a decade ago, two decades ago or anything like it is now, you obviously never grew up as a girl, had sisters, or knew what things were like. It's the NATURE of a teenager to try to do things to make themselves seem older, to try to act adult, to do things that they see adults seeing. This is the way it's been since caveman times. It's instinct.

                                                                                                      I'm not saying it's wrong for a parent to exert dicipline over a child and tell them what's acceptable and what's not, but to think that kids aren't going to do things behind their parent's back is a little silly, and excessive overprotectiveness is only going to push the issue. I would shelter my children from the entire world if I could, but is that going to give them a sense of reality, or help them when they are out in the cold, real world? I am all for protecting kids but being unrealistic is not going to do them any favors. I will tell my children what I expect of them, I AM going to enforce my rules, but I don't ever expect them for a second to be perfect, or impervious to the pressures of the world around them. Parents are there just as much to help them stand up when they fall as to put out a hand and prevent the slip.

                                                                                                      Consider, 200 (even 100 years ago) years ago, 11 and 12 year old girls were married off and already having their first babies, running households etc.. Innocence is really relative.

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