When does a persistant guy become a fucking stalker?

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  • MPBWhitney
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    • Nov 2002
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    #1

    When does a persistant guy become a fucking stalker?

    This dude wont stop calling and text messaging me. Despite the fact i have not returned his calls or text messages in well over two weeks. I have only reallymet him twice ....


    Does he cross the line when the calls come in three times a day and mid nite text messages at 3 am.?


    The dude's a creep. I dont want to call him and tell him to fuck off cuz i really dont want to speak to him. I will have to keep sending to voicemail until he stops i guess.
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  • RRRED
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    • Jan 2001
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    #2
    Have a guy answer the phone or have a guy do your voicemail message for you. He'll think you have something new going on the side and might just go away.

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    • pornkitten
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      #3
      the guy sounds like a real loser
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      • DreamCumTrue
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        • Nov 2003
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        #4
        Guys like that are just weird. Tell him he can't call like that because a) you use your phone for business or b) you aren't interested in him.

        The text messaging at 3 am is just plain rude. Doesn't he understand you need to sleep?

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        • Jman
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          #5
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          • JCM
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            • Jul 2003
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            #6
            he is crazy!!!!
            have him killed.

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            • hershie
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              • Jun 2002
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              #7
              That sounds scary as you would think he would have gotten the meassage loud and clear by now that you aren't interested.

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              • CDSmith
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                #8
                Why is he calling you?.... as in..... what does he want? Does he want to do gay things to you? What did you initially talk to him about that he is now calling so much?


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                Your post leaves so many questions unanswered.
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                • Brad Xtremepay
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by JMan
                  ICQ me his number l'ill sista or his home address would even be much better
                  What the J said.

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                  • Dwreck
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                    #10
                    OKOK I will stop
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                    • J-Reel
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                      #11
                      Answer the phone, and tell him to Fuck Off. It's not that tough.

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                      • sickkittens
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                        #12
                        Just answer and tell him to stop calling and that you're not interested. Some people are clueless and he probably thinks that there is still hope.

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                        • jimthefiend
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                          • Oct 2003
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                          #13
                          it would help me give you better advice if you flashed your rack.

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                          • axelcat
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                            #14
                            When he dosnt get the point after telling him numerous times

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                            • MPBWhitney
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by CDSmith
                              Why is he calling you?.... as in..... what does he want? Does he want to do gay things to you? What did you initially talk to him about that he is now calling so much?


                              And where do you get your hair cut?










                              Your post leaves so many questions unanswered.
                              He is calling ( ia m assuming) cuz he wants to hang out or something. I met him at a xmas party and we had lunch a few weeks later. We talked about lots of things mainly traveling etc just getting to know eachother.

                              Aaaand i get my hair cut at "head space"!
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                              • Rich
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                                • Jan 2003
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                                #16
                                Send him a blunt text message... fuck off, stop calling me. If he keeps calling, get a guy friend to call him and tell him to leave you alone. If you don't have anyone I'm sure you could find some volunteers here.

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                                • rocki
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                                  #17
                                  you should post his phone number here so we can stalk him back...

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                                  • MPBWhitney
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Rich
                                    Send him a blunt text message... fuck off, stop calling me. If he keeps calling, get a guy friend to call him and tell him to leave you alone. If you don't have anyone I'm sure you could find some volunteers here.
                                    Yeah I'm at the point whre i have to be really aggresssive. Its just not in my nature to be like that. I figured the cold shoulder and NEVER answering his calls or text messages would be enough. I guess not
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                                    • MetaMan
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                                      • Jan 2003
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                                      #19
                                      maybe you shouldnt have strung him along?
                                      maybe he thinks you just arent getting his calls.

                                      hah women

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                                      • pornstar2pac
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by DreamCumTrue
                                        Guys like that are just weird. Tell him he can't call like that because a) you use your phone for business or b) you aren't interested in him.

                                        The text messaging at 3 am is just plain rude. Doesn't he understand you need to sleep?




                                        He could be in europe and text messaging you at his lunch break not realizing it's 3:00am.



                                        or he can be a freak.
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                                        • BradShaw
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                                          #21
                                          If it is your boss, it is called sexual harassment.
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                                          • MPBWhitney
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by MetaMan
                                            maybe you shouldnt have strung him along?
                                            maybe he thinks you just arent getting his calls.

                                            hah women
                                            Nah i wasn't stringing shit along. We kicked it TWICE together, no sex was involved, no romanticism just a few drinks and sushi.

                                            I suppose i should not have been so vague and i should have just said "dude im not interested" but thats just not my personality. I felt bad at first... and now i fucked myself.
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                                            • boardersweetie
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                                              #23
                                              I can't tell you how many times me or close friends have had this happen to us. Depending on how gutsy you are, there are a lot of ways to deal with it. My roomie had me call her ex and tell him to fuck off. Another popular method that friends and I have used to deter stalker guys is to tell them you're a man-hating lesbian. You gotta add the man-hating part though or they'll get all these weird threesome fantasies. One last thing, it's my experience that telling a guy you have a boyfriend is NOT an effective deterent. They only see it as another hurdle to hop over.
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                                              • NiTe-HaWk
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                                                #24
                                                This dude wont stop calling and text messaging me. Despite the fact i have not returned his calls or text messages in well over two weeks. I have only reallymet him twice ....


                                                Does he cross the line when the calls come in three times a day and mid nite text messages at 3 am.?


                                                The dude's a creep. I dont want to call him and tell him to fuck off cuz i really dont want to speak to him. I will have to keep sending to voicemail until he stops i guess.
                                                Be very careful about guys like this they are fucked in the head normally. I had a friend that had this happen 2 her. She had to change her number and stuff to get him to stop calling her. He was married with kids too.
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                                                • NiTe-HaWk
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                                                  #25
                                                  Also document everything or the cops can not do anything if it gets worse. You also should just tell the police if it keeps up.
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                                                  • WiredGuy
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                                                    #26
                                                    Best way is really to just tell the guy you're not interested. If you don't want to tell him directly, leave him a voicemail and tell him that you're not interested in seeing him or make it casual like saying your not in a place to start a relationship or you're seeing someone else. This guy could just really like you (I can see why) and really be interested in you and if you let him down easy he'll likely go away. If not, the Jman approach should be used

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                                                    • block
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                                                      #27
                                                      I'm not sure what you should do, but obviously the guy might be a little crazy for calling so much. Try search on google for some good info maybe.

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                                                      • Mrdredd
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                                                        • Aug 2003
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by MPBWhitney
                                                        and now i fucked myself.

                                                        How many times do I gotta tell you to let me do that?

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                                                        • JustJen
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                                                          #29
                                                          Damn, Whit. I promise. I will sit Ian down and explain to him that he is just too old and creepy for you....... will that help?


                                                          shit. there goes Nice-Jen.


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                                                          • MPBWhitney
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by NiTe-HaWk
                                                            Be very careful about guys like this they are fucked in the head normally. I had a friend that had this happen 2 her. She had to change her number and stuff to get him to stop calling her. He was married with kids too.
                                                            I know its like he is seriously oblivious to the fact ihave not returned his calls. He seemed rather desperate to begin with which was why i stopped talking to him all together... he seemed too obsessed way too quickly!
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                                                            • Froey Twe
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by MPBWhitney


                                                              Nah i wasn't stringing shit along. We kicked it TWICE together, no sex was involved, no romanticism just a few drinks and sushi.

                                                              I suppose i should not have been so vague and i should have just said "dude im not interested" but thats just not my personality. I felt bad at first... and now i fucked myself.
                                                              hey that last part sounded good for a sec sorry to hear that you have a friend stalker, you should just tell him that it will never happen.

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                                                              • MPBWhitney
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                                Best way is really to just tell the guy you're not interested. If you don't want to tell him directly, leave him a voicemail and tell him that you're not interested in seeing him or make it casual like saying your not in a place to start a relationship or you're seeing someone else. This guy could just really like you (I can see why) and really be interested in you and if you let him down easy he'll likely go away. If not, the Jman approach should be used

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                                                                Yeah thanks sweetie i may need to sick my brutha' Jman on him... lol
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                                                                • dantheman
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  ANSWER MY CALLS DAMNIT!











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                                                                  • MPBWhitney
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by PornkingsJen
                                                                    Damn, Whit. I promise. I will sit Ian down and explain to him that he is just too old and creepy for you....... will that help?


                                                                    shit. there goes Nice-Jen.

                                                                    Hahahahahaha...
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                                                                      • Froey Twe
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by dantheman
                                                                        ANSWER MY CALLS DAMNIT!











                                                                        ahh its the stalker !!! kill him!

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                                                                        • yys
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          How's this guy stalking you? People throw that term around to easily. Have you told this guy your not interested and to stop calling and text messaging you? If not then get too it. If the guy starts showing up at your work and home or you see his car following you around town then you have a stalker. Otherwise you just have yourself a smitten suitor who needs to be told the deal.
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                                                                          • webair
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            politely ask him to stop calling you the next time he calls, if he doesn't get the hint at that point, it may be time for a restraining order...if that doesnt work:



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                                                                            • BradShaw
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Maybe he is upset customer about the spyware you guys installed on his pc. Or maybe he works for FTC and they are about to nail Charlo once again?
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                                                                              • MPBWhitney
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by yys
                                                                                How's this guy stalking you? People throw that term around to easily. Have you told this guy your not interested and to stop calling and text messaging you? If not then get too it. If the guy starts showing up at your work and home or you see his car following you around town then you have a stalker. Otherwise you just have yourself a smitten suitor who needs to be told the deal.
                                                                                I'm just pissed and yeah i told him to lay off and i would call him if i wanted to talk to him.
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                                                                                • CDSmith
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by MPBWhitney
                                                                                  He is calling ( ia m assuming) cuz he wants to hang out or something. I met him at a xmas party and we had lunch a few weeks later. We talked about lots of things mainly traveling etc just getting to know eachother.

                                                                                  Aaaand i get my hair cut at "head space"!
                                                                                  Oh, it's YOU Whitney..... color me clueless, I didn't recognize your nick at first... I thought you were one of the guys here..... ha ha.

                                                                                  So you spent some time with the guy and now he thinks he has a shot? Well, no need to be rude at least at first..... just answer one of his calls or message him back and say you're not interested, you've met someone else and won't be taking calls from anyone else. Period.

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                                                                                  • Rich
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by MPBWhitney


                                                                                    Yeah I'm at the point whre i have to be really aggresssive. Its just not in my nature to be like that. I figured the cold shoulder and NEVER answering his calls or text messages would be enough. I guess not
                                                                                    Some people can't take a hint.

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                                                                                    • yys
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by MPBWhitney


                                                                                      I'm just pissed and yeah i told him to lay off and i would call him if i wanted to talk to him.

                                                                                      see, you made the mistake of leaving him a glimmer of hope that maybe just maybe he still has a chance to get into your pants. Just be blunt with the next guy. No need to beat around the bushes when you know that you don't like him; no need to be mean when you tell him though either.

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                                                                                      • MPBWhitney
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                                        Oh, it's YOU Whitney..... color me clueless, I didn't recognize your nick at first... I thought you were one of the guys here..... ha ha.

                                                                                        So you spent some time with the guy and now he thinks he has a shot? Well, no need to be rude at least at first..... just answer one of his calls or message him back and say you're not interested, you've met someone else and won't be taking calls from anyone else. Period.

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                                                                                        What color would clueless be? ;)

                                                                                        Yeah i'm gonna text him something today i needed to rant for abit... its really annoying and irritating and warped for him to call SO much!
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                                                                                        • Libertine
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Simply tell him you're not interested. Not returning calls is not a good way of telling people... some people are rather blind.
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                                                                                          • WiredGuy
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by MPBWhitney
                                                                                            Yeah thanks sweetie i may need to sick my brutha' Jman on him... lol
                                                                                            Jman can definitely influence people
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                                                                                            • Detour-Diva
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by MPBWhitney
                                                                                              This dude wont stop calling and text messaging me. Despite the fact i have not returned his calls or text messages in well over two weeks. I have only reallymet him twice ....


                                                                                              Does he cross the line when the calls come in three times a day and mid nite text messages at 3 am.?


                                                                                              The dude's a creep. I dont want to call him and tell him to fuck off cuz i really dont want to speak to him. I will have to keep sending to voicemail until he stops i guess.
                                                                                              Hey Whit....we could send him a picture of my pregnant belly and your head with the caption... "Sorry I haven't been able to return your call...life has taken an unexpected turn!"

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                                                                                              • MPBWhitney
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by Detour-Diva


                                                                                                Hey Whit....we could send him a picture of my pregnant belly and your head with the caption... "Sorry I haven't been able to return your call...life has taken an unexpected turn!"

                                                                                                OMG LOL AHAHAHAHA Thats brilliant!
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                                                                                                • BlackCrayon
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by Rich


                                                                                                  Some people can't take a hint.
                                                                                                  hints are gay. why can't women just say straight up that they are not interested?
                                                                                                  you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                                                                                  • Detour-Diva
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by MPBWhitney


                                                                                                    OMG LOL AHAHAHAHA Thats brilliant!

                                                                                                    Hey...anything I can do to help!

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