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  • dropped9
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    Getting rid of a stalker? Help?

    Holy fucking shit do I have a fucking stalker... This guy is obsesed with me. What can I do to stop him? Any advice?
  • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
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    #2
    Umm...

    Enjoy it? Thats about all ya can do

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    • Headless
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      #3

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      • jimthefiend
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        #4
        shoot him in the eyeball

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        • Headless
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          #5
          Originally posted by jimthefiend
          shoot him in the eyeball
          If only it was that easy.


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          • jimthefiend
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            #6
            Originally posted by Headless


            If only it was that easy.



            its real fucking easy

            cock, point, pull


            bang

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            • mistersoft
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              #7
              How does he stalk you? What is the background?
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              • Headless
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                #8
                Originally posted by mistersoft
                How does he stalk you? What is the background?

                Do a search for my nickname. You will see him in every thread I post in. He has not stopped stalking me.

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                • nathan_f
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                  #9
                  Become very unattractive.

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                  • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Headless



                    Do a search for my nickname. You will see him in every thread I post in. He has not stopped stalking me.
                    Do you feel sexually threatened?

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                    • Headless
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by AlienQ


                      Do you feel sexually threatened?
                      Yes. He has started to talk about beastiality and his dog's "headcheese".

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                      • powerbubba
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                        #12
                        I'm not familiar with your situation, but I'm guessing you're running an adult site featuring yourself and a person has become infatuated through this website. The actual cause of infatuation doesn't matter, just seems scarier via the web. And it also sounds like this person is physically stalking you, so he knows where you live or work, or both.

                        I'm not sure what the local police would say or do, have you tried them?

                        If the police don't appear to be the solution, then ask a male friend, and have another accompany him, to approach this individual in a non-threatening way, that they have noticed him stalking you, take his picture, and tell him that you are not interested in the least. If they see him again, they'll call the police.

                        edited never mind, I see this is referring to simply the board
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                        • jimthefiend
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                          #13
                          Originally posted by powerbubba
                          I'm not familiar with your situation, but I'm guessing you're running an adult site featuring yourself and a person has become infatuated through this website. The actual cause of infatuation doesn't matter, just seems scarier via the web. And it also sounds like this person is physically stalking you, so he knows where you live or work, or both.

                          I'm not sure what the local police would say or do, have you tried them?

                          If the police don't appear to be the solution, then ask a male friend, and have another accompany him, to approach this individual in a non-threatening way, that they have noticed him stalking you, take his picture, and tell him that you are not interested in the least. If they see him again, they'll call the police.

                          once again you prove yourself to be the clueless moron ive been asserting that you are.

                          good job

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                          • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
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                            #14
                            Whats SFV? I said somthing stupid earlier today I just can not remember it...

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                            • Headless
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by powerbubba
                              I'm not familiar with your situation, but I'm guessing you're running an adult site featuring yourself and a person has become infatuated through this website. The actual cause of infatuation doesn't matter, just seems scarier via the web. And it also sounds like this person is physically stalking you, so he knows where you live or work, or both.

                              I'm not sure what the local police would say or do, have you tried them?

                              If the police don't appear to be the solution, then ask a male friend, and have another accompany him, to approach this individual in a non-threatening way, that they have noticed him stalking you, take his picture, and tell him that you are not interested in the least. If they see him again, they'll call the police.

                              Thanks for the advice. I can hold my own though. I am a big dude at 6'1. Im sure he knows enough about me. Hell im sure he will soon be popping his head in this thread.

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                              • KRL
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                                #16
                                I had a stalker who would follow all my UseNet Newsgroup posts when the Net began and report anything I posted which included my pay-per-call numbers to abuse. She was a real freak and would send me endless repetitive e-mails saying the Net is for educational purposes only. No commercial posting of any kind is allowed or will be tolerated.

                                Fucking real weirdo.
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                                • Rictor
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Headless
                                  Holy fucking shit do I have a fucking stalker... This guy is obsesed with me. What can I do to stop him? Any advice?
                                  Just let him suck your dick already. Maybe you'll like it.

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                                  • powerbubba
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                                    #18
                                    Thanks for the advice. I can hold my own though. I am a big dude at 6'1. Im sure he knows enough about me. Hell im sure he will soon be popping his head in this thread.
                                    funny! I was thinking you were a model or something....good to hear all's cool
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                                    • Headless
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by KRL
                                      I had a stalker who would follow all my UseNet Newsgroup posts when the Net began and report anything I posted which included my pay-per-call numbers to abuse. She was a real freak and would send me endless repetitive e-mails saying the Net is for educational purposes only. No commercial posting of any kind is allowed or will be tolerated.

                                      Fucking real weirdo.

                                      So you know my pain then. What did you do to get rid of them?

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                                      • AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE
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                                        #20
                                        Stalk the Stalker

                                        Anyone that thinks I am interesting I just fall in love with...

                                        My last stalker left me

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                                        • Gabriel
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                                          #21
                                          headless are you jive talkin'??
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                                          • Headless
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Rictor


                                            Just let him suck your dick already. Maybe you'll like it.
                                            You dont understand. I have tried various approaches. From full on combat to ignoring him. Now he has esculated to talking abaout his dog and beasty shit.

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                                            • Headless
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Gabriel
                                              headless are you jive talkin'??
                                              Dude do a search for my name... and threads... see what this fucker has been doing.

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                                              • KRL
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Headless



                                                So you know my pain then. What did you do to get rid of them?
                                                I stopped posting commercially in the Newsgroups. She went so far as to badger my ISP and got my account shut twice. Keep in mind this was in the very beginning. There weren't even adult sites yet. I was posting pics with 900 numbers on them.

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                                                • PrivateIvy
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                                                  #25
                                                  Completely ignoring them usually does the trick. Most just get off on any form of communication with you-good or bad.

                                                  IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE and they will go away eventually


                                                  Ivy

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                                                  • sternyduke
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                                                    #26
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                                                    • TheJimmy
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by KRL
                                                      I had a stalker who would follow all my UseNet Newsgroup posts when the Net began and report anything I posted which included my pay-per-call numbers to abuse. She was a real freak and would send me endless repetitive e-mails saying the Net is for educational purposes only. No commercial posting of any kind is allowed or will be tolerated.

                                                      Fucking real weirdo.

                                                      usenet nazis are the worst...

                                                      that's a fact...


                                                      well ok, them and the anti-spammers that run places like spamhaus, etc...



                                                      I'm sure they fit somewhere very specific in the DSM, if not they should get their own section one day...
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                                                      • Headless
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                                                        #28
                                                        I wonder why he hasnt posted in this thread yet?

                                                        Affraid to admit the truth maybe?

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                                                        • Head
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                                                          #29
                                                          Email Lensman and explain what's happening, and get him to ban him

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                                                          • beemk
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                                                            #30
                                                            shouldnt have had sex with him
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                                                            • KRL
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by TheJimmy



                                                              usenet nazis are the worst...

                                                              that's a fact...


                                                              well ok, them and the anti-spammers that run places like spamhaus, etc...



                                                              I'm sure they fit somewhere very specific in the DSM, if not they should get their own section one day...
                                                              No, this girl went beyond Nazi. She was obsessed. She started posting for her other UseNet Nazi pals to dial my 900 numbers then call the phone company and say you didn't make the call so I'd get hit with tons of chargebacks.

                                                              She was a real whacko on a mission.
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                                                              • mistersoft
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Headless



                                                                Do a search for my nickname. You will see him in every thread I post in. He has not stopped stalking me.

                                                                Oh - I h-a-t-e those.
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                                                                • AM Jeff
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  I have to admit.
                                                                  I am sexually attracted to Headless...








                                                                  Wait..wrong person.

                                                                  Feel the Rage Motherfucker. It's Coming Soon to a Browser near you.

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                                                                  • Headless
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by beemk
                                                                    shouldnt have had sex with him

                                                                    I know...

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                                                                    • AM Jeff
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Sorry Headless bro.
                                                                      I must been thinking about my bitch boy Dave.


                                                                      But you can be next..lol

                                                                      Feel the Rage Motherfucker. It's Coming Soon to a Browser near you.

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                                                                      • MeatAxe
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        kill him
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                                                                        • Steve
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Headless


                                                                          Dude do a search for my name... and threads... see what this fucker has been doing.
                                                                          that would require effort, and would make posting here similar to research, which is much to close to being work

                                                                          say who it is you mothufuckin pussy, or I will post in every goddamn thread you are ina and talk weird shit about dogs and headcheese!


                                                                          hahahaha I know that stuff bothers you bro, just out this freak so we can all play with him, too

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                                                                          • Jive
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by Headless


                                                                            Yes. He has started to talk about beastiality and his dog's "headcheese".
                                                                            basically you need to be alittle more polite ingeneral shut your fuckin mouth and ya that will start things rolling..

                                                                            we are in need of more real webmasters not more clowns like your self and these bullshiting moderators that are hurting the this board and haven't anything new to talk about nor is therte any business talk at all..

                                                                            you headcheese are just a goof.. move on dude!

                                                                            I just seperate the boys from the men and your a knee high and haven't earned much in the way of respect like a few on here..

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                                                                            • Manowar
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by Headless
                                                                              Holy fucking shit do I have a fucking stalker... This guy is obsesed with me. What can I do to stop him? Any advice?
                                                                              Inform him you dont swing that way and no matter how much he follows you, you wont change your mind - unless cash is offered

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                                                                              • Headless
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                He'sssssssssss baccccccccckkkkkkk

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                                                                                • Jive
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by Headless



                                                                                  Do a search for my nickname. You will see him in every thread I post in. He has not stopped stalking me.
                                                                                  you brought this attitude of yours to this forum and I don't except it.

                                                                                  smarten up be more helpful not just a talker? this is why you were canned from your radioshow..

                                                                                  as for this newbie below here your another idiot that has brought nothing to the board nor any respect. you just want to walk on everyone you have no manners same with some moderators on here they think everyone is a sucker and webmasters aren';t taking there shit lies and there shaving programs anymore..,
                                                                                  understand FIEND we hope so..

                                                                                  jimthefiend


                                                                                  again through all these threads from posters 90% are moderators employees and don't bring much to this forum.. this equals to a doomed board (my opinion) I liked it in the beginning but it's become a cyber circus with alot of sponsor/adds that you can't make any money from a (bill board) the only one making money is lensmen I hope.. good day..
                                                                                  Last edited by Jive; 01-27-2004, 11:11 AM.

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                                                                                  • Headless
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                                                                                    #42

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                                                                                    • Jive
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Headless
                                                                                      He'sssssssssss baccccccccckkkkkkk
                                                                                      do I bother you? I thought so..

                                                                                      read my post knob..
                                                                                      your the *prince of pun*..

                                                                                      and a fool..

                                                                                      now back to real business..

                                                                                      I have no more time for your lowend crap today headcheese..

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                                                                                      • mule
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by Jive


                                                                                        you brought this attitude of yours to this forum and I don't except it.

                                                                                        smarten up be more helpful not just a talker? this is why you were canned from your radioshow..

                                                                                        as for this newbie below here your another idiot that has brought nothing to the board nor any respect. you just want to walk on everyone you have no manners same with some moderators on here they think everyone is a sucker and webmasters aren';t taking there shit lies and there shaving programs anymore..,
                                                                                        understand FIEND we hope so..

                                                                                        jimthefiend


                                                                                        again through all these threads from posters 90% are moderators employees and don't bring much to this forum.. this equals to a doomed board (my opinion) I liked it in the beginning but it's become a cyber circus with alot of sponsor/adds that you can't make any money from a (bill board) the only one making money is lensmen I hope.. good day..
                                                                                        LOL
                                                                                        And who, exactly, were you?
                                                                                        Converting like a mofo

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                                                                                        • Headless
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by mule

                                                                                          LOL
                                                                                          And who, exactly, were you?
                                                                                          My stalker.

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                                                                                          • Jive
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Headless


                                                                                            My stalker.
                                                                                            actually this is another goof on this forum..
                                                                                            and should learn to shut it's mouth

                                                                                            right headcheese then I won't have any problems.

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                                                                                            • kmanrox
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              ask amp what to do... he had some...
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                                                                                              • ~MistressRacin~
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by PrivateIvy
                                                                                                Completely ignoring them usually does the trick. Most just get off on any form of communication with you-good or bad.

                                                                                                IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE and they will go away eventually


                                                                                                Ivy
                                                                                                Damn...I feel for you. I had (still have) a stalker..he is a fuckin' freak who's old enough to be my father but for 2 years has made my life miserable. I WAS a moderator at a non-adult board and he started stalking me there and hasn't stopped. He claims he loves me, is my "spiritual twin" blah, blah, fucking blah.
                                                                                                I've done everything, including threaten him with the authorities, my male friends have threatened to kick the shit out of him, etc. Nothing has worked. The only thing I am doing is ignoring him, blocking his email addy's, I no longer hang out at the board where I was a moderator for 3 years, and for the most part the contact has stopped.

                                                                                                The mentality of a true stalker is not normal. They believe in what they are doing and they believe they are right in everything they say. Most "normal" people would stop doing what their doing when you threaten them with the authorities, but a true stalker won't. The best thing you can do is ignore him and not feed into his fantasies by continuing to contact him with threats, etc. Any contact with a stalker only feeds on his delusions and he will continue with his contact with you. (Or she, since there are just as many crazy female stalkers out there as men).

                                                                                                Good luck to you.
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                                                                                                • Snowman
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Uhh, Make him FEAR You

                                                                                                  idiot

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                                                                                                  • Headless
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Jive


                                                                                                    actually this is another goof on this forum..
                                                                                                    and should learn to shut it's mouth

                                                                                                    right headcheese then I won't have any problems.

                                                                                                    Are you threatening me? Be careful with your answer.

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