Yeah, I don't get it either. I've never done e-mail marketing, but if I did I can't see sending more than a couple messages to any address advertising the same thing and certainly not on the same day.
As far as the refcode thing, if a webmaster has sent me a polite letter telling me about an affiliate program that's a different thing... I only remove the refcode in the case of someone spamming me with porn sites, just wanted to clarify that so no one thinks I'm being a dick about it
