wearing a condom for a lapdance is a bit to much..but i can see where he comes from, where i work it isnt even allowed to really grind and way to many times people cum, it is very strange, and in the club where we were allowed to grind, most girls wouldnt do it, cos men would just cum and you sit on a wet patch which is just nasty. Or you you just touch it with the bum once in a while during your dance and you slide over it and it just is wet and just want to
although you can consider it flattering?? maybe?