Gonna explain to my friends that I do porn on new years.

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  • Za Ha
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    • Oct 2001
    • 5112

    #1

    Gonna explain to my friends that I do porn on new years.

    Going to a hall with a few of my closest friends on new years and I decided I'll break to them that I do porn. I have to cause ppl are just too confused about where all my money comes from. It's as if I dont work and spend twice as much as any of them.

    Hope they take it pretty well. Ppl dont react good when they find out how much you make...
  • The Truth Hurts
    Zph7YXfjMhg
    • Nov 2002
    • 15786

    #2
    find some new friends.

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    • triumph
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      • Dec 2002
      • 3433

      #3
      just tell them that you are a marketing consultant on the internet.

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      • ThePornPusher
        Confirmed User
        • Oct 2003
        • 1823

        #4
        Good luck. If they are good friends, then there should be nothing to worry about.

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        • BV
          wtf
          • Sep 2001
          • 10914

          #5
          don't do it

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          • Spunky
            I need a beer
            • Jun 2002
            • 133978

            #6
            Really people don't seem to care.Its not illegal and they probably even seen your sites before.

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            • radical
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              • Oct 2003
              • 2876

              #7
              online digital pimp




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              • DarkBob
                Confirmed User
                • Jun 2001
                • 2300

                #8
                all my friends and family know what I do, why would I keep it a secret? some people have a problem with it, but fuck 'em...
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                • NoCarrier
                  We need more free porn
                  • Mar 2002
                  • 16356

                  #9
                  Huh!? Is there a special reason why you need to tell them?

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                  • serious
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2003
                    • 2594

                    #10
                    i dunno.. then you will have them all asking you to show them how to do it, which is next to impossible to fully explain to someone who doesn't understand anything. then they will want to try it themselves and expect you to do everything for them

                    better to just say your a consultant or something
                    new search

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                    • TheJimmy
                      ICQ- five seven 0 2 5 5 0
                      • Jan 2001
                      • 10747

                      #11
                      Originally posted by BV
                      don't do it
                      what he said...for a number of reasons...


                      1) they'll want you to teach them ALL how to do it...

                      2) they will tell a LOT more people that you may not want to know...about your biz...

                      and the list goes on....
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                      • MarinersFan
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                        • Jun 2003
                        • 121

                        #12
                        It depends on how old you are and what your friends and family do. If you're an 18 year old kid, most of your friends might think it's "cool." But I'm 47 years old. I own a mortgage company and I'm fairly well known in the community.

                        No way in hell would I ever tell anybody that I work in porn or online gambling! Even my kids don't know what I really do online. Whenever they ask, I just say I'm in "Internet Marketing"

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                        • BV
                          wtf
                          • Sep 2001
                          • 10914

                          #13
                          Originally posted by TheJimmy


                          what he said...for a number of reasons...


                          1) they'll want you to teach them ALL how to do it...

                          2) they will tell a LOT more people that you may not want to know...about your biz...

                          and the list goes on....

                          and on and on and on

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                          • Happy Dicks
                            Registered User
                            • Nov 2003
                            • 96

                            #14
                            Don't tell them. If you don't know how they'll take it by now, chances are some may not take it very well.

                            It's like, blurting out that you masturbate every day or something like that. Even though many people do it, sometimes it's just not the thing friends want to hear.

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                            • Ic3m4nZ
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                              • Aug 2003
                              • 6285

                              #15
                              Originally posted by TheJimmy


                              what he said...for a number of reasons...


                              1) they'll want you to teach them ALL how to do it...

                              2) they will tell a LOT more people that you may not want to know...about your biz...

                              and the list goes on....
                              Exactly what he said.

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                              • Naughty
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                                • Jul 2001
                                • 6483

                                #16
                                Are you a woman doing hardcore? Or a male webmaster?
                                seks.ai for sale - ping me

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                                • Za Ha
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Oct 2001
                                  • 5112

                                  #17
                                  Im 19, turning 20 in july.

                                  Male webmaster.

                                  I dont think they will take it that hard, and these are VERY GOOD friends, ones that I would do anything for.

                                  Im not gonna go too much into detail nor explain the exact $ amount.

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                                  • BlackCrayon
                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                    • Jun 2003
                                    • 19634

                                    #18
                                    my question is why did you feel you couldn't tell them before now if they are 'close' friends?
                                    you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                    • Corleone
                                      C.R.E.A.M
                                      • Apr 2003
                                      • 15262

                                      #19
                                      i've no prob telling the ppl i'm doing money with porn except of my family ;)

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                                      • mastamindz
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                                        • Feb 2002
                                        • 3547

                                        #20
                                        Everyone who knows me, knows I work in the industry. Hell even my Grandma knows
                                        If you click here, you will make money.

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                                        • Za Ha
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                                          • Oct 2001
                                          • 5112

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                          my question is why did you feel you couldn't tell them before now if they are 'close' friends?
                                          Cause the money was never "that" good nor was it stable. I didnt wanna explain what I do and then stop within the next 3 months.

                                          Now I want to do this almost full time (I am doing a biz degree which is why I dont do this full time) and think this is a better time to explain this.

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                                          • Za Ha
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Oct 2001
                                            • 5112

                                            #22
                                            Its also hard to explain that I do nothing (well physically) and make a ton of money, especailly when most of my friends do part time and earn a max of bout $700 a month....

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                                            • BV
                                              wtf
                                              • Sep 2001
                                              • 10914

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by mastamindz
                                              Everyone who knows me, knows I work in the industry. Hell even my Grandma knows
                                              me too!, that's why if i had it to do over again No One would know.

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                                              • frank7799
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Jul 2003
                                                • 1974

                                                #24
                                                Think twice before you tell them.

                                                I´m a lawyer and worked for several clients in the biz. Someday a client offered me to promote his site. Three month later I decided to quit my job as a lawyer and went into the biz fulltime.

                                                i was in the same situation as you are now. I decided to tell them because I think I haven´t something to hide.

                                                Now I have a lot of new friends and many old are gone. But who cares?

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                                                • Reak
                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                  • Mar 2003
                                                  • 17920

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by BV
                                                  don't do it
                                                  I'll put my money on that

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                                                  • MetaMan
                                                    I AM WEB 2.0
                                                    • Jan 2003
                                                    • 28682

                                                    #26
                                                    i have had the same friends since i was in jr high, everyone knows i sell porn, girlfriend, best friends, acquantences, everyone,

                                                    i dont see the big deal at all, they all know im not gonna tell them shit all how to make money or even exactly what i do,

                                                    everytime i go out someone is always like " so hows the porn doing " and i reply excellent.

                                                    why not? its just another job for me, i dont and never will see the big deal ( unless i launch mainstream ) but i will keep those 2 biz apart.

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                                                    • AdultNex
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                                                      • Feb 2003
                                                      • 8985

                                                      #27
                                                      1) they'll want you to teach them ALL how to do it...
                                                      ... And that is what wasted my time.

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                                                      • icedemon
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                                                        • Jun 2003
                                                        • 1022

                                                        #28
                                                        I wonder if rather your friends/family knows if you (meaning everybody) work in porn or not has to do with where you live. Like a person in Nebraska would probably less like to tell people he/she is in porn compared to someone from New York.

                                                        I have never really kept that I work in the adult industry a secret. I don't let a new girlfriend know right away, but eventually I tell them or they find out. If there is somebody I don't want to know, I just tell them I have a business on the internet. If they ask further, I tell them it's in the entertainment business and has to do with photography and/or movies.
                                                        Clips4Sale.com

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                                                        • Mr Pheer
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                          • 22082

                                                          #29
                                                          How you generate your income is your personal business. You dont have to explain yourself to anyone.

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                                                          • Roger
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                                                            • Jul 2003
                                                            • 3181

                                                            #30
                                                            Everyone I know knows what I do. No problem. Make sure to tell them that it's very hard work, requires lots of time and business is in decline just so they won't bother you about teaching them.

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                                                            • Adulter
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                                                              • Feb 2003
                                                              • 1252

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by Roger
                                                              Everyone I know knows what I do. No problem.
                                                              The same here.

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                                                              • Pornwolf
                                                                Drunk and Unruly
                                                                • Jan 2002
                                                                • 22712

                                                                #32
                                                                Don't do it. It will cause problems when you get older. Some things are just unecessary to explain.
                                                                I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade...

                                                                Webair, bitches.

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                                                                • Nezster
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                                                                  • Feb 2003
                                                                  • 2192

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by TheJimmy


                                                                  1) they'll want you to teach them ALL how to do it...
                                                                  that's what made me get into a very big fight/argument with a relative-cousin

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                                                                  • Rictor
                                                                    Old Timer
                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                    • 12208

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by Za Ha
                                                                    Going to a hall with a few of my closest friends on new years and I decided I'll break to them that I do porn. I have to cause ppl are just too confused about where all my money comes from. It's as if I dont work and spend twice as much as any of them.

                                                                    Hope they take it pretty well. Ppl dont react good when they find out how much you make...
                                                                    Can't you get kicked out of junior high for doing porn?

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                                                                    • crockett
                                                                      in a van by the river
                                                                      • May 2003
                                                                      • 76818

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by Roger
                                                                      Everyone I know knows what I do. No problem. Make sure to tell them that it's very hard work, requires lots of time and business is in decline just so they won't bother you about teaching them.
                                                                      that dosn't work... they still think you sit around the house all day jerking off..
                                                                      In November, you can vote for America's next president or its first dictator.

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                                                                      • Theo
                                                                        HAL 9000
                                                                        • May 2001
                                                                        • 34515

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by MrPheer
                                                                        How you generate your income is your personal business. You dont have to explain yourself to anyone.
                                                                        Yes,why to explain? You do internet marketing. Simple as that.

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                                                                        • Vitasoy
                                                                          GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
                                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                                          • 58202

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Soul_Rebel


                                                                          Yes,why to explain? You do internet marketing. Simple as that.

                                                                          that's what I tell them :-)


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                                                                          • phogirl69
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                                                                            • Jul 2001
                                                                            • 3330

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Trust me, no one will care if you sell porn because you're a guy. Just out of curiosity, what do guys think of female webmasters? There is always a double standard. Some guys think that I'm easy just because I sell porn on-line, even though I'm NOT a model, never have and never will, I just sit behind a pc all day.

                                                                            And some guys thought it was a "loser job" and not very respectable. Guys are getting very VERY picky these days. They want a girl who's super hot and built like a model, but she has to be going to graduate school and studying to be a pharmacist or dentist or something similar, and trust me, there are a LOT of girls like that out there these days. Their reaction to me is : "Doesn't she work or go to college?" "She just sits at home and sells porn all day? What a loser, I thought she had a REAL job at least."
                                                                            or "she sells porn, what kind of a person is she?"

                                                                            I am going back to school so it's a bit better I suppose, but people always judge women selling porn more harshly than men. A lot of men don't want to date someone who sells porn, they want the model type who's going to school to be a pharmacist or dentist. Some guys don't want to have a SERIOUS relationship with someone who sells porn, they will go out, but they don't think it's a very ambitious profession, like studying to be a doctor or lawyer.
                                                                            Last edited by phogirl69; 12-28-2003, 03:04 PM.

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                                                                            • Theo
                                                                              HAL 9000
                                                                              • May 2001
                                                                              • 34515

                                                                              #39
                                                                              women are different,they do not belong among us in this industry.

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                                                                              • phogirl69
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                                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                                • 3330

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                women are different,they do not belong among us in this industry.

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                                                                                • QualityMpegs
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                                                                                  • Feb 2003
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  I have met several people in this town that knew I did porn before I even met them...pisses me off in a way.

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                                                                                  • NoAngel
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                                                                                    • Oct 2003
                                                                                    • 333

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                    women are different,they do not belong among us in this industry.
                                                                                    Ouch

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                                                                                    • Theo
                                                                                      HAL 9000
                                                                                      • May 2001
                                                                                      • 34515

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      it was a joke ladies

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                                                                                      • Trax
                                                                                        [----------------------]
                                                                                        • Aug 2001
                                                                                        • 14486

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                        women are different,they do not belong among us in this industry.

                                                                                        thats why i love you soul
                                                                                        go to bed soon dude
                                                                                        its late already

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                                                                                        • Thor
                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                          • Aug 2001
                                                                                          • 721

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          tell them, its only a job, nothing to be embarrased about

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                                                                                          • phogirl69
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                                                                                            • Jul 2001
                                                                                            • 3330

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                            it was a joke ladies

                                                                                            Ok, i still love u

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                                                                                            • NoAngel
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                                                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                                                              • 333

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                                                                                              it was a joke ladies
                                                                                              Ok, then: KISS

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                                                                                              • Libertine
                                                                                                sex dwarf
                                                                                                • May 2002
                                                                                                • 17860

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Don't tell your friends that you do porn... they will tell others, who will tell others, who will tell others, ad nauseum. In the end, on every party you go to, people will come up to you to talk about porn.
                                                                                                /(bb|[^b]{2})/

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                                                                                                • Naughty
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                                                                                                  • Jul 2001
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by Za Ha
                                                                                                  Im 19, turning 20 in july.

                                                                                                  Male webmaster.

                                                                                                  I dont think they will take it that hard, and these are VERY GOOD friends, ones that I would do anything for.

                                                                                                  Im not gonna go too much into detail nor explain the exact $ amount.
                                                                                                  This once again proofs lots of minors on this board.
                                                                                                  July 2004 -> 20
                                                                                                  Oct 2001 -> 17
                                                                                                  You were here for almost a year at age 17.









                                                                                                  I'm tired .......
                                                                                                  seks.ai for sale - ping me

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                                                                                                  • SubSonic
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                                                                                                    • May 2003
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    hm ... wheres the problem to tell your friends, that you do porn??

                                                                                                    My whole family and all of my friends know, that i do porn. Its a job like any other. Ok, maybe not like any other, but for you, for me and for many others its just a normal dayjob. So who cares what the others are thinking? Its my life, not theirs.

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