Bad times, I need some help

50 condolences

Our deepest condolences. Times are tough here too, but we've sent a little something. If it can help others in their time of need -this is what this season is really about. Sorry it isn't for happier circumstances. May your dad R.I.P. Be strong for your mom and take good care of yourselves.

Trixxxia & Fil

Condolences as well.


Not going to poison your thread with my drama. But know you are not the only one in a horrible place right now. I feel for you and hope you've gotten the assistance you need.

Sorry I couldn't be a part of that...


To better days...

Thank you so much, and it's cool to just kick it with other webmasters from the area. I'm young but shit, we can sit down and have a few bears and discuss some ideas, or whatever.

I thank everyone so much, it seems thats all I've been saying, but it is, and to everyone donating I am trying to make sure I wriite them back, not on no copy/paste type shit either.

We appreciate it so much

I feel you've all helped me out so much, I'll keep you all posted on the situation and my point of view.

I found out, I am basically getting everything. My dad worked at IBM for 38 years. But he was a heavy alchy and it ate his body up. The doctors said he had the worse liver they had ever seen, shot lungs, clogged artiers, and an aneurism leaking down his back into his legs. Well, all that work went towards stuff like stocks, and long term money.

My dad had 2 daughters by another woman, not my mom. I don't even know the other women. My two sisters are both in their 30s, both established, both stable. I am just now turning 18. Yeah, okay, been in the biz a bit early but as long as you sending checks I'm promoting.

My dad figured, with my sisters being grown, and me being a child at the time, I am the one he needs to take care of.

My sisters got wind of this, and now they are trying to take control and go all out. They are pissing off my mother by wanting to mess with her sons grave. I had a twin brother that died at birth. They want to take that and put a whole new headstone.

Bad thing is, in my will they say my name is all throughout, but nothing about him. No one knows how he wanted buried, where he wanted, etc.

I wanted a viewing, they didn't... so we're having a viewing. They want him creamated, I said OK, we'll all take a peice of dad. But now they're trying to do all kinds of other shit.

I am just glad there is a will. I cannot believe that after my dad dying, all they're worried about is who gets what. It's so insane to me. I am actually glad if there is anything, if I get it... because I know I will make the best of it.

Anyways, thank you all so much and me and my family all send you best wishes during this holiday season

Brian
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bump...

A bad time to lose anyone especially your Father.

My Dad died of the same thing back in 1989, still miss him.

Sic/ Brian.

I'm right there with you. My father passed away last wednesday. I hadn't talked to him in over a year - so it came as a surprise to me. Like you father - he had drank and smoked all his life. Over a year ago his liver was down to 7%. He also had an anurism(sp?) ... that the doctors found ... almost by luck...3 years ago.

I'm not going to say any of the things everybody tries to say to make you feel better.... and I'm suer you understand why...but know that I'm right there with you...and I know you're there with me.

I'll be back around friday ... hit me up on icq if you feel like talking to somebody in the same boat 99463509

We had our thread battles before but I feel for you man.. I know what it's like to have somebody you love die.. not to your extent but I feel for you... my good buddy I grew up with had his father die about a month ago and he's ruined.. I can't help you through it like I can him but I can give you this...

Time heals and some day you'll be re united with him.. keep that in mind bro

Thanks man, when I get back I'll add you to my ICQ...

And Pad, thank you bro for the good words. It's very much appreciated.

Im truly sorry for your fathers passing.

Prayers and wishes to your family at this most difficult time

Thank you guys for all the help you have given Brian, me and his mom. We will be able to take the trip without running out of gas or starving. And because of the kind words our christmas will be just a little bit brighter.


As for fuckfind, we just might have to get up with you after our ordeal is over. We could just chill and have fun.

Everyone, again thank you for all of the kind words.

You will be in our prayers as well and keep us in yours.


Merry Christmas!



(BTW I got my shirt today and it came at the perfect time...
Thanks!!)

sent what i could,

peace and bump,
Mikey

Same from me

Soul Rebel ... fire me an email mikey at 219content D0T C0M and ill make him some money with your list. Ill give both of you full access to the stats, of course. Im not an opportunist slimeball, ive helped others raise money in times of need.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...ight=ron+klein (im mikeyspermberg on there, i changed my name cause spermberg was trademarked) ... i donated personally 2k out of pocket to that cause ... we saved the dudes life

peace,
Mikey

Wanted to tell everyone Merry Christmas!!

It's 2:21AM here now, I'll be leaving at 7. Hope everyone has a happy holidays.

I don't mean to make light of the situation, but judging by your nick, your situation seems chronic, I hope you work it all out..

God I'm fucknig wasted on Cognac, this is almost impossibele to type, I used the back key a WHOLE lot Merry Christmas mother fuckahs

Brian,

This is horrible, you lose your dad, your aunt, and I just noticed you lost your girlfriends uncle tragically only a month ago as well.
http://gofuckyourself.com/showthread...hreadid=199300 I hope you were able to afford that funeral, but then the tragedy of this funeral and the mounting expenses from all of this.

You really are experiencing a lot of grief and financial struggles just due to the all these mounting funeral costs.

My condolensces are with you and all of your relatives at these tragic times.

Chris

hey brian sorry i been super busy and havent been able to read this thread until now, I guess your probly gone now but if you need some more cash give me a call (same area code as before) 748 2364

-tom

I just got in

I'll make a post when I wake up. I feel it's only right to keep everyone posted. My two half sisters are a fucking trip, let me tell you.

Ever heard of someone taking pictures at a fucking funeral? My half sister (not by choice) took pictures of my father laying in his casket, and pictures of him laying there with her kids posing in front of the casket. This is the first thing I see when I get home and check my email.

Been a very long, stressful past couple of days. I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and damnit I'm GLAD new years is right around the fucking corner.

Hopefully this year I'll have some time to sit still for more than a week and get some work done, so I can pay these bills.

Happy Holidays GFY,
Brian

why was she taking pictrures?

I will explain the whole situation tomorrow when I wake up. But, I have no idea. Bitch shows up with a camera and starts snappin pictures like it's a god damn family reunion. I couldn't believe it, but I said "I'll let her deal with this her own way". My mom through it was DISGUSTING, and when the bitch emails me she tries to say my mom told her to send them.

The bitch is sick.

Not sure but when we walked into the funeral home she was standing there with her digital camera looking through the pictures and talking about how good he looked. She even stood her kids right next to te casket for pictures like it is a family reunion. Then after such a stressful painful ordeal, she sends them to Brians email. I'm sitting here like what the fuck is her problem. That's not something you take pictures of and the reminicse. She's sick and fuckin twisted. So Brian emailed her back tellin her that shit ain't normal. I am just disgusted.