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  • X37375787
    • Jul 2026

    #1

    What is your opinion on prenuptial agreements?

    Personally, I think prenups are a terrible thing. What kind of foundation is your relationship/marriage based on, if you prepare yourself for failure in advance?

    I am not married, nor ever divorced, but lately I have been thinking about marrying and this issue just came up with a friend... your opinion? I fuckin' dispise prenups...
  • juicylinks
    So Fucking Banned
    • Apr 2001
    • 122992

    #2
    Dude with divorce rate so high.....I think it is a necessity if you have sizable money and assets

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    • Spunky
      I need a beer
      • Jun 2002
      • 133987

      #3
      It's a damn good thing to cover your ass against those gold digging whores

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      • juicylinks
        So Fucking Banned
        • Apr 2001
        • 122992

        #4
        Imagine i get married then divorced then chick gets half.... then i will have to give her half of my post count on GFY...thats fucked up man if i have to do that

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        • SKULL
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          • Jun 2003
          • 1953

          #5
          I s a good thing...
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          • cherrylula
            lol
            • Jan 2002
            • 15969

            #6
            How about just don't marry someone if you are not sure if you trust them and their sense of morals.

            I don't understand why people take vows like "til death do us part" and then get divorced.

            I think they forget why they are getting married in the first place. Every single female I know that is married did it because they wanted some big stupid party and a pretty dress, or because she was pregnant.

            And then you have the xtians bitching about gay marriage. You mean those stupid parties where they release doves and shit? Who fucking cares.
            Last edited by cherrylula; 07-24-2004, 05:43 PM.

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            • KRL
              Entrepreneur
              • Oct 2002
              • 31429

              #7
              The reality is if you are wealthy and planning to get married you'd be foolish not to. Most women who go after guys with money are looking at their wallet from the get go. Wealthy guys know this from the get go too.

              A marriage is as much a business partnership as it is a love partnership. This is one of the reasons so many fail. They don't plan the business part out well.

              Just like when you set up an LLC or Corporation operating and shareholder's agreement its wise to plan for every eventuality if things don't work out as planned.

              Something like 1 out of 2 marriages fail. Those are lousy odds if you are a betting man. Marriage is thus a gamble. Better to have insurance on your bet then not.
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              • X37375787

                #8
                Originally posted by KRL
                The reality is if you are wealthy and planning to get married you'd be foolish not to. Most women who go after guys with money are looking at their wallet from the get go. Wealthy guys know this from the get go too.

                A marriage is as much a business partnership as it is a love partnership. This is one of the reasons so many fail. They don't plan the business part out well.

                Just like when you set up an LLC or Corporation operating and shareholder's agreement its wise to plan for every eventuality if things don't work out as planned.

                Something like 1 out of 2 marriages fail. Those are lousy odds if you are a betting man. Marriage is thus a gamble. Better to have insurance on your bet then not.

                I can fully understand it from the business point of view, especially if you have lots to loose. BUT! As Lula said, I must completely agree with her.

                Unless you are gulible, naïve and blinded easily, you should exactly know what you are "buying" into (like KRL said). Marriage is mainly about trust, and in my opinion you should either not marry the bitch if she's out for your dough, or not set yourself up for failure...

                Maybe I am too young to understand.

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                • UltraSonic
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jul 2004
                  • 1728

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Equinox
                  Personally, I think prenups are a terrible thing. What kind of foundation is your relationship/marriage based on, if you prepare yourself for failure in advance?
                  True but failure might not always be within your own power. Failure of a marriage might be out of your own hands so better safe then sorry.

                  Originally posted by Equinox

                  I am not married, nor ever divorced, but lately I have been thinking about marrying and this issue just came up with a friend... your opinion? I fuckin' dispise prenups...
                  I would do it, no doubt about it, i've seen to many marriages gone bad.
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                  • Trixie Racer
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                    • Aug 2003
                    • 2328

                    #10
                    Prenups are a neccessity. I wouldn't marry without one.
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                    • KRL
                      Entrepreneur
                      • Oct 2002
                      • 31429

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Equinox
                      I can fully understand it from the business point of view, especially if you have lots to loose. BUT! As Lula said, I must completely agree with her.

                      Unless you are gulible, naïve and blinded easily, you should exactly know what you are "buying" into (like KRL said). Marriage is mainly about trust, and in my opinion you should either not marry the bitch if she's out for your dough, or not set yourself up for failure...

                      Maybe I am too young to understand.
                      Trust these days in relationships?



                      Good luck finding that in someone. I don't even bother expecting or looking for it anymore. I just assume the worse from the get go and don't get disappointed anymore.
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                      • Lane
                        Will code for food...
                        • Apr 2001
                        • 8496

                        #12
                        I think prenup is more of a proof that you are marrying only for love. It should be considered as a good faith agreement.

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                        • 80smetal
                          Registered User
                          • Jun 2004
                          • 505

                          #13
                          I dont know, there not my thing but my wife makes well over 300k and she never once said shit about a prenup We been married 6 years and going strong.

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                          • chodadog
                            Confirmed User
                            • Apr 2002
                            • 9736

                            #14
                            I think if you feel you need one, you shouldn't be getting married. I think some people treat the idea of marriage too casually. There should be no thought of a "backup" plan when going into something like that. And people can throw divorce statistics at me all they want, if people would get married for the right reasons, and to the right people, those statistics wouldn't be as fucked up as they are.
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                            • Tom_PMs
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jun 2004
                              • 2049

                              #15
                              I wouldnt marry. Period. There is totally no need to get married. None.

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                              • 80smetal
                                Registered User
                                • Jun 2004
                                • 505

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Tom_PM
                                I wouldnt marry. Period. There is totally no need to get married. None.
                                I like the tax issues

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                                  • Jan 2004
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                                  #17
                                  Real love doesn't require a prenup. But it's hard to find real love these days
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                                  • BVF
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                                    • Jan 2002
                                    • 13975

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Equinox
                                    I am not married, nor ever divorced
                                    That statement alone invalidates everything that you just said.

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                                    • BVF
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                                      • Jan 2002
                                      • 13975

                                      #19
                                      and prenups don't just cover money...It covers custody issues also and that is a BIG part of a prenup.

                                      I'm telling you. A bitch will be all lovey dovey and all of that but wait until she gets pissed off....she WILL fuck you...If you think otherwise, you're an idiot.

                                      I wouldn't even get married again unless the woman was rich..but even then I'd want an agreement on the custody issues of any future children.

                                      And even if you get a prenup, it will still be challenged in court and that will cost you even more money to pay your lawyer to argue the validity of the prenup..

                                      Marriage is a lose/lose situation for a man. I'd only marry again if there were no kids and she was making more money than me.

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                                      • X37375787

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by BVF
                                        That statement alone invalidates everything that you just said.

                                        All I said is what I believe and how I plan on doing in the future with my future wife.

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                                        • Timbo
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Dec 2001
                                          • 550

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Trixie Racer
                                          Prenups are a neccessity. I wouldn't marry without one.
                                          I agree 110%

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                                          • KRL
                                            Entrepreneur
                                            • Oct 2002
                                            • 31429

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by BVF
                                            and prenups don't just cover money...It covers custody issues also and that is a BIG part of a prenup.

                                            I'm telling you. A bitch will be all lovey dovey and all of that but wait until she gets pissed off....she WILL fuck you...If you think otherwise, you're an idiot.

                                            I wouldn't even get married again unless the woman was rich..but even then I'd want an agreement on the custody issues of any future children.

                                            And even if you get a prenup, it will still be challenged in court and that will cost you even more money to pay your lawyer to argue the validity of the prenup..

                                            Marriage is a lose/lose situation for a man. I'd only marry again if there were no kids and she was making more money than me.
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                                            • rowan
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                                              • Mar 2002
                                              • 17393

                                              #23
                                              I'm in two minds about it. I'm recently married (approx 9 months ago) and I was considering a prenup. A friend pointed out that she becomes an implicit partner in my business when we tie the knot, which could cause some 'issues' if we ever split. I had a good think about it, also discussed it with her, but in the end I decided not to go ahead with it.

                                              I will bookmark this thread and get back to you guys if we ever divorce.

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                                              • Shoehorn!
                                                Die With Your Boots On
                                                • Oct 2003
                                                • 22872

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Equinox
                                                Personally, I think prenups are a terrible thing. What kind of foundation is your relationship/marriage based on, if you prepare yourself for failure in advance?

                                                I am not married, nor ever divorced, but lately I have been thinking about marrying and this issue just came up with a friend... your opinion? I fuckin' dispise prenups...
                                                If you have any assets, you should get one. But the chances of it actually holding up in court is a different story. I've seen it happen.

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                                                • Holly
                                                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                  • 10017

                                                  #25
                                                  To say that you just shouldn't marry someone if you're not 100% sure or committed, is being terribly naive. How many people do you think are divorced right now that were 150% positive they had found their soulmate for life and they would be married forever? It can happen to anyone.

                                                  If you've got assets or children, you should always get a prenup. If someone doesn't want to sign, then don't marry him/her. And if you're *positive* you'll never divorce, then it really doesn't matter anyway because you'll never need or see the paper again after you both sign it. Do it, put it away, and forget about it.


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