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Usually those who are star struck see the people they are obsessedabout as an embodyment of their greatest desires to suceed in something or have an undying feeling of devotion for a person that can not really be explained. It is mostly about how you are taught, when I was young my mother corrected me on calling someone an idol and also at putting all my faith in a human "roll model" especially if it was not a humanitarianist. Since then I have never put a human above myself because of their accomplishments, I honor them for their achievements but I do not see them as anything other than a person who worked at something that I did not or harder than me at something I did. Idolizing another human only assures you will have a mental road block in surpassing them.
I have also found treating people who have not wronged you with the same level of decency and respect to be the best way of dealing with life. I have met many stars and because I was not hopping up and down or feinting they talked to me, some even said thanks for being cool.
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