Posting personal information has gotten many people banned. Perhaps Lensman should have a look at your post. Let me give you a couple of clues on my sig graphic...
1. LINK HOTTEN
2.
http://images.google.com/images?q=gr...ie=UTF-8&hl=en
I hope you're a better "baby mama" than you are a detective.
I've been through the same thing with Candid. If they couldn't figure it out, you definitely can't.