You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
No love not even at Christmas time.
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I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
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That's why when you do something for someone do it because you want to and this way When These Ungrateful Bastards Dont Appreciate It,you don't sweat it
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take it in stride brah... better to let it go than start dropping hints to solicit a thanks....SIG TOO BIGComment
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Yes it really does considering how much money I have made this guy.Originally posted by johnbosh
taht sucks
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Bingo!Originally posted by Digipimp
I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.
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Actually that is a good point., you live and learn right.Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
take it in stride brah... better to let it go than start dropping hints to solicit a thanks....
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I do something nice, give advice and ideas or help nearly every day I'm at this computer and I'll bet you I get fucked on it and not thanks at least 90% of the time but I'm not sweating it yet. It shows me someones character and I feel good that I was able to give. And I move on and do it again without hesitation.
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But what about manners?Originally posted by Digipimp
I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.
Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?
It's two words.....Raven
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Well I don't have expectations of people so I'm either delighted or not disappointed. It's much easier that way, give because you want to give and that makes you feel good, I don't even wait for a thank you or anything, and if i don't get it then I don't help that person again because I've seen their character, but I'll never stop helping or giving to people until I stop living.Originally posted by Raven
But what about manners?
Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?
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I don't disagree with your philosophy. The point of giving is simple....you do it just because....Originally posted by Digipimp
Well I don't have expectations of people so I'm either delighted or not disappointed. It's much easier that way, give because you want to give and that makes you feel good, I don't even wait for a thank you or anything, and if i don't get it then I don't help that person again because I've seen their character, but I'll never stop helping or giving to people until I stop living.
Saying thank you is just good manners....it's not for reasons of gratitude or anything like that...
Just two words which acknowledge the giver. Nothing more. Nothing less.Raven
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I agree, I ALWAYS make a point of thanking people for anything they ever do for me. I guess that is just the way I was raised.Originally posted by Raven
But what about manners?
Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?
It's two words.....
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Well in my book words don't mean shit and I could care less about a thank you just because someone has good manners. If you appreciate me giving then give to me or others because you appreciate it being done for you.Originally posted by Raven
I don't disagree with your philosophy. The point of giving is simple....you do it just because....
Saying thank you is just good manners....it's not for reasons of gratitude or anything like that...
Just two words which acknowledge the giver. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Cheers hun
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If a person doesn't show appreciation for something in some appropriate way i just look at it as that's one less person i will ever have to do something for again , makes life alot easier in the long run ...... but yeah it sux too
Then again some people just have a hard time saying, thanks .Need a thumb mgp built ? Hit me up for pricing 110628430Comment
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i dont do shit for anyone anymore unless its cash upfront
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Cheers back, sweets...Originally posted by Digipimp
Well in my book words don't mean shit and I could care less about a thank you just because someone has good manners. If you appreciate me giving then give to me or others because you appreciate it being done for you.
Cheers hun
In all reality, why would you want to be a giver to someone who is a taker?
If someone can't take the two seconds it takes to acknowledge your effort.....what does that say about them?
There are such things as loving obligations....and the word obligation is not a dirty word...it's just two words which convey a feeling from the heart...that the receiver is saying thank you for thinking of me ...or thank you for doing this for me....
If I appreciate you, I will thank you and most likely give something back at some point....or maybe I won't be in a position to give back...but, shitheads who take what you've given and never say thank you tells me alot about the person.Raven
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Well we're not disagreeing, I just don't feel as though I'm going to give anyone a signifigant enough role in my life so as to change me being who I am and how I live. So I'll be me that's something I'm good at.Originally posted by Raven
Cheers back, sweets...
In all reality, why would you want to be a giver to someone who is a taker?
If someone can't take the two seconds it takes to acknowledge your effort.....what does that say about them?
There are such things as loving obligations....and the word obligation is not a dirty word...it's just two words which convey a feeling from the heart...that the receiver is saying thank you for thinking of me ...or thank you for doing this for me....
If I appreciate you, I will thank you and most likely give something back at some point....or maybe I won't be in a position to give back...but, shitheads who take what you've given and never say thank you tells me alot about the person.Comment
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Too bad but i'll tell u what; Make me some $$$ and i'll not only appreciate it i'll kiss your Harry Ass!Originally posted by DrinkingHard
Yes it really does considering how much money I have made this guy.
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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
OMFG, this is my biggest pet peeve in the world. I really *ENJOY* doing nice things for people I like. But it slays me when it is unappreciated. I don't expect everyone I do something nice for to do something exactly equal to what I did for them or anything. Often someone I do a favor for would almost by definition be in a different position from the one I am in.
But I hate feeling chumped and, if someone can not be bothered to say thanks and show appreciation, I feel like they think they were taking advantage, instead of me just being nice. So I might have done something just in the spirit of giving, but a lack of a simple genuine thank you makes me sort of retroactively feel differently from how I did at the time.Comment
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You are a great guy, DH...Originally posted by DrinkingHard
I agree, I ALWAYS make a point of thanking people for anything they ever do for me. I guess that is just the way I was raised.
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I think it's just nice, besides being good manners......
Then, everyone wins and we all feel good.....
Raven
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Awwww shucks thanks!Originally posted by Raven
You are a great guy, DH...
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Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.Originally posted by Raven
You are a great guy, DH...
I think it's just nice, besides being good manners......
Then, everyone wins and we all feel good.....
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Originally posted by Digipimp
I do something nice, give advice and ideas or help nearly every day I'm at this computer and I'll bet you I get fucked on it and not thanks at least 90% of the time but I'm not sweating it yet. It shows me someones character and I feel good that I was able to give. And I move on and do it again without hesitation.
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Not everyone has the class that you do bro, just keep doing what your doing and you'll be fine
Ya big Tranny lover
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Aw..you know you're one of the good guys.....but, just in case you didn't...Originally posted by Digipimp
Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.
You're one of the good guys...
Raven
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Did I tell you how much I really appreciate everything you've done for me? If not, I'm so sorry. I have never been so amazed by such generosity and care that you and GFY showed me.
Thank you a million times over. All of you.
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You're a great guyOriginally posted by Digipimp
Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.
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YAY ME, nothing like having a few hotties that like me.
Thank you kind ladies.
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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
I know the feeling... give it a few more days and hopefully they'll realize they forgot about you and make up for it in a great big gift just in time for xmas.
Or, just to cheer you up, picture us three dancing in LA
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Yeah........ WHERE IS THE LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!???Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
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actually i've gotten pretty used to it. seems like people take advantage of almost everything nowadaysComment
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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
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Yea, I fucking hate it, that's why I don't do shit, unless their really good friends of mine!Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.
No love not even at Christmas time.
DH
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Rip you are the tranny lover that lights up my life!Originally posted by rip raster
Not everyone has the class that you do bro, just keep doing what your doing and you'll be fine
Ya big Tranny lover
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Tala,Originally posted by Tala
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Did I tell you how much I really appreciate everything you've done for me? If not, I'm so sorry. I have never been so amazed by such generosity and care that you and GFY showed me.
Thank you a million times over. All of you.
Just for the record you were not the person I was referring about. LOL!
I hope you recover soon and have a wonderful Christmas.
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LOL! That image of us in that taco parlor will stay with me the rest of my life. God damn that was funny!Originally posted by WiredGuy
Or, just to cheer you up, picture us three dancing in LA
WG
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