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Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
It seems I got misunderstood. I don;t agree with alexg on the following:
"letting gay couples adopt children means forcing gay lifestyle and gay parents on the children, and I don't support that"
but I agree that gay couples adopting kids is not an easy yes.
It doesn't have anything to do with gay or lesbians. My concern is if the kids will manage to grew normally without psychological problems in a society that doesnt accept gay people as it should. There's nothing worse than a depressed kid, a kid with psychological problems. A single event, phrase, scene can affect a kid for a lifetime and that's what I worry the most.
If a single male parent can grow with no problems a kid, then two men can do the same.
It's not about who the parents are, but is related with the society standards. It's a question scientists are in better position to answer than the rest of us.
A grown man on his first sexual contact receives a negative comment and for the rest of his life is affected. Can you guarantee me for example that the comments about the sexuality of their parents in school won't affect them for a lifetime?
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yep, someone might get mad fun of, but life is tuff, being raised by two gay men, or raised by 2 woman is not the end of the world,
we have to live with the cards life deals us, and we are who we are because of the life we get delt,
people grow up without fathers, with parents in prison, with abusive parents and substance abusing parents, and others are poor, or interracial, or ugly, or fat, or whatever, they all get made fun of, have to over come adversity,
my point is, all people have the right to raise there own children,
and as far as adoptions go, there are good homes waiting for kids in gay homes,