DMOZ will help you get spidered, but that is about it. On the GOOD SIDE - the editors in the adult categories are not supposed to make judgements about your sites - like they do in all the other categories.
Usually they will accept your site if you follow the rules. Sometimes favortism and the like occurs. I recently submitted a VERY CLEAN story site - the editor looked at it within 6 hours of me submitting it, and it never made it to the listings.
In general, they will list clean sites, and it doesn't hurt you - so give it a shot.
Don't expect any real traffic from it though.
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