Since your talking hard links, here's something I found that seems pretty cool.... but they need more adult/alternative listings. I've talked with this guy and he seems like a straight shooter...but he's never promoted in adult...
What do you think about this kind of service:
http://linkadage.com
(and that's not even my referral url, so I'm not a 'spam slingin' thread hijacker
I'm after your honest
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Fyrflygrl