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Originally posted by galleryseek
Perhaps it is just me, but when I know my girlfriend is around guys (college) and some of which she has made friends with, I can't help but feel "uncomfortable". I trust her, and I know she wouldn't do anything, but irregardless of that fact, it still bothers me because of I know those guys intentions (99% pretty much want one thing when it comes to a pretty girl).
This state of being uncomfortable, can it be diminished over time? Or is this something nearly all guys regardless of trust must deal with?
We also have this thing where we will not lie to eachother, no matter what the question... And out of my moronic curiosity I asked her if she thinks one in particular is cute, and she basically said yes - although unwillingly because she knows this is something I obviously wouldn't want to hear.
But physical attraction is second nature, but I'd like and HOPE to believe that her physical attraction to them, doesn't control any aspect what-so-ever of her social relations with them. And I'm pretty confident that is the case with her.
We've been together for 2 years now, everything has gone smooth. But this is something new (her being around people cause of college) n' is something I have to deal with, and hopefully feel more at ease once time goes by.
Anyhow, that's the end of my rant. Let the FLAMES begin!!! 
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I read in an earlier post that hoes find insecurity a fault, and I wholeheartedly agree. Where it starts to get sticky is when you show absolutely no sense of jealousy when she hangs out with other guys. I don't understand that.. damned if you do, and damned if you don't. If you speak up about how you feel, then you're insecure and a puss. However, if you don't say a word about it, then you must not love/like her enough, because you're not jealous she's hanging around/out with college guys who think she's hot all day long at school.
Oh yeah, I just wanted to say that "irregardless" is not a word.