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Fiance wants to go into porn... whatcha think?
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Jennym - not directed at you. Preferences are what makes the world go round.Originally posted by jennym
codymc12 - Just in case your comment was directed towards me, I will respond. It is not so much that I have a problem with his girl being in porn, or swinging (which I don't understand how people can do either one, but that's just me) I think he is an idiot if he says "Oh yeah, cool, do porn, that's awesome....oh, btw, if you do, then we will have a conflict, so I can't marry you". My question is, how can he choose the pimpin' over marrying the girl?
BTW, even though I don't understand how you can be a swinger, I don't judge ANYBODY because of it!
Preaching is what I have a problem with. Particularly from anyone who makes a living off this industry.
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swinging and being in porn is different. with that said my personal morals have nothing to do with what i do in regards with my business. i keep work and play seperate. my personal view is that if you care/love this girl you won't whore her out.you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..Comment
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codymc12
When it comes to swingers, I have no problem. People agree to enter/enjoy the lifestyle, it's cool.
I base my reaction on the average, ordinary, everyday kind of reletionship.
If you want a monogomous relationship, then your girl mentioning that the idea of working in porn has crossed her mind is a bad thing.
If you live a swinging lifestyle - well, honestly, I wouldn't know.
Would that be a "cool, we can party AND make cash", or a "uh-oh, some of these people are way skankier than the crowd we run with" kind of deal?Comment
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First of all - I know all of the guys she has sex with. Just as she knows all the girls I have sex with.Originally posted by Gimmy
You speak as if you have any morals. Dude, letting your wife get bangged by some dude you even do not know is totally wrong. She is the mother of your children for Christs sake. She kisses your children after she sucked god knows who's cock. Think about it for a sec. And as for STD's, it does not matter if you wear a rubber, It's not 100% SAFE.
Maybe my opinions do not have any value with you because you do not have the morals and the correct reasoning to understand them.
As for STD's - neither of us have ever gotten one in 5 years of doing this.
As for morals - please be more original. That's just boring, boring, boring. Your definition of faithfulness is monagamy - which is fine. Our definition is not to violate the agreements we have between each other - and monagamy is not one of those agreements. It always amuses me that I never judge people who enjoy monagamy. Whereas people like you sure enjoy judging me.
As for your opinion having no value - it's because it doesn't. You can't speak on morality and be taken seriously by me. You didn't post a view, for the purposes of getting your opinion out there. You put up a hate post, full of venom.
In short, you were a prick, asshole, pick your term.
People like you disgust me. You make a living (well, you probably don't) off of porn, while you despise those involved in the hands on making of porn. Like the drug dealer who looks down on those he deals to.
You're a walking, blabbering, hateful contradiction. Your purpose is not to express your opinion, but merely to vent your hatred. Meaning your opinion is not an opinion at all - thus it has no value.Comment
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If you want a monagamous relationship, then yeah, you don't share your partner, period.Originally posted by Steve
codymc12
When it comes to swingers, I have no problem. People agree to enter/enjoy the lifestyle, it's cool.
I base my reaction on the average, ordinary, everyday kind of reletionship.
If you want a monogomous relationship, then your girl mentioning that the idea of working in porn has crossed her mind is a bad thing.
If you live a swinging lifestyle - well, honestly, I wouldn't know.
Would that be a "cool, we can party AND make cash", or a "uh-oh, some of these people are way skankier than the crowd we run with" kind of deal?
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with monagomy. I'm not saying swinging is 'the way'. And if it's not the way for you and your partner, then trying it will probably end your relationship.
But there's nothing wrong with it working for a couple, either. As for the last, here's how it works for us, and the actual evolution of it. We started a free site when we started swinging just for grins, but also because exhibitionism is a huge turn on for us. It was hugely popular and started eating up cash. Someone told us to charge a nominal fee. We did. It grew. Now we get to play with people we know and like, enjoy exhibitionism AND get paid to do it?
We find it a pretty good deal to make a living doing what we would be doing anyway.
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Is your wife that ugly and disgusting that you have to fuck other women?Originally posted by codymc12
First of all - I know all of the guys she has sex with. Just as she knows all the girls I have sex with.
As for STD's - neither of us have ever gotten one in 5 years of doing this.
As for morals - please be more original. That's just boring, boring, boring. Your definition of faithfulness is monagamy - which is fine. Our definition is not to violate the agreements we have between each other - and monagamy is not one of those agreements. It always amuses me that I never judge people who enjoy monagamy. Whereas people like you sure enjoy judging me.
As for your opinion having no value - it's because it doesn't. You can't speak on morality and be taken seriously by me. You didn't post a view, for the purposes of getting your opinion out there. You put up a hate post, full of venom.
In short, you were a prick, asshole, pick your term.
People like you disgust me. You make a living (well, you probably don't) off of porn, while you despise those involved in the hands on making of porn. Like the drug dealer who looks down on those he deals to.
You're a walking, blabbering, hateful contradiction. Your purpose is not to express your opinion, but merely to vent your hatred. Meaning your opinion is not an opinion at all - thus it has no value.Comment
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Cody... out of curiosity, how old are you and how long have you been a 'swinger' in total? You first said 6 yrs and then said 5... Enlighten this old lady will ya?<center><a target="_blank" href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac"><img border="0" src="http://216.130.172.224/gfy/gsig.gif" width="490" height="100"></a><br><a href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac" target="_blank"><b><font face="Arial"><font color="#FF99FF"> Buy me away from Slavedriver Smokey!<br>It's May Sig Sweeps!<font></b></center>Comment
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Originally posted by Battuss
Yup, nothing better than having your future wife fucked by a couple of guys on video!
I'd go for it!
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I'm 35, we met when were both 28... so 6 years would be the correct figure.Originally posted by Gemini
Cody... out of curiosity, how old are you and how long have you been a 'swinger' in total? You first said 6 yrs and then said 5... Enlighten this old lady will ya?Comment
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your relationship with her is already over. you just dont realize it yet. she is already actively trying to fill a void, either emotional or physical that she cannot satisfy with you. there is no other reason for people to want to be physically intimate with others, much less do it in front of many people and make a public record of it.
her telling you she wants to get into porn is just her subtle way of saying "fuck off loser, i can't stand being with you and you dont do anything for me"
dump her right now and walk away. you will regret it if you dont.
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Go for it bitch!
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Then your subject line is a bit misleading..Originally posted by com
no no, nothing of that sort. we've just come to realise that we're both very different people. and this is just something she's been interested in doing. so instead of getting married, having kids then ending in bitter divorce, we're going our own ways. but this seems like the best break up ive ever had.
How 'bout X-fiance'? That's a whole different ball game...Comment


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