I show a 3 for
http://www.consumptionjunction.com with 173 backlinks. I show a 0 for
http://www.consumptionjunction.com/home.asp, didn't check the backlinks.
As to why your a 3 and not 5 or 6 (don't think adult sites get any higher), I don't know. You need to hire a good SEO to work on the site.