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  • GeXus
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    • May 2003
    • 3320

    #51
    Originally posted by PersianKitty


    I've done the match.com, matchmaker.com and kiss.com things at one time or another. The people guys run the range of "I'll see when I can get a night away from my mother" to "here's the room number of the motel where I'll be in 30 minutes".
    lol..


    Are you telling them that you are involved in porn?

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    • Digipimp
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      • Mar 2003
      • 13481

      #52
      51 strokes on the Persian Kitty cli....... ah nevermind I don't have a chance.

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      • PersianKitty
        Meow Media Inc.
        • Jul 2001
        • 7785

        #53
        Originally posted by GeXus


        lol..


        Are you telling them that you are involved in porn?
        It depends. I start with the standard "I'm self-employed and do internet marketing, yadah yadah". If it's someone I talk to much and get interested in, then I tell them. I'm a pretty up front person. Take me as I am or get the heck outta my way.

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        • Furious_Female
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          • Oct 2002
          • 8187

          #54
          What is this 'sex' thing people speak of?

          Some lady on Dr. Phil was talking about this site one day http://www.millionairematch.com Of course it's probably made up of 97% gold diggers, but I bet there's some actual financially stable, decent guys there.
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          • goBigtime
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            • Nov 2002
            • 7761

            #55
            Am I the only one who doesn't understand how PK could be single for so long in this industry?


            Hmm maybe shes not really looking?

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            • kmanrox
              aka K-Man
              • Oct 2001
              • 29295

              #56
              Originally posted by xanx
              i still have never seen your pic
              nobody's ever seen her pic dude...
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              • PersianKitty
                Meow Media Inc.
                • Jul 2001
                • 7785

                #57
                Originally posted by kmanrox


                nobody's ever seen her pic dude...
                A few people have.

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                • goBigtime
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                  • Nov 2002
                  • 7761

                  #58
                  Originally posted by kmanrox


                  nobody's ever seen her pic dude...
                  Has she ever gone to a show or wm event?

                  [edit]... ah didnt know you were up.. Have you PK?

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                  • Furious_Female
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                    • Oct 2002
                    • 8187

                    #59
                    Originally posted by goBigtime
                    Am I the only one who doesn't understand how PK could be single for so long in this industry?


                    Hmm maybe shes not really looking?
                    I understand why she would be single in this industry or out of it. It's really hard to find someone to have an actual relationship with. Dating, casual sex etc etc anyone can do... but finding someone interesting enough and compatible with you for more, is a whole other story.
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                    • PersianKitty
                      Meow Media Inc.
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 7785

                      #60
                      Originally posted by goBigtime


                      Has she ever gone to a show or wm event?

                      [edit]... ah didnt know you were up.. Have you PK?
                      I'm up for a bit.. oldest son had to start work at 4 am this morning.

                      No I haven't.

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                      • PersianKitty
                        Meow Media Inc.
                        • Jul 2001
                        • 7785

                        #61
                        Originally posted by Furious_Female


                        I understand why she would be single in this industry or out of it. It's really hard to find someone to have an actual relationship with. Dating, casual sex etc etc anyone can do... but finding someone interesting enough and compatible with you for more, is a whole other story.
                        Even the dating and casual dating at this point is tough. As I mentioned, I've not come across someone secure enough financially in the past few years so that I don't end up having to pay for literally everything we do. Boy the stories of some of the leeches that I could tell. Even some.. nice guys...good intentions, but the $ get the best of them. My problem is, I remember the hard days of my life. Those days when the choices were mac 'n cheese or hot dogs and for how long so that I knew I had gas in the car to get to work until payday. I can sympathize with the guys trying to make ends meet, untl they start getting used to my ends and my means. Also, I dunno if it may be hard for someone to keep up with me 50/50 or even 40/60 for dating purposes. I like to go out to nice restaurants, movies, weekend trips, sporting events, and such..and when I go, I want to enjoy it so there's a premium for some of that. It's not that I've wanted/asked/etc for a guy to pay half the time, but to 'forget' the wallet or sit there and stare when the check comes for dinner when he was the one that asked me out to that particular restaurant... I start thinking twice.

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                        • ytcracker
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                          • Dec 2002
                          • 12403

                          #62
                          pk im married but we can kick it and be buddies and stuff go dutch - a lot of my "friends" are leeches - i can count my true bros on one hand.

                          in your situation theres a toss up because if you go young yes they are impressionable but they are ignorant. seems the older you go you might find more lifetime savvy people but they usually arent as malleable in their mannerisms and ways.
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                          • Furious_Female
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                            • Oct 2002
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                            #63
                            Originally posted by PersianKitty


                            Even the dating and casual dating at this point is tough. As I mentioned, I've not come across someone secure enough financially in the past few years so that I don't end up having to pay for literally everything we do. Boy the stories of some of the leeches that I could tell. Even some.. nice guys...good intentions, but the $ get the best of them. My problem is, I remember the hard days of my life. Those days when the choices were mac 'n cheese or hot dogs and for how long so that I knew I had gas in the car to get to work until payday. I can sympathize with the guys trying to make ends meet, untl they start getting used to my ends and my means. Also, I dunno if it may be hard for someone to keep up with me 50/50 or even 40/60 for dating purposes. I like to go out to nice restaurants, movies, weekend trips, sporting events, and such..and when I go, I want to enjoy it so there's a premium for some of that. It's not that I've wanted/asked/etc for a guy to pay half the time, but to 'forget' the wallet or sit there and stare when the check comes for dinner when he was the one that asked me out to that particular restaurant... I start thinking twice.
                            Yeah I know what you mean. Personally, I do not care how much or how little money a guy has... as long as he has ambition. If he works everyday, pays his bills and isn't looking for a handout, that's fine with me. A guy that has no job or no will to succeed is a major turn off. To me, it's not about them already being multi-millionaires, but I find it attractive when that is their goal and they want to work towards that and accomplish things on their own. They also have to know the difference between working too much, being neglectiveful and moderation. Sometimes being too hung up on money and materials things (selfishness) is even worse than being a pennyless leech.

                            I wouldn't want to be any guy's sugar mommy, but I have no problem helping someone through hard times, IF I know they would do the same for me and they don't plan on staying in that rut forever. Talk is cheap, so I like to see guys that are hard workers. Someone that can contribute equally to a relationship both financially and emotionally is ideal... but as long as they aren't using me for money and can support themselves, that's a start. I'm not materialistic, but sometimes when a guy buys a gift for a woman, it shows them "Hey I am not super wealthy but I want to do something that makes YOU happy and show you that I will sacrifice for you".
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                            • Digipimp
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                              • Mar 2003
                              • 13481

                              #64
                              Don't give up the coochie so easily and you ladies can have anything you want in a man.

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                              • Digipimp
                                BP4L OT DL
                                • Mar 2003
                                • 13481

                                #65
                                Originally posted by Furious_Female


                                Yeah I know what you mean. Personally, I do not care how much or how little money a guy has... as long as he has ambition. If he works everyday, pays his bills and isn't looking for a handout, that's fine with me. A guy that has no job or no will to succeed is a major turn off. To me, it's not about them already being multi-millionaires, but I find it attractive when that is their goal and they want to work towards that and accomplish things on their own. They also have to know the difference between working too much, being neglectiveful and moderation. Sometimes being too hung up on money and materials things (selfishness) is even worse than being a pennyless leech.

                                I wouldn't want to be any guy's sugar mommy, but I have no problem helping someone through hard times, IF I know they would do the same for me and they don't plan on staying in that rut forever. Talk is cheap, so I like to see guys that are hard workers. Someone that can contribute equally to a relationship both financially and emotionally is ideal... but as long as they aren't using me for money and can support themselves, that's a start. I'm not materialistic, but sometimes when a guy buys a gift for a woman, it shows them "Hey I am not super wealthy but I want to do something that makes YOU happy and show you that I will sacrifice for you".
                                You mean you're not finding any good men on LoveDollars?

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                                • Tuga
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                                  • Nov 2002
                                  • 7678

                                  #66
                                  I'm not making as much as I want to, but at least I belong to the 5% that have a sex life. PK, maybe you should take some time off and visit Portugal

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                                  • Furious_Female
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                                    • Oct 2002
                                    • 8187

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by Digipimp


                                    You mean you're not finding any good men on LoveDollars?
                                    I was never looking for a guy on Love Dollars or anywhere else. Are you having any luck finding a good woman amongst the cam girls you hit on, on ICQ?
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                                    • Digipimp
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                                      • Mar 2003
                                      • 13481

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by Furious_Female


                                      I was never looking for a guy on Love Dollars or anywhere else. Are you having any luck finding a good woman amongst the cam girls you hit on, on ICQ?
                                      Nah too much rejection, I've moved on to MSN it's fresh unconquered territory.

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                                      • Serge_Oprano
                                        So Fucking Banned
                                        • Feb 2002
                                        • 9820

                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by Tuga
                                        I'm not making as much as I want to, but at least I belong to the 5% that have a sex life. PK, maybe you should take some time off and visit Portugal
                                        PK and sig whore????

                                        nevaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!

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                                        • kmanrox
                                          aka K-Man
                                          • Oct 2001
                                          • 29295

                                          #70
                                          i'd hit it just so i could feel like i vicariously somehow had sex with a relative of the famous actress who shares your last name =) ;-)
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                                          • Markit
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Oct 2003
                                            • 1305

                                            #71
                                            WTF i cant belive this
                                            exactly the same happens to men with alot of money

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                                            • Dawgy
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                                              • Jul 2001
                                              • 5856

                                              #72
                                              omg i have seen i all now.

                                              a PK thread about sex

                                              i predict 3... no... 4 pages!
                                              the revolution is coming.

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                                              • johnbosh
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                                                • Aug 2002
                                                • 8965

                                                #73
                                                Originally posted by PersianKitty
                                                Oh wait.. I don't have a sex life.
                                                why not?

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                                                • Tuga
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                                                  • Nov 2002
                                                  • 7678

                                                  #74
                                                  Originally posted by Serge_Oprano


                                                  PK and sig whore????

                                                  nevaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!
                                                  Sig whore, board whore, attention whore, street whore, who cares? We're all whores and ing GFY there's no bigger whore than yourself.

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                                                  • Ross
                                                    Ik ben een aap
                                                    • Sep 2002
                                                    • 18874

                                                    #75
                                                    Sex sucks anyway, you're best off without it

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                                                    • slapass
                                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                      • Nov 2002
                                                      • 14625

                                                      #76
                                                      I have a very similar deal as a male webmaster. We don't meet people as we don't leave our houses. I have a friend with benefits that really helps.

                                                      Nothing beats proximity for creating a good relationship and I am closer to this damn board then any real people.

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                                                      • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                        WW4L
                                                        • Oct 2002
                                                        • 10581

                                                        #77
                                                        Sucks being the breadwinner in a relationship sometimes..

                                                        when i was dancing and making mega cash.. my b/f's thought that was reason to sit at home and live off of my ass...NOT! I wouldnt even spring for a pack of ciggs for them..lol


                                                        You definatalely need a man that is financially independent

                                                        I suggest taking up a new hobby this year and meeting different people. I'm married, but since i took up snowboarding and hiking.....I have met so many incredible people..
                                                        It's nice to get out of my element and expose myself to other walks of life

                                                        good luck..dildo suck..

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                                                        • RockDaddy
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                          • 750

                                                          #78
                                                          You should find a good looking Gyno and seduce him. To break the ice just write "Have You Seen My G-Spot" in lipstick on your tummy and maybe ask for some masturbation techiques.

                                                          Oh and wear some knee high boots with high heels and a dress with nothing underneath. And don't forget to trim first!

                                                          And moan a lot during the examination!

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                                                          • Brad-Wishing
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                            • 2415

                                                            #79
                                                            I'll just make this super easy for you PK. Marry me.

                                                            No more worries or hastles or dating sites. Simple.
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                                                            • Sin_Boy
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                                                              • Jun 2003
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                                                              #80
                                                              if persian doesn't really date within the industry...where has she met her previous dates...?
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                                                              • Hooper
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                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                • 2210

                                                                #81
                                                                pk. didnt they do a news byte on you about 4-5 years ago?

                                                                could have sworn i remember seeing a photo of you on there.
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                                                                • PersianKitty
                                                                  Meow Media Inc.
                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                  • 7785

                                                                  #82
                                                                  Originally posted by Hooper
                                                                  pk. didnt they do a news byte on you about 4-5 years ago?

                                                                  could have sworn i remember seeing a photo of you on there.
                                                                  Lots of news things a few years back. Never my pic on them unless they did it without my knowledge and if so I never heard about it.

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                                                                  • brand0n
                                                                    been very busy
                                                                    • Nov 2002
                                                                    • 26983

                                                                    #83
                                                                    you are so hot and u dont have a sex life? whats that about?
                                                                    want to buy this spot for cheap? it is of course for sale. long term deals are always the best bet. brand0n/ at/ a o l dot commies.

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                                                                    • kush2
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                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                      • 495

                                                                      #84
                                                                      PK,

                                                                      You already said you like the fancy restaurants and expensive events, so my advice will be a bit harder to apply - but I'll share my experience anyway.

                                                                      I'm an almost 21 year old college student making pretty good money from porn. Truth of the matter is, I try to retain a fairly low profile so I won't have trouble fitting in, having people jealous, attract unneccessary attention, etc. Plus whe I date I don't mind covering the bill most of the time, but if someone starts trying to take advantage of the fact that I have the money, I level with them about it.

                                                                      But my advice is try to maintain a somewhat lower profile, if you can. Don't flash the cash or be quick to tell about your earnings (or don't mention them at all). It's a bit easier for me because I haven't had a chance to develope the finer tastes of going out to those $100+ date trips to restaurants (plus what college kids normally go to these places?), but it doesn't hurt to take the trips to your Olive Gardens, your Chiles, or Salt Grass Steakhouses. Just because a plate costs $10-20 doesn't mean it isn't damn good ;)


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                                                                      • PersianKitty
                                                                        Meow Media Inc.
                                                                        • Jul 2001
                                                                        • 7785

                                                                        #85
                                                                        Originally posted by kush2
                                                                        PK,

                                                                        You already said you like the fancy restaurants and expensive events, so my advice will be a bit harder to apply - but I'll share my experience anyway.

                                                                        I'm an almost 21 year old college student making pretty good money from porn. Truth of the matter is, I try to retain a fairly low profile so I won't have trouble fitting in, having people jealous, attract unneccessary attention, etc. Plus whe I date I don't mind covering the bill most of the time, but if someone starts trying to take advantage of the fact that I have the money, I level with them about it.

                                                                        But my advice is try to maintain a somewhat lower profile, if you can. Don't flash the cash or be quick to tell about your earnings (or don't mention them at all). It's a bit easier for me because I haven't had a chance to develope the finer tastes of going out to those $100+ date trips to restaurants (plus what college kids normally go to these places?), but it doesn't hurt to take the trips to your Olive Gardens, your Chiles, or Salt Grass Steakhouses. Just because a plate costs $10-20 doesn't mean it isn't damn good ;)


                                                                        - Kush
                                                                        99% if my restaurant visits are local ones here to Applebees, Outback, Olive Garden and the like. Just because I like nice restaurants doesn't mean that's the only place I go. Also, I don't tell anyone what I make. Last guy I dated likened my income to a longshoreman (okay he was a truck driver), so he'd go around telling his friends I made around $100K a year. Boy was he wrong, but I wasn't about to tell him. I don't drive a fancy car (Ford Explorer), my only expensive vice is jewelry and artwork, but then no one knows if the diamonds are real or what grade or even gives it a thought. I can't hide the house, but it's no different than any executives house in the area.

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                                                                        • HS-Trixxxia
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                                                                          • Mar 2002
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                                                                          #86
                                                                          PK, I would keep it hush for as long as I could - I'd settle for whatever he's able to pay for (not to take advantage of him but to see his patterns) Whenever you decide you want something pricier - then you take care of the expense. If he decides to take you somewhere waits for you to pay, then I'd stand up and say I have to use the powderroom - if when you get back, the bill is still there with no credit card or cash waiting to clear it, then I'd take care of the bill and count my losses - tell him to take a hike immediately. If the guy is really nice and something about him does it for you, then have him do work on the side for you - build sites, generate traffic or what not as an employee. If he's game, great, if he's waiting for the ship to come in - get rid of him fast - real fast!

                                                                          I could understand your reservations about dating though - I had this problem with friends since I've been working since 12yrs old - always paid my own way - friends used to leech everything until I stopped carrying money with me - when they'd ask why I was broke I'd tell them because I was tired of being everyones' bank. If you can't afford the game - don't play!

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                                                                          • Digipimp
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                                                                            • Mar 2003
                                                                            • 13481

                                                                            #87
                                                                            It's pretty simple, if I ask someone somewhere then I pay always no matter what, if someone asks me they pay, if we both say hey let's go do this or that we split but I usually pay.

                                                                            If a guy asks you somewhere and doesn't pay, on principle alone you've got to drop him.

                                                                            Like I said I'll come live on the couch if you want.

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                                                                            • HS-Trixxxia
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                                                                              • Mar 2002
                                                                              • 2946

                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by PersianKitty


                                                                              99% if my restaurant visits are local ones here to Applebees, Outback, Olive Garden and the like. Just because I like nice restaurants doesn't mean that's the only place I go. Also, I don't tell anyone what I make. Last guy I dated likened my income to a longshoreman (okay he was a truck driver), so he'd go around telling his friends I made around $100K a year. Boy was he wrong, but I wasn't about to tell him. I don't drive a fancy car (Ford Explorer), my only expensive vice is jewelry and artwork, but then no one knows if the diamonds are real or what grade or even gives it a thought. I can't hide the house, but it's no different than any executives house in the area.
                                                                              I still think you should find a business association where you can meet people with a certain level of thought, can pay his own way and will have the discretion to keep your finances to himself. Not saying that opposites don't attract or that you should get rid of a guy who is honest, hardworking and a dedicated partner - they don't have to make 200k a year - just make sure you find one that doesn't change his lifestyle because he's dating you - oh that and make sure he's not the type to be talking about the money (that he doesn't have) either.

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                                                                              • scorpion3600
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                                                                                • Jan 2003
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                Maybe the circle of people you've spent time with were very money focused by virtue of their attitude and present situation, but love is a motivating factor so if they are not so wealthy and really like you, they'll want to improve themselves, and if they are successful then it won't be a concern...I have *never* heard of a guy unwilling to pay for a dinner for a girl he likes regardless of economic situation - but maybe that's old fashioned, who knows...

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                                                                                • -=HOAX=-
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                                                                                  • Dec 2001
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  To hell with all this noise about laying low and hush hush...PK, you take your fine self out to nice spots, treat yourself right, do the things you want to do.

                                                                                  Just keep your dates very plutonic at the outset...if you find your prospective bowing out siting a tight budget, ask yourself..."Is he worth me toning my lifestyle down a touch? Is he trying to sucker me into paying?" And we all know that spending an evening in the local bowling alley getting silly on bud light is a good time, don't be afraid to slum a bit. Plus it might indicate he's at least smart with his money.

                                                                                  Personally if I were you, I'd find some classy haunts. Upbeat jazz clubs, and the like...go with a girlfriend and let the men come to you. Live your live as your own best companion and others will want to join you.


                                                                                  OR! Ohh ohhhh ooh...this is good...get yourself a dinky lil apartment to pass off as your regular digs and find yourself a sugardaddy...then blow his mind when things turn serious. Hell it could be like a real life 'reality' show instead of Joe millionaire you could be poor Jill. Either way don't compromise your hard earned lifestyle in an effort to find a mate. Find a mate that lives your lifestyle. Get yerself a jigalo from adult.com in the mean time.
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                                                                                  • Babaganoosh
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                                                                                    • Nov 2001
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by PersianKitty
                                                                                    Oh wait.. I don't have a sex life.
                                                                                    How u doin'?
                                                                                    I like pie.

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                                                                                    • -=HOAX=-
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                                                                                      • Dec 2001
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      This cracks me up...love advice at GFY. Its really good stuff actually. The true range of GFY shines through.
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                                                                                      • Honeyslut
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                                                                                        • Jan 2001
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                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        I have met some interesting guys while working at a major bookstore.

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                                                                                        • kush2
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                                                                                          • Dec 2002
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Originally posted by PersianKitty


                                                                                          99% if my restaurant visits are local ones here to Applebees, Outback, Olive Garden and the like. Just because I like nice restaurants doesn't mean that's the only place I go. Also, I don't tell anyone what I make. Last guy I dated likened my income to a longshoreman (okay he was a truck driver), so he'd go around telling his friends I made around $100K a year. Boy was he wrong, but I wasn't about to tell him. I don't drive a fancy car (Ford Explorer), my only expensive vice is jewelry and artwork, but then no one knows if the diamonds are real or what grade or even gives it a thought. I can't hide the house, but it's no different than any executives house in the area.
                                                                                          I suppose I just got the wrong impression from your posts, sorry about that.

                                                                                          Don't give up. There is someone special for you out there, you just need to find him.

                                                                                          Keep swinging, and you're bound to connect.

                                                                                          - Kush
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                                                                                          • SuicideMachine
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                                                                                            • Sep 2003
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                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            i think you need a guy from holland like me pursian.
                                                                                            maybe someone that can design you tshirts for webmaster boards. sound familiar?

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                                                                                            • Peaches
                                                                                              Old broad
                                                                                              • Oct 2002
                                                                                              • 13933

                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              It's very hard for women in this biz to meet men outside of it and try to explain what we do w/o immediately being thought as someone who's going to have sex with them in the first 5 minutes.

                                                                                              Thankfully, I don't make squat for $$$ and I've only dated one guy who made less than I did. But it was perfect - he cleaned, cooked and helped me take care of the kid. He still earned a living, but I would have been fine if he'd done all that and not made a dime. Too bad his drinking got in the way.

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                                                                                              • PersianKitty
                                                                                                Meow Media Inc.
                                                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                                                • 7785

                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Both my husbands made less than I did (before I started on the net). It's not total income or who makes what that bothers me at all. I guess ultimately it comes down to ambition and respect. I don't know anyone that doesn't like to be wined and dined. Society teaches us that the guy pays. Well I don't have problems with footing the bill unless it becomes expected.

                                                                                                I don't even really care if I'm the one paying all the time, if the guy would just admit it and not play games, asking me out then 'forgetting the wallet' or heading to the bathroom or having to make a cell call at check time, etc. Just haven't met the right guy I guess.

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                                                                                                • axelcat
                                                                                                  Adult Locals
                                                                                                  • Jun 2002
                                                                                                  • 25450

                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  Originally posted by PersianKitty
                                                                                                  Oh wait.. I don't have a sex life.
                                                                                                  Listen just go out and buy a hooker and your set dude

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                                                                                                  • Oracle Porn
                                                                                                    Affiliate
                                                                                                    • Oct 2002
                                                                                                    • 24433

                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    Originally posted by PersianKitty
                                                                                                    Actually for me I guess it may be more by choice. After my divorce, my (then 12 or 13 year old) son got all 'man of the house' on me. Also it seems like all the men I've run into get way too comfortable in me paying for things. I need a Microsoft millionaire or at least someone who has a bit left over after they pay the bills each month just cause it's not nice to make PK feel used and taken for granted.

                                                                                                    So really I guess I gave up looking.
                                                                                                    give them top listings on your site


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                                                                                                    • PersianKitty
                                                                                                      Meow Media Inc.
                                                                                                      • Jul 2001
                                                                                                      • 7785

                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      Originally posted by axelcat


                                                                                                      Listen just go out and buy a hooker and your set dude
                                                                                                      I'm not a dude.

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