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Originally posted by RP Fade
True..but I think you become less ego driven as you mature. I think I use to care alot more about a woman's past than I do now. I also think that if a woman truly loves you, she is smart, and understand's some men's delicate egos, it's up to her to also make that irrelevant and help make you feel like you're the king of the world.
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I agree with you fully. As you mature, ego becomes less of a deal, because that's really all that you should care about - because you protect yourself. That's all maturity seems to be (there are of course many different areas of maturity), that's what I've learned about it - learning how to protect youself / safeguard yourself from all of the crap that exists.
I know I've fucked up, and each situation I have fucked up, I analyze it and try to figure it out. It kills me at times, but I hope I am a better person afterwards, and "more mature."
Something else I've realized is it takes a long time before you actually know someone. Kind of an obvious thing, but to understand it is different.
Cheers,
Matt