Does kissing a girl and sleeping in her bed (nothing more happened) make you obligated to her and tell her that you are hooking up with other people? This makes no sense to me. DId I do something wrong? I dont think so. Let me know. post related stories if this happens a lot.
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yeah but i only stayed with her like 4 times and this new girl is the one that is actaully cool. Im just saying im not obligated to tell a "hook-up" that Im going somewhere else.Originally posted by milhouse_dick
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her how it is.
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I hate to say it but this guy is rightOriginally posted by milhouse_dick
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her how it is.
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You have no obligation to 1st girl since no promise were made.
As far as decency, telling her the truth is a moral high ground.
Who knows, she may be ok with it if she's really into you and thinks she will eventually win you over. Some girls like competion early on.
Unless she's already acting like your girlfriend and you didn't lead her to that, you shouldn't continue to lead her on by not saying anything.
If she finds out on her own while thinking she's with you, you might be in for an even bigger confrontation and/or a bunch of tears, and that would make you feel bad especially if you knew you might have been able to prevent hurt feelings.
If you don't tell a girl where you stand in the relationship early on, they will be left on their own to assume what they want.
Misunderstandings can usually be avoided when you are clear about your intentions.
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Tell girl #1 that you didnt make any commitment with her and continue to see girl #2. If girl #1 doesnt like it, she can end the casual hookup.
I was in the same situation a while ago and unfortunately told girl #1 off and wasnt the nicest about it. I got mad because she was treating it as a relationship and giving me shit about not calling her and stuff when it was just a casual thing (and we BOTH agreed it was casual).
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Good advice all around, but i forgot to mention girl #1 knew i was kinda seeing someone before her (that fell thru before i hooked up with girl #1) and i just talked to girl #2 yesterday and fpound out we get along and then that night shit blows up. Guess that what I get for messin around with soroity girls.Like my new sigComment
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u slept with her and did nothing?Originally posted by RugbyChode
Does kissing a girl and sleeping in her bed (nothing more happened) make you obligated to her and tell her that you are hooking up with other people? This makes no sense to me. DId I do something wrong? I dont think so. Let me know. post related stories if this happens a lot.
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I am in the middle of "seeing" many girls at the same time...
while I got this one "more serious" one, we have agreed that it is only a relationship based on lust and sexual purposs...
I have not told her that i hook up with other girls
if she were to ask, I wouldn't lie, but I am not obligated to telling her how it really is
I Wont be surprised if she is seeing other guys as well
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GOT 'EMOriginally posted by sixxxth_sense
u slept with her and did nothing?
LOL a man thats saddddddComment
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Of course kissing a girl and sleeping in her bed will make her think you're with her... Put yourself in her shoes.Comment
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Better straighten up everything right from the start.Comment
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pretty much, but you would be surprised how much that happens in Florida. Ask my man Jmarzlak who does it for a livingOriginally posted by sixxxth_sense
u slept with her and did nothing?
LOL a man thats saddddddLast edited by RugbyChode; 06-02-2004, 01:05 AM.Like my new sigComment
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you just don't know how to pimp, you can't do it within a group of friends unless you are a true pimp. But you are learning ;)Originally posted by RugbyChode
pretty much, but you would be surprised how much that happens in Florida. Ask my man Jmarzlak who does it for a livingComment
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