I never really said
"******" or
"nigga", my close Haitian friend doesn't even let me me say
"Wigger", because it comes from: "White or Wannabe ******", but some others don't mind me saying
"******" (but I don't like that word anyways). I don't categorise ppl by their color, but by their nationality, because I do not think all black, asian or white people are the same (Except for the penis size). Every nation has their own culture and have their own mentality. Haitians are different from Jamaicains and Africans. French people are different from British and German people. Chinese people are different from Japanese and Korean people.
I'm sure your friend didn't say it to hurt you. Maybe he tried to be "fashionably late", and talk like everyone else, since he thought it was ok. You should talk to him, or maybe tell him to use
"black" or
"negro"(black in spanish) instead, I think it's more acceptable.
