How shallow are you? What's more important - Looks or Personality?

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  • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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    • Oct 2002
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    #51
    personality rules... looks dont mean shit if i cant stand the fucker

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    • smack
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      #52
      the girl gotta have both man. she has to be attractive and have a personality. and she can't be fat. god i hate fat chicks.
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      • goBigtime
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        #53
        Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


        Gotta love the Scottish





        Fess up girls... you know the guy above resembles at least one of your ex lovers.

        ... that long blonde maine, the pot belly, the... well you know...

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        • Furious_Female
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          • Oct 2002
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          #54
          Originally posted by TiGrrPrr
          whats your vote Furious_Female?
          My vote is for Personality. To be honest, looks are the last thing I even think about and I am not just saying that. I have no particular "taste" appearance wise... like it was said above, some of the most beautiful people can be ugly inside and vice versa.

          Personality: intelligence, common sense, sense of humor, loyalty etc are all I care about. Everything else is just a bonus. I think that "pretty boys" are usually boring, dumb, arrogant and disloyal. I prefer a guy who can use his brain and be nice looking, without thinking they are God's gift to women... all in one package. People become even more attractive to me, as their personality grows on me.
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          • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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            #55
            Originally posted by goBigtime






            Fess up girls... you know the guy above resembles at least one of your ex lovers.

            ... that long blonde maine, the pot belly, the... well you know...
            Haha, he had brown hair, not blonde. And no pot belly :P
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            • goBigtime
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              • Nov 2002
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              #56
              Looks - I am a male 14 45.16%
              Personality - I am a male 6 19.35%
              Yeah right. It's hard-wired for us. The poll for guys should have just been:



              Looks - I am a male 14 45.16%
              Personality - I haven't had sex in over a year 6 19.35%

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              • goBigtime
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                #57
                Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                Haha, he had brown hair, not blonde. And no pot belly :P
                Uh huh.. that might be how you remember him

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                • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                  #58
                  Originally posted by goBigtime


                  Uh huh.. that might be how you remember him
                  right, exactly. His wang was just so amazing I forgot to realize he resembled a pygmy pony. My bad.
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                  • Furious_Female
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                    • Oct 2002
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                    #59
                    Originally posted by smack
                    the girl gotta have both man. she has to be attractive and have a personality. and she can't be fat. god i hate fat chicks.
                    Same ole shallow smack. tsk tsk
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                    • goBigtime
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                      #60
                      Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                      right, exactly. His wang was just so amazing I forgot to realize he resembled a pygmy pony. My bad.
                      Err.. I was just referring to the pot belly...

                      Whatever powers your tractor I guess.

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                      • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                        #61
                        Originally posted by goBigtime


                        Err.. I was just referring to the pot belly...

                        Whatever powers your tractor I guess.

                        Oh dear.

                        This is why I need sleep. *cries*


                        Im going to Phoenix tomorrow to see Rasputina
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                        • goBigtime
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                          #62
                          Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                          Im going to Phoenix tomorrow to see Rasputina

                          Are you hitting on me?

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                          • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                            #63
                            Originally posted by goBigtime



                            Are you hitting on me?
                            Um, was " going to see Rasputina" slang for hitting on someone? Im not up to date with the new lingo.
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                            • goBigtime
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                              #64
                              Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                              Um, was " going to see Rasputina" slang for hitting on someone? Im not up to date with the new lingo.

                              I thought you knew I was near phoenix and my favorite group (next to the guy who wrote the teletubbies theme song) was Rasputina. My bad.

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                              • Furious_Female
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                                #65
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                                • goBigtime
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                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by Furious_Female
                                  Love is in the air


                                  If only.

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                                  • johnbosh
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                                    • Aug 2002
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                                    #67
                                    Both, she mus tlook good on first sight and have a great personality

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                                    • Furious_Female
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                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by goBigtime




                                      If only.
                                      How cute
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                                      • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by goBigtime



                                        I thought you knew I was near phoenix and my favorite group (next to the guy who wrote the teletubbies theme song) was Rasputina. My bad.
                                        Haha, no

                                        But its 10 bucks at the door. How can you beat that.
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                                        • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by Furious_Female


                                          How cute
                                          Aww
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                                          • goBigtime
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                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                                            Haha, no

                                            But its 10 bucks at the door. How can you beat that.

                                            Feel the flaming arrows Zoe, you can be one of the fakes

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                                            • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                              #72
                                              Originally posted by goBigtime



                                              Feel the flaming arrows Zoe, you can be one of the fakes
                                              Im so confused.
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                                              • goBigtime
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                                                #73
                                                Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                                                Im so confused.
                                                Damn I thought you were hardcore.

                                                Go listen to Hunters Kiss & Leechwife.

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                                                • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                                  #74
                                                  Originally posted by goBigtime


                                                  Damn I thought you were hardcore.

                                                  Go listen to Hunters Kiss & Leechwife.
                                                  Sorry, was thinking of the band Flaming Arrows and got confused.
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                                                  • milambur
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                                                    • Jan 2003
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                                                    #75
                                                    I judge girls after:
                                                    brains 40% IQ > 120
                                                    Personality 30%
                                                    Fitness 20%
                                                    Looks 10%

                                                    They need to have enough money to be selfsupportive cause I'm a cheap bastard!

                                                    Note : Im single......
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                                                    • quiet
                                                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP
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                                                      #76
                                                      intelligence is number one. i can't stand idiots... nothing physical can mask sheer stupidity. i like girls who are a little different from the usual, who naturally think outside the mainstream.

                                                      i'm also partial to redheads
                                                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                      • goBigtime
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                                                        #77
                                                        Actually I've never heard of Rasputina before 15 minutes ago... did I come off as knowing more about them them Zoe? Woo... fear the convincing powers of manipulation

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                                                        • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                                          #78
                                                          Originally posted by goBigtime
                                                          Actually I've never heard of Rasputina before 15 minutes ago... did I come off as knowing more about them them Zoe? Woo... fear the convincing powers of manipulation
                                                          *sigh* This is why I shouldnt stay up late posting on message boards.
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                                                          • goBigtime
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                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe


                                                            *sigh* This is why I shouldnt stay up late posting on message boards.
                                                            Aww don't worry Zoe, it just shows I'm willing to listen to you and give your interests more than a passing thought

                                                            (and also that you should stay on your toes)

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                                                            • Zoe_Zoebaboe
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                                                              #80
                                                              Originally posted by goBigtime


                                                              Aww don't worry Zoe, it just shows I'm willing to listen to you and give your interests more than a passing thought

                                                              (and also that you should stay on your toes)
                                                              *yawn*
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                                                              • myjah
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                                                                #81
                                                                i voted for personality...but then again i'm already married and my hubby is HOOOTTT! so i'm not sure if my vote should really count - lol
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                                                                • Libertine
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                                                                  #82
                                                                  Intelligence, personality, attractiveness are all necessary. There is no "more important" - if one of those things is lacking there's no chance in hell of a relationship working.
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                                                                  • basschick
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                                                                    #83
                                                                    i've been with two guys who were 10s and they sure weren't the great relationships of my life *shudder* punkworld, i totally disagree. my fiance is great, we've been totgether 5 years - and most people would rate him average, but WHAT a wonderful, funny, caring person!

                                                                    ever notice that some truly outstanding-looking women date average to homely men? i know women who have been happy with their mate for over 10 years and their men are actively homely.

                                                                    i was doing research for a relationship site for someone, and on all these boards for women, looks wasn't even fourth of things that the average woman looks for. sense of humor was the number one thing women wanted while men thought it was their looks or their money. (btw, guys - that didn't include a mean sense of humor or an overbearing sense of humor)

                                                                    at least women know where they stand with most men - it's looks *LOL*
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                                                                    • nofx
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                                                                      • Nov 2002
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                                                                      #84
                                                                      personality is always nice, looks is just an added bonus

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                                                                      • LadyMischief
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                                                                        #85
                                                                        I always think about it this way.. Personality is really important, if it's a keeper.. Looks are icing on the cake. Why? Because looks fade. things can happen that mar the looks, and if a relationship is based solely on skin deep, if something happens or time wears that away, you don't have anything left. Personality doesn't just go away with time.. It's the true keeper.

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                                                                        • tony299
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                                                                          #86
                                                                          Originally posted by Holly
                                                                          Neither. The most important ones - intelligence and wit. But I definitely think looks are lower down on the importance scale for females, than males.

                                                                          Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol

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                                                                          • FATPad
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                                                                            #87
                                                                            Personality (including intelligence, humor, etc) by far.
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                                                                            • IntenseCash
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                                                                              #88
                                                                              I met my gf off a internet match-making site. So I knew her personality first, I saw a small picture, but still never saw the details of her.

                                                                              I met her and she was so beautiful, its been a great 5 months thus far.

                                                                              So really I got the best of both worlds
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                                                                              • bigdog
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                hey what about money you never see a athlete with a average looking wife

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                                                                                • Furious_Female
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Isn't it interesting how not one woman voted for looks? I don't think it necessarily means we think men are ugly, if they have a good personality... I think women get turned on sexually by emotions more than physical attractions.
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                                                                                  • Tipsy
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by Furious_Female
                                                                                    Isn't it interesting how not one woman voted for looks? I don't think it necessarily means we think men are ugly, if they have a good personality... I think women get turned on sexually by emotions more than physical attractions.
                                                                                    I'd disagree totally and say it proves a lot of women lie including to themselves. Most women are at least as shallow as men on the looks/personality front but like to think of themselves as not being so.
                                                                                    Ignorance is never bliss.

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                                                                                    • tootie
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Wow, so far 0% of females admit to liking looks over personality? Either women are far cooler than men or we're bigger liars.

                                                                                      Oh, and how far does the personality over looks thing go? Those who said personality... do you mean you want someone with a good personality but they can be a little less than attractive (like maybe 20 pounds overweight or having a big nose), or do you mean you'd date a 250 pound woman with a hairy mole on her face if she was really sweet and could cook a mean lasagna? LOL

                                                                                      I'm curious as to whether there are any people who can truly say that if they fell in love with someone for their personality over the phone and then met that person in real life and they were truly hideous... would you still love them?

                                                                                      I chose personality. I've dated some truly gorgeous men and I've dated a couple of really, really homely guys who had outstanding personalities. So I'm not hypocritical when I say I choose personality. But I am curious about other people. Is anyone out there who truly doesn't care ANYTHING about looks?


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                                                                                      • Tipsy
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                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by tony404

                                                                                        Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol
                                                                                        Great example of my statement.
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                                                                                        • Holly
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Originally posted by tony404
                                                                                          Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol
                                                                                          That may be a myth for people who are picking their dates/mates at strip clubs, but as I have never done that, I don't think that applies to me.

                                                                                          I think the only thing your example proves is that good looks are more important for strippers, which I guess anyone knows. Unless you're wanting to have a relationship with or date a stripper (which is fine, btw, not meaning that's bad) then I don't see how that applies to everyone else.

                                                                                          And you're most definitely the first person I've ever come across to say seriously that "females are much more visual than men", lol. I guess the whole world of internet porn must have a flawed business model, right? I'm surprised anyone is making any money fooling with all you men.
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                                                                                          • Furious_Female
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                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            Originally posted by tootie
                                                                                            Wow, so far 0% of females admit to liking looks over personality? Either women are far cooler than men or we're bigger liars.

                                                                                            Oh, and how far does the personality over looks thing go? Those who said personality... do you mean you want someone with a good personality but they can be a little less than attractive (like maybe 20 pounds overweight or having a big nose), or do you mean you'd date a 250 pound woman with a hairy mole on her face if she was really sweet and could cook a mean lasagna? LOL

                                                                                            I'm curious as to whether there are any people who can truly say that if they fell in love with someone for their personality over the phone and then met that person in real life and they were truly hideous... would you still love them?

                                                                                            I chose personality. I've dated some truly gorgeous men and I've dated a couple of really, really homely guys who had outstanding personalities. So I'm not hypocritical when I say I choose personality. But I am curious about other people. Is anyone out there who truly doesn't care ANYTHING about looks?
                                                                                            I can testify to this, not the phone but the internet. I met a guy over the internet years ago and was crazy about him, regardless of what he looked like. Back in the day, when I wasn't too umm computer savvy, I didn't know how to open pic files on AOL (back in 96-97) Once it was downloaded and popped on the screen, that's about the ONLY time I would see it LOL ...So what he looked like, didn't even matter because I didn't see him like you normally would offline in the beginning. So it was all about personality and I got to a point that I didn't care what he looked like, as long as his personality made me melt.

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                                                                                            • Cassie
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                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              im gonna have to add to this poll and say in order:

                                                                                              1. ambition
                                                                                              2. personality
                                                                                              3. looks

                                                                                              a 300lb guy with no ambition to succeed is instantly 86'd from my book. take that same 300lb guy WITH ambition to succeed and everything else will fall into place cause he will have the personality i am looking for and he will be attractive to me.
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                                                                                              • evilklown
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                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Originally posted by chodadog
                                                                                                I'll admit, i was initially attracted to my girlfriend because of her looks. But the fact that her personality is as wonderful as it is, and she's as smart as she is, is the reason i've been with her for as long as i have. What someone looks like is important. You should be attracted to your partner on a physical level.

                                                                                                I have to say i agree. You dont walk through the mall and say "look at the morals on her." No you pull out "The Game" and if she turns out to be psycho hose beast hit the hills
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                                                                                                • smack
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                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  Originally posted by Furious_Female


                                                                                                  Same ole shallow smack. tsk tsk
                                                                                                  same sad old jenn out on her crusade to promote morality. heh. i knew just by putting that you would qoute it and cry about it later.

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                                                                                                  • Libertine
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                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    Originally posted by basschick
                                                                                                    punkworld, i totally disagree.


                                                                                                    How can you disagree with that? That's like disagreeing with someone when they are telling what *their* favorite food is
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                                                                                                    • Furious_Female
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                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      Originally posted by smack


                                                                                                      same sad old jenn out on her crusade to promote morality. heh. i knew just by putting that you would qoute it and cry about it later.

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