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  • Amputate Your Head
    There can be only one
    • Aug 2001
    • 39075

    #1

    if someone you know, family or friend...

    someone close to you.... was given only a few months to live... what would you do for them (or with them) before their time ran out?
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  • MetaMan
    I AM WEB 2.0
    • Jan 2003
    • 28682

    #2
    stop reminding them they r dying by doing things out of ordinary.

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    • boneprone
      Hall Of Fame
      • Jan 2001
      • 34415

      #3
      Take em to Vegas and get em the finest 3 hookers money can buy. All at once.

      There is no other way than 3 at a time.

      Good times.

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      • SilverTab
        Confirmed User
        • Nov 2001
        • 5060

        #4
        everything they want....I'd definitly try to spend all my times with him/her... Hope you're not asking because you're in this situation right now....
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        • boneprone
          Hall Of Fame
          • Jan 2001
          • 34415

          #5
          Thats if they were a buddy.

          IF they were an older person like a Grandpa or Aunt, or mom or somtehing of course it would be different.

          But if it were a buddy, thats what Id do.

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          • quiet
            we'll miss you our friend. RIP
            • Sep 2001
            • 25115

            #6
            take them somewhere they've always to go but where never able.
            we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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            • Peaches
              Old broad
              • Oct 2002
              • 13933

              #7
              Ask them what THEY wanted to me to do.

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              • Bishop
                Confirmed User
                • Jul 2003
                • 281

                #8
                Originally posted by boneprone
                Take em to Vegas and get em the finest 3 hookers money can buy. All at once.

                There is no other way than 3 at a time.

                Good times.
                Boneprone.. be my friend.. I'm dying.

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                • SleazyDream
                  I'm here for SPORT
                  • Jul 2001
                  • 41470

                  #9
                  Originally posted by quiet
                  take them somewhere they've always to go but where never able.
                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                  Now read without the word dog.

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                  • -=HOAX=-
                    Confirmed User
                    • Dec 2001
                    • 4365

                    #10
                    ASk them if they wanted to hang out...
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                    • boneprone
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Jan 2001
                      • 34415

                      #11
                      Truthfully the best thing you can do for anyone in a spot like this is to just be there for them. Be there to listen. Be there to cheer em up. Be there for them to cry on. The key is being there.

                      Doesnt really matter what you choose to do with them in those last days, weeks or months, becasue everyone's likes and dislikes are different.

                      The key is just being there.
                      To be there to do what they want to do, or to encourage them to do what they liked to do maybe once upon a time.

                      Everryone is different. But the key they share in common is that the best you can do for them is to be there for them. No one wants to die alone.
                      Last edited by boneprone; 09-30-2003, 11:45 AM.

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                      • Chris
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • May 2003
                        • 27880

                        #12
                        Treat them like a normal person
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                        • Ice
                          Confirmed User
                          • Nov 2002
                          • 26053

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
                          someone close to you.... was given only a few months to live... what would you do for them (or with them) before their time ran out?
                          Depends on how they felt about it.

                          If they didn't want any special attention I would just treat them as normal, although make the most of my time doing it.

                          If they were bummed out and feeling down and it was someone I really cared about I would go to the ends of the earth for them.
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                          • ytcracker
                            stc is the greatest
                            • Dec 2002
                            • 12403

                            #14
                            Originally posted by boneprone
                            Thats if they were a buddy.

                            IF they were an older person like a Grandpa or Aunt, or mom or somtehing of course it would be different.

                            But if it were a buddy, thats what Id do.
                            agreed with 1st and second post

                            life is about enjoying it as a gift
                            do what you can to let them live out the last days and go out on top
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                            • boneprone
                              Hall Of Fame
                              • Jan 2001
                              • 34415

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Bishop


                              Boneprone.. be my friend.. I'm dying.
                              Vegas 2004 January Internext.
                              We'll warm up the Boneprone Family Limmo, and head to Cheetahs.

                              Come back and get ya 3 of the finest and take you up to the room. They crew and I will wait for ya in the Grand Lux.

                              Send the gals down after you are done with em, and Ill pay the bill..

                              Its what we did for the black guy last year in Vegas..

                              Good times.

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                              Learn about it kids.

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                              • boneprone
                                Hall Of Fame
                                • Jan 2001
                                • 34415

                                #16
                                Originally posted by boneprone


                                Vegas 2004 January Internext.
                                We'll warm up the Boneprone Family Limmo, and head to Cheetahs.

                                Come back and get ya 3 of the finest and take you up to the room. They crew and I will wait for ya in the Grand Lux.

                                Send the gals down after you are done with em, and Ill pay the bill..

                                Its what we did for the black guy last year in Vegas..

                                Good times.
                                Oh wait....
                                We didnt pay the bill.

                                No wonder she was so pissed!

                                hehehehe

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                                • Reak
                                  So Fucking Banned
                                  • Mar 2003
                                  • 17920

                                  #17
                                  cheer him up, do a lot of things he would love. Going to a theme park, shopping, going out, casino, stripclub. You name it you do it. It should the best time of his life right..

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                                  • toonces
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Feb 2003
                                    • 453

                                    #18
                                    Just went through this. Do whatever they want. Just becuase you might always have wanted to see the Canary Islands doesn't man they have.
                                    Don't be afraid to touch them. Ask their advice (interesting perspective I'll tell you).

                                    Make the time as fun as their health will allow. Take risks yourself. I drove my car down a tiny bike path through a park we loved, to sit in a spot that we loved, and could have easily hiked to a few months before. We had a lot of laughs over that.
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                                    • Bishop
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Jul 2003
                                      • 281

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by boneprone


                                      Vegas 2004 January Internext.
                                      We'll warm up the Boneprone Family Limmo, and head to Cheetahs.

                                      Come back and get ya 3 of the finest and take you up to the room. They crew and I will wait for ya in the Grand Lux.

                                      Send the gals down after you are done with em, and Ill pay the bill..

                                      Its what we did for the black guy last year in Vegas..

                                      Good times.
                                      haha.. sounded like a good idea.. then I realized I would then have to die to make good on your offer. Oh well.. I know who to call if I ever get diagnosed terminal.

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                                      • boneprone
                                        Hall Of Fame
                                        • Jan 2001
                                        • 34415

                                        #20
                                        be sure to have your attorney draft up some papers for ya.
                                        When they are at the last leg and cant think straight, you can reward yourself for your time put in by having them sign over some of thier belongings left over or assets to you..

                                        It's what Anna Nichole did. And if that dumb bitch can pull it off, im sure you could too.

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                                        • JDog
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Feb 2003
                                          • 7453

                                          #21
                                          Act ordinary and let them know how much they mean to you! That's the thing I didn't do and I regret, someone in my family was given 6 months, and he was gone in 2 1/2 and I'll always feel bad because I didn't say one word to him

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                                          • boneprone
                                            Hall Of Fame
                                            • Jan 2001
                                            • 34415

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by toonces

                                            Don't be afraid to touch them.
                                            Pervert...

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                                            • toonces
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Feb 2003
                                              • 453

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by boneprone


                                              Pervert...
                                              No ,what's nice is that a post about someone dying turned into a hookers and partying in Vegas. Very nice and compassionatte.
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                                              • GigaChris
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                                                • Dec 2002
                                                • 1383

                                                #24
                                                what ever they wanted to do before they pass
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                                                • grogan
                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                  • Feb 2001
                                                  • 2284

                                                  #25
                                                  whatever they asked I guess,


                                                  or blow their brains out, depending in the situation perhaps.

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                                                  • boneprone
                                                    Hall Of Fame
                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                    • 34415

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by toonces


                                                    No ,what's nice is that a post about someone dying turned into a hookers and partying in Vegas. Very nice and compassionatte.
                                                    You dont like hookers and Vegas?

                                                    So if your buddy were dying and liked hookers and Vegas you'd say no, and have em laying in bed so you could "touch" him instead ehh?

                                                    Industry Hall Of Fame Legend Mike Jones
                                                    Bow to the Power - Still BP4L
                                                    http://gfyawards.com/hall-of-fame
                                                    Learn about it kids.

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                                                    • boneprone
                                                      Hall Of Fame
                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                      • 34415

                                                      #27
                                                      BTW, my cat's name is toonces..

                                                      I just kicked em in the head..

                                                      Dont make me do it again.

                                                      Industry Hall Of Fame Legend Mike Jones
                                                      Bow to the Power - Still BP4L
                                                      http://gfyawards.com/hall-of-fame
                                                      Learn about it kids.

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                                                      • Mr. Jim
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Mar 2003
                                                        • 4372

                                                        #28
                                                        It depends on who it is

                                                        If it were my grandmother we would drink ginger ale and watch match game and I would listen to how handsome Gene Rayburn is....because she met him once you know....


                                                        one of my buddies....pinned in an off shore boat drinking martini's right out of the shaker partying with Brazilian chicks who do not understand the language

                                                        all in who it is

                                                        although given the right mood g-ma might dig it too

                                                        I dont think my buddy and the brazilian chicks could dig on match game though....

                                                        Who is John Galt???
                                                        Last edited by Mr. Jim; 09-30-2003, 12:15 PM.

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                                                        • Mutt
                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                          • Sep 2002
                                                          • 34431

                                                          #29
                                                          everybody's different, don't assume what you would want is what this dying person wants. since you haven't actually been in the situation yourself even you don't know what you would want in the same situation. some people would choose to do things like go to a place they'd always wanted to go to and never mention their illness, others would choose to do nothing out of the ordinary. Dying people have lots of anger, if you patronize them and keep saying Pollyanish type stuff some will get very pissed off at you.
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                                                          • buddyjuf

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by boneprone
                                                            Truthfully the best thing you can do for anyone in a spot like this is to just be there for them. Be there to listen. Be there to cheer em up. Be there for them to cry on. The key is being there.

                                                            Doesnt really matter what you choose to do with them in those last days, weeks or months, becasue everyone's likes and dislikes are different.

                                                            The key is just being there.
                                                            To be there to do what they want to do, or to encourage them to do what they liked to do maybe once upon a time.

                                                            Everryone is different. But the key they share in common is that the best you can do for them is to be there for them. No one wants to die alone.
                                                            boneprone... has... feelings?

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                                                            • Nezster
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Feb 2003
                                                              • 2192

                                                              #31
                                                              take them to Hawaii! true paradise and if you have the time a trip all around the world

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                                                              • toonces
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Feb 2003
                                                                • 453

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                BTW, my cat's name is toonces..

                                                                I just kicked em in the head..

                                                                Dont make me do it again.
                                                                Ok well then you may want to get all the facts before you make a crude comment like that. I'm so mad or I'd blow this off. But what I meant by "touching" a dying person is me carrying my friend who went from 150lbs to 80lbs to get her out of the house because she was too weak to stand on her own. Everyone else was too flipped out to do it. 36-dead -pancreatic cancer-I was with her when she died. Your response was a degredation of her memory.
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                                                                • Ross
                                                                  Ik ben een aap
                                                                  • Sep 2002
                                                                  • 18874

                                                                  #33
                                                                  I'd make sure they enjoyed their time they had left!

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