Infantilism Niche (Disturbing)

Why do you find it disturbing?

it is disturbing - it's harmless but it's disturbing none the less. it's way out there. tell me you wouldn't be thrown for a loop if you walked in on your father/grandpa/boyfriend/husband and he was wearing diapers and acting like an infant.

Don't forget pooping and tinkling in their Depends

not MY cup of tea, but hey, whatever floats your boat and does not hurt anyone, who cares right?

You dont find it disturbing people that need to see a WOMAN dressed like a LITTLE BABY to get aroused ?

I do!

But to everyone it's tastes ...

Erm, thats really wierd

I went poopie in my diaper.

If you walked in on your parents playing any sort of kinky sex games, you'd be thrown for a loop -lol


Admittedly, we found the niche to be a little creepy too, until we did some extensive research.

Here is what we learned:

Infantalism / Adult Babies

When we take our first baby steps, our mommy smiles and excitedly says, "You did it, good for you. You took a step. What a wonderful and terrific baby you are - learning to walk all by yourself".
When daddy lets go of your two wheeler bike for the first time and we ride without training wheels, the excitement in his voice reinforces that fact that we have accomplished a GREAT thing. "Good boy, that's it, you're doing great", is what we hear.

When Mommy changes our diaper and it's dry, or when we sit on the potty and our pee splashes into the toilet for the first time, the sound of our mommy's voice reconfirms that we have done a GREAT thing. "Oh, what a wonderful big boy you are", we are likely to hear. "Now you are just like daddy, doing it in the toilet like a big boy".
Didn?t that praise feel great? Wasn?t that the most perfect time in your life? Have you ever experienced such nurturing again in your lifetime? Under periods of stress wouldn?t it be great to just regress to such a time, where there were no responsibilities, and nothing but praise for everything that you did? Infantilism is just as much a logical & reasonable reaction to stress, as is depression, neurosis, drug abuse, et al.
Essentially, such rewards are part of our cultural drive to mature. Therefore, regression into a state of infancy requires going against the grain of human development, which can be manifested in many ways: To want to reverse our bladder muscle so it leaks like a baby, to suck our thumb again, to poop in our pants, to sleep in a crib, to wear clothes with snaps in the crotch, to give up our ability to eat with a fork, to have someone hold a baby bottle with a nipple in our mouth. The list is endless.

For some, it a sexual role play situation, and for others, it is a secretive way of life. Some will wear diapers under their clothing to work as their 'naughty little secret' while others will only live their fetish in the deep, dark privacy of their home, alone, but living life to the fullest as an adult baby, even going so far as to eat baby food and drink baby formula out of bottles. These people find a feeling of safety and freedom in an infantile state where there is a perception of unconditional acceptance.

Diapers: Besides food and liquid, a baby needs to be held, to be talked to, looked at, touched, smiled at, played with and loved. Nothing is more symbolical of nurturing a baby or young child than the attention involved in diaper changes. In this process, a baby is touched and wiped and cleaned in (hopefully) a loving and caring way. Every sensation is involved, sight, touch, smell, and internal and external feeling. The nurturing parent looks at the baby (hopefully with a smile). The nurturing parent talks to the baby (hopefully sweetly). The nurturing parent touches the most sensitive parts of the baby's body. Therefore diaper changing is the most perfect metaphor possible for the act of nurturing that is required by a growing baby.

An infantilist seeks to recapture all the things he feels he is missing, or perhaps missed out on in their babyhood or early childhood. By using the metaphor of their fantasies of wearing diapers or becoming a baby, they can transform themselves into a state where all of their personality traits are acceptable, and they can be loved, nourished, praised and cherished.

The fantasies that Infantilists enjoy take many forms, from nurturing to dominance and submission. Humiliation is sometimes an important (and often welcome) part of the emotional element of infantilism. Many Infantilists enjoy humiliating experiences because they see them as part of the shift of power that they want to feel. Many fantasies, therefore, include such things as being forced to be a baby (against their will) or being taken out in public dressed as a baby (against their will). These ideas and feelings simply reinforce the metaphor of helplessness. Perhaps he is uncomfortable with the expectations of being a man, and seeks solace and comfort in fantasies and humiliating experiences; preferring to embrace his softer personality characteristics. He may become completely helpless and submissive to a sexual partner, being 'forced' to act/dress/behave like a baby, thereby giving up their power and responsibility.


There is strong evidence that Infantilism is not, in most cases, a fetish in the usual definition of this term. In a typical fetish, the individual gets satisfaction from an object or part of the body that is not normally sexual in nature. It is the feel or look or smell of the object that is sexually exciting, rather than any fantasy or emotional content surrounding the object. Many male Infantilists can probably get sexually aroused even if they are not wearing a diaper but are being treated like a baby or little boy or girl. It is the strong emotional factors explained in this paper that are more important, rather than any particular fetish object such as a diaper.

Nevertheless, a certain percentage of Infantilists are probably true fetishists in that they are strongly aroused by a diaper, but have no need or attraction to being a baby or child or any of the emotions we have been talking about. To the fetish Infantilist, it just feels sexually exciting to wear and wet a diaper, and sexual excitement is rarely present when not wearing a diaper.

Because the emotional content of the fantasies are much more important than the actual items used (diapers), Infantilism can not be viewed as true fetish, in most cases.

While a common misconception is that it's linked to pedophilia, quite the opposite is true. It's about the nurturing feeling of going back in time to when they were loved and taken care of completely and were babies themselves.

After learning more about it, and the psychological reasons behind it, no. No more than a guy who needs to be treated like a dog, trampled, or dressed like a woman ;-)

I was'nt singling you out, I had tried a search for free sex on yahoo, saw world sex on top, I click the category tehre and thats wen i saw the word infant? clicked on it and the rest is on this thread as history

infantalism has NOTHING to do with actual kids. In fact, a good number would be consider diaper lovers and as such their attraction is to the diapers and not any other aspect of being a child. It is not my thing but it is a big mistake to think it has anything to do with real kids. Ignorance is grand.

reminds me of a scene in the great black comedy 'eating raoul'. go rent it.

nice name.. i think you're made for that niche

Another Jerry Springer episode

Springer's already done it a few times, and he always finds the overboard freaks who are willing to breastfeed of their wives and sit in a playpen for the whole hour.

Most Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers just consider it another underwear choice. If a guy can wear a lacy panty to feel sexy, why not a diaper just for the hell of it?

that's strange.....

very odd, weirdest thing i've seen all day.


freaks

I find it more disturbing that so many people in the adult industry are close-minded retards who get their jollies by insulting the people who feed them.

"OOohh!!! Lookie dat!! So freaky!! Where's the cum on the bitch's face?? I don't get it!"

Why are so many people in this industry so out of touch with the realities of human sexuality beyond bukkake and gang bangs??

9 out of 10 posts on GFY are more disturbing that infantilism. Wait, 9 out of 10 posts on GFY *are* infantilism!

Very strange.

hand in your smut merchant license. Who the hell are any of US to be calling people freaks?

Welcome to the Adult Industry. Visitors, please pick up your day passes at the gift shop. Please do not deviate from the defined course, as you may find yourself disturbed, revolted, or otherwise put off your feed.

Exactly.

nothing new

ive done my fair dhare of this content and its more fun to do than the regular stuff

I don't think its offensive or anything. Whatever makes you happy!

Its a crazy world we live in

weir indeed!

now that is just weird ! omg

haha, yeah... thats pretty fucked up. I think I saw something about this on springer years ago.

No kidding!!

From the same site :

That's fucked up.

I think I own that content.

Seriously, I don't understand people whose job is to sell sex not knowing about sexuality.

stoopid

it`s really disturbing...

sick stuff. I don't get how someone gets off on that shit.

why is it disturbing? How is it any more disturbing than guys that like to look at pregnant women or lactating tits? Just like those 'kinks' it has nothing to do with actual kids.

Exactly!

Hey, there is pretty much a fetish for everything.
We have photo sets of girls in diapers if anyone needs them.

Flip through our "Specialty" section to find them.

Girls in Diapers

If you need custom diapers pics or video we can do that as well.

Bottom line, women are hot even if they happen to be wearing a diaper

I laugh my ass off when a model tells me she won't wear a diaper, but water sports, scat and fisting are okay!