A one time unethical practice in pursuit of a lifetime of happiness?
Well worth it in my opinion, I think he should definitely do it.
Many people have said he shouldn't be getting married - If he has to question her fidelity. Well fact is, regardless of your compatibility, how amazing you get along together, how wonderful your relationship is --- This trust/insecurity issue has no discretion. It doesn't come for the "bad relationships" and go with the "good relationships". It stays with you for life, and or until you seek solace. It (the trust factor) will become apparent with or without suspicious behavior practices by the person in question.
Why? Because love/companionship/ and all that goes out the wind0w when you have fear/insecurity issues. So no matter how perfect the girl/guy is, if a person has low self esteem and or have been hurt before? Fact is, the thought will always be in the back of their mind - In love or not, this character flaw will surface!
Thus - I feel one can meet their soul mate, fall deeply in love, get married, and still have a bit of anxiety when it comes to trust.
