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  • Frank The Tank
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    • Dec 2003
    • 3225
    #1

    Partner Fidlelity :: would you test it

    Someone i know is going out with a girl a long time now and hes a paranoid fucker .. shes gorgeous and i admit it myself but i know shes crazy about him .. now he wants to marry her but due to previous bad experiences hes paranoid about her fidelity and now has a crazy idea of offering a guy whos a well known womaniser whom is defintely her type money to try and seduce his gf to test her ..

    Now my question is would you do something similar - what do you think of this guy and his idea ..

    personally i think hes lost it ...lol
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    • EviLGuY
      So Fucking Banned
      • Apr 2003
      • 12745
      #2
      Thats fucked up. I can;t see that ending well at all. Best case she doesn't cheat and he feels all better, but what if the fact he ever did that to her came out?

      There are better ways to find out how a girl feels.

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        • ALiEn_OuT
          Confirmed User
          • Apr 2004
          • 577
          #3
          Should keeps updated as to the results ... now i'm curious

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            • Blinky
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              • Mar 2004
              • 268
              #4
              If you get the chance, tell the chick, make sure she doesn't fall for it, then everyone will be happy.

              I don't get it, why be crushed if someone cheats on you ? They obviously aren't worth going out with if they're like that, so just get over it.

              There's always someone better....

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                • Jakke PNG
                  ex-TeenGodFather
                  • Nov 2001
                  • 20306
                  #5
                  Originally posted by Blinky
                  If you get the chance, tell the chick, make sure she doesn't fall for it, then everyone will be happy.

                  I don't get it, why be crushed if someone cheats on you ? They obviously aren't worth going out with if they're like that, so just get over it.

                  There's always someone better....
                  Did you see the marry part of the post? I wouldn't be as lighthearted as you if I wanted to marry someone. She cheats, let's get over it. I couldn't. I'd drop the bitch in a heartbeat.
                  ..and I'm off.

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                    • Frank The Tank
                      Confirmed User
                      • Dec 2003
                      • 3225
                      #6
                      ill keep yall posted but i think if she cheats BEFORE the marriage proposal then at least he has the comfort that he doesnt have to go through all the expenses of a wedding and divorces and knows shes not the one he wants to spend his life with
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                        • DR_PHIL
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                          • Oct 2002
                          • 4099
                          #7
                          if there is any doubt, then they dont need to get married.

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                            • SykkBoy2
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                              • Feb 2001
                              • 19969
                              #8
                              Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                              Did you see the marry part of the post? I wouldn't be as lighthearted as you if I wanted to marry someone. She cheats, let's get over it. I couldn't. I'd drop the bitch in a heartbeat.
                              if he can't trust her, then there's no reason to be married...
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                                • stev0
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                                  • Aug 2003
                                  • 6801
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by SykkBoy2
                                  if he can't trust her, then there's no reason to be married...
                                  That's what i was thinking too.... why would you want to marry someone you think might cheat on you?

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                                    • TheEnforcer
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                                      • May 2001
                                      • 2855
                                      #10
                                      The dude most certainly lost it.
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                                        • monica
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                                          • Feb 2004
                                          • 220
                                          #11
                                          It's wrong, plain and simple. You just have to close your eyes and trust when you are in love. And yes, sometimes you are going to get burned, but isn't it worth the risk?
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                                            • Jakke PNG
                                              ex-TeenGodFather
                                              • Nov 2001
                                              • 20306
                                              #12
                                              Originally posted by SykkBoy2
                                              if he can't trust her, then there's no reason to be married...
                                              Maybe he does. What does the test hurt?
                                              ..and I'm off.

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                                                • Jakke PNG
                                                  ex-TeenGodFather
                                                  • Nov 2001
                                                  • 20306
                                                  #13
                                                  Originally posted by monica
                                                  It's wrong, plain and simple. You just have to close your eyes and trust when you are in love. And yes, sometimes you are going to get burned, but isn't it worth the risk?
                                                  Why is it wrong?
                                                  ..and I'm off.

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                                                    • Furious_Male
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                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                      • 16884
                                                      #14
                                                      Originally posted by monica
                                                      It's wrong, plain and simple. You just have to close your eyes and trust when you are in love. And yes, sometimes you are going to get burned, but isn't it worth the risk?
                                                      Sounds like hes closed his eyes and went in blind one to many times and now hes had enough. I guess I can't blame him.

                                                      On the flip side I am not sure how healthy this is to start out a marriage. Perhaps he should seek the advice of a professional.
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                                                        • Jaden
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                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                          • 151
                                                          #15
                                                          yep you can bet your ass next time around I am going to be doing some serious digging to keep from screwed again. Not unethical at all. And I would have no problem with someone checking up on me for the same reasons....Do what you are supposed to do and it won't matter who is watching when.

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                                                            • Frank The Tank
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                                                              • Dec 2003
                                                              • 3225
                                                              #16
                                                              Originally posted by SykkBoy2
                                                              if he can't trust her, then there's no reason to be married...

                                                              i dont think hes that he cant trust HER hes been burned twice already and has a hard time trusting ANYWHERE
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                                                                • jwerd
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                                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                                  • 1953
                                                                  #17
                                                                  Originally posted by basadmin
                                                                  Someone i know is going out with a girl a long time now and hes a paranoid fucker .. shes gorgeous and i admit it myself but i know shes crazy about him .. now he wants to marry her but due to previous bad experiences hes paranoid about her fidelity and now has a crazy idea of offering a guy whos a well known womaniser whom is defintely her type money to try and seduce his gf to test her ..

                                                                  Now my question is would you do something similar - what do you think of this guy and his idea ..

                                                                  personally i think hes lost it ...lol
                                                                  Trust is everything. If he doesn't trust her and wants to "test" her, that just isn't going to work and he needs to move on.
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                                                                    • Raf1
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                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                      • 12117
                                                                      #18
                                                                      I wouldn't do it, but if it makes him feel better...
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                                                                        • torrey
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                                                                          • Jan 2004
                                                                          • 1656
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Walk away.

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                                                                            • Kassidy
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                                                                              • Jul 2003
                                                                              • 1219
                                                                              #20
                                                                              If he can't trust her, he's not ready for a serious commited relationship. And if she ever found out that he did that, he'd probably lose her anyway.

                                                                              Perhaps he'd be better off spending his money on some therapy.


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                                                                                • kimzar
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                                                                                  • Mar 2004
                                                                                  • 1874
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  the movie "kissing a fool"
                                                                                  relationships are hard enough as is, why make them harder, if he doesnt trust her then thats his problem, even if she passes this initial test that doesnt mean it might not happen down the line

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                                                                                    • StickyGreen
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                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                      • 13076
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      thats a bad situation overall and probably wont have happy results...im curious how that turns out though...
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                                                                                        • AVM
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                                                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                                                          • 1890
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          A one time unethical practice in pursuit of a lifetime of happiness?
                                                                                          Well worth it in my opinion, I think he should definitely do it.

                                                                                          Many people have said he shouldn't be getting married - If he has to question her fidelity. Well fact is, regardless of your compatibility, how amazing you get along together, how wonderful your relationship is --- This trust/insecurity issue has no discretion. It doesn't come for the "bad relationships" and go with the "good relationships". It stays with you for life, and or until you seek solace. It (the trust factor) will become apparent with or without suspicious behavior practices by the person in question.

                                                                                          Why? Because love/companionship/ and all that goes out the wind0w when you have fear/insecurity issues. So no matter how perfect the girl/guy is, if a person has low self esteem and or have been hurt before? Fact is, the thought will always be in the back of their mind - In love or not, this character flaw will surface!

                                                                                          Thus - I feel one can meet their soul mate, fall deeply in love, get married, and still have a bit of anxiety when it comes to trust.
                                                                                          Last edited by AVM; 05-13-2004, 11:47 AM.

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                                                                                            • Jaden
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                                                                                              • Feb 2004
                                                                                              • 151
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Also. while it is great to look at marriage as all about love and romance and whatever else, it also is entering in a partnership. I doubt anyone out there would enter in a business agreement with someone wherein you agree that if things go sour they get half of absolutely everything withough checking the person out a bit deeper than just taking their word for it.

                                                                                              Trust is a great thing...blind trust is just plain ignorant. Especially when you are giving someone the power to not only crush your heart but instant access to half of everything you have.

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                                                                                                • TheFrog
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                                                                                                  • Jan 2004
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                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  i, personally would do that test too

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                                                                                                    • AWC
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                                                                                                      • Aug 2001
                                                                                                      • 1223
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      insecure males are a waste of time... hope she falls for the other dude and gets rid of this loser.

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                                                                                                        • Elli
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                                                                                                          • Apr 2003
                                                                                                          • 17991
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          After the test, if she passes, will he tell her what he did? Or will he be forever paranoid that she might find out and leave him for his lack of trust in her obviously upstanding morals?
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                                                                                                            • WPProphet
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                                                                                                              • Mar 2004
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                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              If he goes through with this test, will that be enough? Probably not, his insecurities and fears of being hurt are obviously deep seeded. He should seek counseling to help him deal with the fact that some people are assholes and will hurt you nomatter what you do. and besides that what's to say just because she passes this test that she wouldnt fail it a few years down the road when things get tough? A onetime test doesnt prove faithfulness to your llover. there is no test. You either trust or not and if you get hurt, you grieve and move on to some one better. sorry that's my

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                                                                                                                • PhotoGreggXXX
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                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  I'm getting married soon to my hottie, love partner. We have an open relationship and she likes women as much as me. I have no problem with her bringing home a cutie for both of us to play with
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                                                                                                                    • Tala
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                                                                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                                                                      • 23368
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      That's fucked up. SERIOUSLY fucked up. He gets busted, then she's gone.

                                                                                                                      Communication, people. Talk to each other. If he's so paranoid, has he told her his paranoia? have they tried to work that out, or is he a nitwit who thinks it's best not to tell her about something that scares him so badly?

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                                                                                                                        • Frank The Tank
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                                                                                                                          • Dec 2003
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                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          she knows about the ex's and what happened and yes hes talked but thats not enough for some people .. its the nagging thought ..

                                                                                                                          well fuck it i dunno im thinking he should do it either way .. if she leaves him over the test well shes not really in love with him either ..
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                                                                                                                            • Syl
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                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by PhotoGreggXXX
                                                                                                                              I'm getting married soon to my hottie, love partner. We have an open relationship and she likes women as much as me. I have no problem with her bringing home a cutie for both of us to play with
                                                                                                                              Is she allowed to "play" with other men too?
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                                                                                                                                • RicardoB
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                                                                                                                                  • Jan 2004
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                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by DR_PHIL
                                                                                                                                  if there is any doubt, then they dont need to get married.
                                                                                                                                  Agreed

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                                                                                                                                    • Kassidy
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                                                                                                                                      • Jul 2003
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                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by Syl
                                                                                                                                      Is she allowed to "play" with other men too?
                                                                                                                                      I was wondering the same thing...


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                                                                                                                                        • reynold
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                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          Without trust, they won't last long.

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                                                                                                                                            • newsdude
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                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by PhotoGreggXXX
                                                                                                                                              I'm getting married soon to my hottie, love partner. We have an open relationship and she likes women as much as me. I have no problem with her bringing home a cutie for both of us to play with

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                                                                                                                                                • graphicsbytia
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                                                                                                                                                  • Sep 2003
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                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  if I were you I would warn that girl to run away and don't look back..


                                                                                                                                                  the type of thing he's thinking of doing is something an abuser does

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                                                                                                                                                    • samuel
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                                                                                                                                                      • Mar 2004
                                                                                                                                                      • 1986
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      What movie are you looking for?

                                                                                                                                                      If you want to marry someone it is suppose because you are in love with her and you trust her.... that thing to tell another guy to seduce your gf only denotes a BIG INSECURITY!!...

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                                                                                                                                                        • pure energy
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                                                                                                                                                          He's a total loser, thats what I think.
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                                                                                                                                                            • StRoGE
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                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by graphicsbytia
                                                                                                                                                              if I were you I would warn that girl to run away and don't look back..


                                                                                                                                                              the type of thing he's thinking of doing is something an abuser does
                                                                                                                                                              Not always. This test could just be the final step to him trusting her completely. Ive been in his shoes before, and I got burned, bad. I had trust issues in the relationship, but she kept downplaying them. Well we got into a fight one day and she slept with one of her friends.
                                                                                                                                                              To this very day I wish I had known she was capable of it from the beginning. My advice to this guy, is DO THE FUCKING TEST.
                                                                                                                                                              It could mean the difference between being unhappy for a couple months, or destroying your life.
                                                                                                                                                              Let us know the results please.
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