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My wife and I have found the joys of voeyruism and exhibitionism on a couple cam sites and are constantly playing with other people and couples online.
I con't really gt upset when she does it by herself nor does she care when I do it...we have a very strong relationship and generally a hot cam session makes for a hotter time in bed. We're not out to meet these people in person and if we do meet for coffee or something it doesn't go further.
We don't do it all the time and it doesn't replace our intimacy with each other.
I've personally never understood jealousy. I guess I'm secure enough in my own marriage that I don't have a reason to be. We're very open about things and constantly discuss situations. See, we do this crazy thing i a relationship called talk.
So, is it cheating? who knows. I think it all depends on the intent. If some shlub isn't getting any loving from his wife or vice versa, maybe they have a deeper problem. Having said that, for those with a strong relationship, it can extra spice.
Maybe for us it adds spice and works well because we're open with each other and if she doesn't like someone I'm playing with online and vice versa, we let each other know it and respect each others' feelings.
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