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  • Libertine
    sex dwarf
    • May 2002
    • 17860

    #1

    How to approach women?

    How do you do it?

    I've always been rather passive about it myself, and can't recall approaching a woman I was interested in even once in my life. They always came to me. So, what's the best way to do it?
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  • connectionnouser
    Confirmed User
    • Jun 2003
    • 255

    #2
    Originally posted by punkworld
    How do you do it?

    I've always been rather passive about it myself, and can't recall approaching a woman I was interested in even once in my life. They always came to me. So, what's the best way to do it?
    I never have 'approached' a woman as such in my life.. i let things just happen (friends of friends etc), thats the way i like it. never tried to pull a girl on a night out or anything really


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    • juicylinks
      So Fucking Banned
      • Apr 2001
      • 122992

      #3
      Yes this is my specialty What can I help you with?

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      • faxxaff
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        • Dec 2002
        • 2134

        #4
        Originally posted by punkworld
        How do you do it?

        I've always been rather passive about it myself, and can't recall approaching a woman I was interested in even once in my life. They always came to me. So, what's the best way to do it?

        just chat up a gal and ask her: "do I look like Micky Mouse?"

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        • brand0n
          been very busy
          • Nov 2002
          • 26983

          #5
          hello my name is (insert your name here) what is yours?

          seems to always work for me
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          • juicylinks
            So Fucking Banned
            • Apr 2001
            • 122992

            #6
            Hey , i couldnt help but notice that you were checking me out"

            Always works

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            • Libertine
              sex dwarf
              • May 2002
              • 17860

              #7
              Originally posted by juicylinks
              Yes this is my specialty What can I help you with?
              Ah, guido advice is just what I need

              Well, basically, I want to know how to initiate contact with a woman after eye contact, smiles and all that. Never actually did that...
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              • Beastiepoo
                Confirmed User
                • Mar 2002
                • 1971

                #8
                The 'Hi my name is...' thing can work very well. If she's up for it, converstion after that shouldn't be too hard, you're a knowledgeable and sensitive guy. Chicks dig that.
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                • Libertine
                  sex dwarf
                  • May 2002
                  • 17860

                  #9
                  Originally posted by brand0n
                  hello my name is (insert your name here) what is yours?

                  seems to always work for me
                  But what comes after that? How do you go from introducing yourself to her to a starting dialog without using any lame-ass lines?
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                  • juicylinks
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Apr 2001
                    • 122992

                    #10
                    Originally posted by punkworld


                    Ah, guido advice is just what I need

                    Well, basically, I want to know how to initiate contact with a woman after eye contact, smiles and all that. Never actually did that...
                    A simple "Hi or Hello" with a smile to show your are friendly will strat you off then the rest is up to you

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                    • dij
                      Confirmed User
                      • May 2003
                      • 2163

                      #11
                      Or you could just go straight to the point.

                      Hello, my name is ____, I think your very pretty.

                      Then just start asking about her and etc.

                      http://www.askmen.com/

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                      • slapass
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • Nov 2002
                        • 14625

                        #12
                        If this is hard for you then just always think of a question. Do you like this song, place, lighting, group, drink or whatever?
                        Simple is good.

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                        • Goatse
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                          • Sep 2003
                          • 2086

                          #13
                          I don't approach women, they don't approach me either. It all comes down to looks anyway. If you're ugly, even the most clever, romantic approaches won't work.

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                          • Sly_RJ
                            Live Hard - Die Hard
                            • Feb 2002
                            • 17042

                            #14
                            Originally posted by punkworld


                            But what comes after that? How do you go from introducing yourself to her to a starting dialog without using any lame-ass lines?
                            Pick one of their accessories that you like and comment on that. Clothes and accessories can really tell a lot about someone. Use it to your advantage. Most people love compliments, especially girls. Complement this particular accessory. Clothing is a great conversation starter.

                            Example: she's wearing a watch with a fancy inscription. Comment about how you like the watch and ask what the inscription means.

                            I must be a woman... I tend to wear "conversation starters". It works, people always comment on my clothes.
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                            • LadyMischief
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                              • Sep 2002
                              • 18135

                              #15
                              Take some pictures of them naked.. They seem to like that.

                              I lay it on pretty heavy when I see a woman I like, but women tend to take it better from another woman than they would a man. I can get away with things a man would get canned or slapped for.

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                              • doober
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                                • Jul 2003
                                • 6984

                                #16
                                Originally posted by dij
                                Or you could just go straight to the point.

                                Hello, my name is ____, I think your very pretty.

                                Then just start asking about her and etc.

                                http://www.askmen.com/
                                good site with alot of great advice geared towards todays males ( views,advice, ect)...
                                A firend of mine is a partners/founders there...they are pretty big and you can solid info there

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                                • corvette
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Oct 2001
                                  • 7880

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by juicylinks


                                  A simple "Hi or Hello" with a smile to show your are friendly will strat you off then the rest is up to you
                                  i concur


                                  tell her that when you saw her, she caught your eye and you wanted to come over and introduce yourself
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                                  • TheJimmy
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                                    • Jan 2001
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                                    #18
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                                    • dij
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                                      • May 2003
                                      • 2163

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by doober


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                                      • Micah - Drizunk
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                                        • Jul 2003
                                        • 759

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by punkworld
                                        How do you do it?

                                        I've always been rather passive about it myself, and can't recall approaching a woman I was interested in even once in my life. They always came to me. So, what's the best way to do it?
                                        wait till theyre turned around, club em, and drag em back to the cave.
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                                        • corvette
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Oct 2001
                                          • 7880

                                          #21
                                          Let me get my 2 cents in?

                                          When you talk to her, look her right in the eye, and don?t be afraid to smile. Ask her open ended questions and act very interested in what she is saying, don?t look away. Act like you like her very much, people are more apt to like you if they think that you like them

                                          Don?t be afraid to walk up to girls, some wont be interested, for various reasons (have boyfriends/married, tired, etc), but a lot of women don?t mind meeting new people?if after talking to her for a bit, if you are still interested, ask her if she wants to sit down or move someplace quieter

                                          the chances are better between 10:30 and 11:45?toward the last part of the night, the ratio drops. (no selling of alcohol after 1AM in AZ)
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                                          • corvette
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                                            • Oct 2001
                                            • 7880

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by juicylinks
                                            Yes this is my specialty What can I help you with?

                                            thats good
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                                            • fanatic
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                                              • Jan 2003
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                                              #23
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                                              • playa
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                                                • Feb 2001
                                                • 6432

                                                #24
                                                Just remember you never know what a women likes.
                                                so always take a chance and don't be so hard on yourself mentally

                                                Way too many guys worry about getting turned down by women so the don't approach because they think they know what kind of a guy she would talk too. Personally i think it feels worse when you never approach a woman at all.

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                                                • BillyHoe
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                                                  • Mar 2003
                                                  • 2214

                                                  #25
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                                                  • Libertine
                                                    sex dwarf
                                                    • May 2002
                                                    • 17860

                                                    #26
                                                    In other words: just do it.
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                                                    • basschick
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                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                      • 2540

                                                      #27
                                                      i think it depends on where you meet or see these women. are you at a club? is a band playing? you can start off by talking about the band. if you're both actually listening to them, it's a good start. if you find common ground there, you can offer to buy her a drink. talk about other similar bands. other shows of this band or at that club.

                                                      i've been a woman all my life (*LOL*) and i hate lines - even clever ones. actually ESPECIALLY the clever ones. i used to hear a fuck lot of them, too. meeting someone who you discover you have something in common with is a great ice breaker when it's real. go to someplace involved with something you like - a record store with specialities (ameoba if you're in the l.a. area), guitar center if you play an instrument, and so on. then a lot of the women there have a better chance of sharing your interests.

                                                      not at a club? depends. you can ask for help picking fruit at the store, you can ask her opinion on a pair of pants you might buy. walking down melrose? you can ask what store she recommends to buy punky colors or something. is she at the petstore? when she's looking at an animal you have experience with, try telling a brief something about that.

                                                      at a video store? when she is looking at a video you've seen, let her know if you recommend it. i have done this even though i'm not picking people up. they're usually interested - no one wants to rent a lousy movie! and you can discover if you have similar tastes. works the same at a bookstore.

                                                      by the way, my fiance never approached a woman in his life. he's shy. we met because he answered my ad for forming bands looking for bassplayers. he is into punk, grunge and death metal, and so am i. we had so much fun playing music we had each written together that we got together with a drummer. i didn't really notice him as a guy for a while, and by then i really liked him already.
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                                                      • fun2cboys
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                                                        • Jul 2003
                                                        • 643

                                                        #28
                                                        Walk up to her and ask her what she's having for breakfast
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                                                        • Pipecrew
                                                          Master of Gfy.com
                                                          • Feb 2002
                                                          • 14888

                                                          #29
                                                          I've honestly met the hottest girls time and time again, by ripping into other people who annoy me.. They always laugh and then start doing it with me...

                                                          But now I am single and on a warpath again, I will keep you updated to my progress

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                                                          • basschick
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                                                            • Jan 2001
                                                            • 2540

                                                            #30
                                                            fun2cboys, that is JUST the kind of line that left me shaking my head as i turned and walked in the other direction... it's an obvious line.

                                                            punkworld, no matter what anyone tells you, us females are people, too. talk to us like people. some will like you - some won't. talk to us about something that interests you.
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                                                            • grogan
                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                              • Feb 2001
                                                              • 2284

                                                              #31
                                                              give em the grogan smile

                                                              when that doesn't work, accidently drop several hundreds on the ground and then pick them up.

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                                                              • Sly_RJ
                                                                Live Hard - Die Hard
                                                                • Feb 2002
                                                                • 17042

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Pipecrew
                                                                I've honestly met the hottest girls time and time again, by ripping into other people who annoy me.. They always laugh and then start doing it with me...
                                                                Exactly. You're just being yourself.

                                                                I never understood why people have this desire to "be something special" when meeting someone new to impress them. Fucking be yourself. It isn't rocket science. You'll meet way more people who actually like YOU instead of who you're trying to be.
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                                                                • Libertine
                                                                  sex dwarf
                                                                  • May 2002
                                                                  • 17860

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by basschick
                                                                  punkworld, no matter what anyone tells you, us females are people, too. talk to us like people. some will like you - some won't. talk to us about something that interests you.
                                                                  Most often, when hanging out with "male people", it comes down to either drinking matches, wrestling and talking about women or long conversations about politics/philosophy/literature that most women seem to find boring

                                                                  But my problem isn't with talking with women - it's walking up to them and getting a conversation started. Since I don't do that with guys either (those seem to come to me as well), I can't really build on my experience there...
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                                                                  • basschick
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                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                    • 2540

                                                                    #34
                                                                    see my earlier longggg post... i have all sorts of situations for you to approach women in. find something you really like - or really dislike - and say something about it.
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                                                                    • p3rsian
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                                                                      • Sep 2003
                                                                      • 1050

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by Goatse
                                                                      I don't approach women, they don't approach me either. It all comes down to looks anyway. If you're ugly, even the most clever, romantic approaches won't work.
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                                                                      • kevinale
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                                                                        • Dec 2002
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                                                                        #36
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                                                                        • FlyingIguana
                                                                          aspiring banker
                                                                          • Mar 2002
                                                                          • 10870

                                                                          #37
                                                                          ask them where the nearest coffee place is, then ask them to join you

                                                                          get their guard down then bang, snatch em up

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                                                                          • basschick
                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                            • Jan 2001
                                                                            • 2540

                                                                            #38
                                                                            p3rsian, that only works on broke women. i never gave a tiny damn about a guy's money, nor did a single one of my friends.

                                                                            of course, if all you want is pussy, i guess it's fair if all they want is money.

                                                                            but if you want more than a one night stand, finding a chick who only cares about bucks seems like a great way to have a crappy life.
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                                                                            • Spunky
                                                                              I need a beer
                                                                              • Jun 2002
                                                                              • 133978

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Be yourself.Usally it takes 5 minutes if you know she is interested in you.If not move on.A simple hello and a smile works great .Interesting conversation and the ability to make her laugh will get you in.

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                                                                              • dustin
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                                                                                • Aug 2001
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                                                                                #40
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                                                                                • Libertine
                                                                                  sex dwarf
                                                                                  • May 2002
                                                                                  • 17860

                                                                                  #41
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                                                                                  • Gemini
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                                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                                    • 7183

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    The smile (small one) and a Hiya and going about your business works the best. It puts the ball into her court and also lets her know you're open to talking. If she's with someone, she'll just ignore you afterwards. If she's looking then she might not talk right away but might also come at you a week later to talk. ;-)

                                                                                    Don't try to hurry up a good thing or ruin something that could be good by being pushy! Lines are just that. A simple Hiya! is an opening. No BS in it. Stay in her general vicinity for several minutes after Hi'ing her, to give her the time to decide if she wants to deal with you or not.
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                                                                                    • Porn Mickey
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                                                                                      • Nov 2001
                                                                                      • 2840

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Simple approach could be: "Hey, my horoscope today said that I need to make new friends and as weird as that sounds I could actually use some new friends! (and tell your name)"
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                                                                                      • Libertine
                                                                                        sex dwarf
                                                                                        • May 2002
                                                                                        • 17860

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by xxxtreme
                                                                                        Simple approach could be: "Hey, my horoscope today said that I need to make new friends and as weird as that sounds I could actually use some new friends! (and tell your name)"
                                                                                        It seems like a rather bad idea to me to basically state you're a loser with no friends when trying to pick up a woman... but that could just be me?
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                                                                                        • TheFLY
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                                                                                          • Jan 2001
                                                                                          • 11856

                                                                                          #45
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                                                                                          • escorpio
                                                                                            doesn't fuck around.
                                                                                            • Oct 2002
                                                                                            • 23486

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Approach from behind.
                                                                                            Display sharp object.
                                                                                            Say "don't scream or I'll kill you."
                                                                                            Works everytime.
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                                                                                            • chuk
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                                                                                              • Mar 2003
                                                                                              • 682

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              "Nice shoes. Let's fuck." Sounds crude, but chicks dig it

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                                                                                              • angeleyes
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                                                                                                • Feb 2003
                                                                                                • 3584

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                1) Keep it simple
                                                                                                2) Don't come across too strong
                                                                                                3) Don't use any cheezy lines
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                                                                                                • username
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                                                                                                  • Aug 2003
                                                                                                  • 702

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  start the approach, turn towards her, then seriously state: "Hi, Let's Fuck".
                                                                                                  Goodluck

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                                                                                                  • polish_aristocrat
                                                                                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                    • Jul 2002
                                                                                                    • 40377

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by chuk
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