This is really eating up a buddy of mine. His girlfriend recently shared this with him, and he does'nt know how to react.
His girl was at this thing for work when he was'nt there, and there was some dude there who was older than him and set up in life etc. while he's (my buddy) is still in school. Anyway, this guy is like, totally hitting on his woman, trying to get her drunk & go home with him and shit, even after she told him she had a b/f. Nothing ended up happening, but she told my friend about it a couple days later. According to her, she had chosen him (her b/f) over some momentary "animal sex" urge, but that she *was* attracted to him, and *had* considered it.
He took it all in stride and laughed it off, but he came to me asking how he should've reacted. I told him it was'nt a big deal, and that he should be happy that she feels comfortable in their relationship (about 2 1/2 years) to talk to him about it.
But then I really started thinking about it...
Is it really ok and he should just shrug it off? Or is it kind of tell-tale that she may not be able to handle herself so well in the future, and he should just bag her? Like, would this be a prelude to the fact that she is'nt ready to settle down and still wants to fuck around, or is it normal?
I mean, i know that in my relationship, I crave other women all the time, and it's come close, but it just seems different for a woman.
What do you think i should tell him? Stick with the advice I gave or tell him to bag her?
His girl was at this thing for work when he was'nt there, and there was some dude there who was older than him and set up in life etc. while he's (my buddy) is still in school. Anyway, this guy is like, totally hitting on his woman, trying to get her drunk & go home with him and shit, even after she told him she had a b/f. Nothing ended up happening, but she told my friend about it a couple days later. According to her, she had chosen him (her b/f) over some momentary "animal sex" urge, but that she *was* attracted to him, and *had* considered it.
He took it all in stride and laughed it off, but he came to me asking how he should've reacted. I told him it was'nt a big deal, and that he should be happy that she feels comfortable in their relationship (about 2 1/2 years) to talk to him about it.
But then I really started thinking about it...
Is it really ok and he should just shrug it off? Or is it kind of tell-tale that she may not be able to handle herself so well in the future, and he should just bag her? Like, would this be a prelude to the fact that she is'nt ready to settle down and still wants to fuck around, or is it normal?
I mean, i know that in my relationship, I crave other women all the time, and it's come close, but it just seems different for a woman.
What do you think i should tell him? Stick with the advice I gave or tell him to bag her?










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