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Originally posted by Ironhorse
I've been separated from my wife of 14 years for the last 1.5 years, tomorrow we're going on our first date and having a long talk about things, sometimes a bit of time away is good to reflect on things..for me it was feeling like losing a twin
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Best response of all.
Many separations don't end in divorce, but instead, in a better understanding of what you'd be giving up and how good you had it. You get time to see what an unbending jerk you were being and she gets time to see what a pissy bitch she was being.
Hopefully this is how it'll be for you guys; you'll come back together a little more humble and far more willing to be a team rather than two individuals living in the same house fighting for control.
Best of luck to you both.