03-16-2004, 02:57 AM
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Location: au
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Quote:
Originally posted by Tala
This is just my opinion, and you can take it for what it's worth, which may or may not be the time it took to write.
Abortion, IMHO, should not be a form of birth control. You should have thought about the consequences long before you spread your legs.
So now you're pregnant, you don't know who the father is, you have no job, fresh out of prison, and you "don't do much drugs".
Reality checks suck ass, don't they? Your reality is that now you're going to have to grow the fuck up and fast. You're going to have to decide what's important. If that baby isn't important, how deep will it scar your mind to know that you killed it? If you can handle that sort of emotional baggage, then by all means, abort the baby and keep living in your selfish dream world.
If you think that you can handle growing up just enough to get your shit together, find a college or a tech school that you can put yourself through, (if you were in jail for drug possesion or resale, then you're not going to get any federal funding), and then get a decent job that doesn't require blowjobs to get by, then go for it and I wish you all the best.
If you don't want that child, but can't handle getting an abortion, then go and give it to some people who can't have kids but really want them. Adoption is a great choice to make for the kid and for yourself.
One way or another, little girl, it's high time for you to grow up. Living the way you are, having no job and coming to an adult message board asking advice on whether or not to have an abortion is NOT going to get you far.
Incidentally...while you're still pregnant, eat right and GET OFF THE DRUGS. Can you handle THAT?
You may whine now, flame me, or completely go nuts about how mean I am. I don't give a shit. You asked for advice, you got it.
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Very good post. I am not 100% anti-abortion, though the thought of it does make me cringe a bit. Abortion as a birth control is a joke. |
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