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Old 02-26-2004, 03:54 AM  
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Originally posted by AaronM
Let's pretend that your best friend falsly accuses you of selling him out and then refuses to have any sort of mature discussion about the ordeal........

Compound that by what appears to be overwhelming evidence that you did in fact sell him out.......

Now...If you did not do what you are being accused of...How far would you push the issue to try to regain your lost friendship?

Personally....I would go to the end off the earth and back again.

Your thoughts?
Personally Aaron.. I met you and you seem like a pretty genuine guy..

My whole take on this is if Amp does not believe you, that shows a lack of trust in your word, and your worth.. Word is bond, and word is worth more than gold..

If he cannot trust in the fact that you did not reveal any details, then there is a trust issue in the friendship that may make it not as strong as you both imagined it to be..

However.. I understand where he comes from on feeling violated.. We've all been there.. It might take some time to heal, it might never heal.. Who knows..

But for right now, if he cannot say to you "Fuck it, Your my friend and I trust your word on this" then thats it, friendship over for now..

I wouldnt adgitate the issue to stack more straw on the camels back..

just my
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