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Originally posted by phogirl69
But in todays society, aren't most women more liberal and have a lot of partners and so forth? I think that society molded people into "thinking" that women don't crave different sexual partners, and that's how society conditioned women to think, so women tend to reinforce that sterotype because they don't want to be labelled "a slut". Perhaps women were always sexually agressive as men but it was repressed because it was not acceptable? And men like to use the excuse that they are programmed to "spread their seed" to account for their indiscretions/cheating
So it could be that nature intended for it to be a certain way, when humans were evolving so our species didn't die out....
But society has changed a lot, and it's not as pressing for humans to procreate as much as in the past.
Also, if a lot of women are doing something, than it can't be an exception. For example, I would say a majority of women have cheated as well, and have had one night stands, so you can't really say that it was because they got molested or because something bad happened in their childhood.
I think it's becoming the norm more than an exception!
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You are probably right, evolutionary forces haven't had much to do with these urges for hundreds if not thousands of years, so social traditions may have more impact now than any primal genetic exigencies.
At least in my social circles, women are mostly conservative sexually, not "horny and driven" except in the privacy of their own monogomous relationships, and in general I don't know many women who have cheated.
maybe I"m just naive.