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Originally posted by phogirl69
Well, Pornwolf claimed that it's not the same thing. He said it's the same thing as looking at a postcard with a pic from Hawaii, it's not the same thing as being there. And that eventually the guy will have to succumb to his needs. So what do you think about this?
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I think he is right, its definitely not the same thing, if he has it in his head that he NEEDS to try out variety then its not enough to fantasize, however I don't think its inevitable that every guy will succumb to his more base urges.
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Originally posted by phogirl69
And he also said that women are genetically meant to be with only ONE partner and that we DON'T crave other men. He said that if we do, it's going against nature because nature only intended women to be with one man. What about that??
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I think in general he is right... I have met really horny driven girls who "crave" to be with many parthners before, but in my experience they are rare, and are often that way due to some problems they had in their past or in their childhood.
I think he is mostly right that the sexes evolved to optimally balance the population with opposing forces.
Think in terms of evolution:
-Imagine for a second if all men and women were driven to have sex with multiple partners all the time. There would be no family and offspring would suffer or even be neglected and ultimately the species wouldn't advance or survive.
-Now imagine that all men and women were completely monogamous and had no interest in seeking out other mates and had minimal sex drive. The diversity of the gene pool and the proliferation of the species would be at serious risk and if any major disasters came along we would easily be wiped out.