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Originally posted by m00d
Phogirl69 your post really makes me sad. Those men are everywhere hon. I wish you would not buy into the crap that has been told to you by someone who has something to be gained ie. your boyfriend. You need to look at the source of that. I do not know Pornwolf, I think he might be engaging in flirtation with you and not serious. If not, his perspective certainly isn't the only one. Anyone who speaks with absolutes such as ,"All men need variety. You need to bring girls home for your man,"shouldn't ever be taken seriously. Especially in regards to a meaningful/potentially life-altering issue such as finding a good man. Sure people like they described exist everywhere. Assholes are everywhere. You have to know this. There are even women out there whose values/wishes would be right in line with theirs.
You ask where these men are. I ask where are you that they are not? My god, great guys are everywhere. Just like great women are everywhere. Don't hold all men to lower standards and expectations, that is not fair. Some men would actually be devastated emotionally if their significant other brought a woman home for them to have sex with.
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Your wife is lucky to have you.
I guess there ARE good men out there, but it's really hard to find out who they are, because a lot of guys lie, or put on their best personas when trying to get hooked up. The only way I think to really gauge someone is if you know someone who lives with them and knows everything about them, like his sister or something. Other than that I guess you have to weed through the bad ones to find the good ones!