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Originally posted by phogirl69
Are there really? I am really jaded. It appears most men want MULTIPLE women, no matter how sexy, beautiful, and intelligent that ONE woman is.
My ex boyfriend once told me: I'm going to tell you something that all men think, but no one would ever say out loud. All men want variety, you can't eat the same flavour of ice cream all the time no matter how good it is. You always have to try out new flavours.
Someone else on GFY, Pornwolf to be exact, told me the same thing. He said that if I wanted to make my man happy I would have to bring different girls for him, because men need variety. And Pornwolf claimed that men were made this way genetically
and that it is their right to have different pussy all the time, even if they are married.
WHERE are these men who will be ecstatic to have ONE good woman? WHERE? WHERE?
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Phogirl69 your post really makes me sad. Those men are everywhere hon. I wish you would not buy into the crap that has been told to you by someone who has something to be gained ie. your boyfriend. You need to look at the source of that. I do not know Pornwolf, I think he might be engaging in flirtation with you and not serious. If not, his perspective certainly isn't the only one. Anyone who speaks with absolutes such as ,"All men need variety. You need to bring girls home for your man,"shouldn't ever be taken seriously. Especially in regards to a meaningful/potentially life-altering issue such as finding a good man. Sure people like they described exist everywhere. Assholes are everywhere. You have to know this. There are even women out there whose values/wishes would be right in line with theirs.
You ask where these men are. I ask where are you that they are not? My god, great guys are everywhere. Just like great women are everywhere. Don't hold all men to lower standards and expectations, that is not fair. Some men would actually be devastated emotionally if their significant other brought a woman home for them to have sex with.