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Originally posted by gornyhuy
I'm faithful to my wife and we are happily married, and I'm about the least obnoxious horny aggressive guy when it comes to that kind of thing, but even so I can say that Pornwolf and the others are completely right. I feel fundamentally genetically driven to be "secretly" highly attracted to other women. I would like nothing more than if my wife would bring home her friends and casually 'swing'.
Its just nature. Females are driven to "nesting" to build stability and keep families together for the survival of the offspring, males are driven to mate often with as many different females as possible to maximize the number and diversity of offspring for the strongest gene pool possible. 
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Well, at least you can control it, so that's a good thing. Me and Pornwolf were arguing about this on a thread, so I told him that
of course people will always have fantasies about other people, but that at least you can keep it a fantasy and just masturbate/watch porn whatever.
Well, Pornwolf claimed that it's not the same thing. He said it's the same thing as looking at a postcard with a pic from Hawaii, it's not the same thing as being there. And that eventually the guy will have to succumb to his needs. So what do you think about this?
And he also said that women are genetically meant to be with only ONE partner and that we DON'T crave other men. He said that if we do, it's going against nature because nature only intended women to be with one man. What about that??