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06-03-2003, 01:53 AM

Isn't it peculiar, a girl I live with wants more money.. naturally. Now, what's peculiar about this is the fact that she thinks I shouldn't work so much. She always complains and cries when I work, she insists I should spend more quality time with her etc.

Now, I don't fully understand women but... how can I make more money AND spend more time with her? I guess it's time to win the lottery or get a killer idea that requires only a few hours a day.

damn women.

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06-03-2003, 01:56 AM

i broke up witih my last girlfriend due to my work ethic and drive for success.

work #1
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06-03-2003, 01:57 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather
Isn't it peculiar, a girl I live with wants more money.. naturally. Now, what's peculiar about this is the fact that she thinks I shouldn't work so much. She always complains and cries when I work, she insists I should spend more quality time with her etc.

Now, I don't fully understand women but... how can I make more money AND spend more time with her? I guess it's time to win the lottery or get a killer idea that requires only a few hours a day.

damn women.

And then when you don't work and have plenty of time to spend with them you're an unmotivated lazy bastard who doesn't understand the hell of a day she just went through at work.

You cannot win.
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06-03-2003, 01:57 AM

Originally posted by quiet
i broke up witih my last girlfriend due to my work ethic and drive for success.

work #1
gf #2
5 year relationship down the drain.

I have a feeling I will be following in your footsteps. Unfortunately I sense I won't rich and alone, I'll just be alone.

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06-03-2003, 01:59 AM

Originally posted by Joe Sixpack

And then when you don't work and have plenty of time to spend with them you're an unmotivated lazy bastard who doesn't understand the hell of a day she just went through at work.

You cannot win.

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True. She feels the need to tell me about her shitty day, and annoying coworkers. But she doesn't have a clue what real stress is, or deadline, or being self-employed for that matter..

I'm getting angry.

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06-03-2003, 02:01 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather
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True. She feels the need to tell me about her shitty day, and annoying coworkers. But she doesn't have a clue what real stress is, or deadline, or being self-employed for that matter..

I'm getting angry.

Dont get angry. Smoke some weed instead.

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06-03-2003, 02:02 AM

you shouldn't sum it up as about "women and money". I'm working all damn day too. Maybe you should find someone in the industry who understands the beserk time demands.

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06-03-2003, 02:03 AM

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06-03-2003, 02:03 AM

Originally posted by quiet
i broke up witih my last girlfriend due to my work ethic and drive for success.

work #1
gf #2
5 year relationship down the drain.

question is do you miss her ?
or was it worth it ?

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06-03-2003, 02:04 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather

Don't have any. My only plant died.

Dry it out and smoke it anyway.
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06-03-2003, 02:04 AM

Originally posted by billie
you shouldn't sum it up as about "women and money". I'm working all damn day too. Maybe you should find someone in the industry who understands the beserk time demands.

...but someone's gotta walk the dog, make the food, clean the house, do the dishes and wash clothes too...

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06-03-2003, 02:10 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather
...but someone's gotta walk the dog, make the food, clean the house, do the dishes and wash clothes too...

Exactly.

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06-03-2003, 02:14 AM

Originally posted by AWW - Kevin

question is do you miss her ?
or was it worth it ?

yes i miss her. was it worth it? i can't answer that. would i have done things differently? no.

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06-03-2003, 02:16 AM

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06-03-2003, 02:23 AM

ahh, yes one of the great paradoxes of all time.

well, all i know is try and keep her happy and never tell her how much you make. for that matter, don't tell her anything you don't want anyone else to know. all girls run off and tell their girlfriends EVERYTHING as soon as they can. it's amazing, but it's as predictable as the sun rising. even a "trustworthy" girl will do this.

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06-03-2003, 03:48 AM

Did you explicitly tell her that her feelings really matter to you and that you care for her more than work and money before you implicitly told her that you didn't? This is a good strategy.

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06-03-2003, 03:55 AM

Originally posted by Colin
Did you explicitly tell her that her feelings really matter to you and that you care for her more than work and money before you implicitly told her that you didn't? This is a good strategy.

I've tried everything. It all comes down to actions, not words with her... and I can't leave work undone. I like money too much.

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06-03-2003, 03:58 AM

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06-03-2003, 04:03 AM

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the day that you will stop with the GF bs is the day you will start enjoying life

We'll see about that when SHE leaves me, I have no intentions of leaving her.

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06-03-2003, 04:41 AM

Originally posted by Joe Sixpack

And then when you don't work and have plenty of time to spend with them you're an unmotivated lazy bastard who doesn't understand the hell of a day she just went through at work.

You cannot win.

My wife pissed and moaned that I worked waaaayyyy too much. Then I quit working on the net all the time and started doing real estate investing. The workload is much less and she sees me with more free time, so now I'm a lazy bum. WTF does she want? The bills are paid, she lives in her dream house, she drives the car of her choice and there's money in the bank. I'm going to get myself an office and set it up so I will want to spend time there. I'm also not going to tell her where it is
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06-03-2003, 04:41 AM

I work with my husband, we want more money we work harder. Try getting her involved in your business.
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06-03-2003, 04:43 AM

TGF: my wife was like your gf... I had to explain her few times how things work, it seems that she understood...
try not to pass on the other side (workaholic) , use the computer only for messaging during the weekend and spend the weekends with her.

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06-03-2003, 04:49 AM

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I work with my husband, we want more money we work harder. Try getting her involved in your business.

Tried that! What a fucking mess that is ...

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06-03-2003, 04:54 AM

Ask her what she wants. You? Or Money? If she says you then work less for a while and trust me she'll be begging you to work more before long.....

If she says money. Kick her to the kerb coz she's a gold digging chick..... Either way you win. You either work less or save money
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06-03-2003, 05:24 AM

Long time ago I just stopped trying to understand women. They have their own operating system with their own logic, you just can't understand them. You can only try to live with them. After few years with the same girl it runs downhill unless you find some modus vivendi which is hard.
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06-03-2003, 05:29 AM

Originally posted by Ross

Either way you win. You either work less or save money

My goal isn't to work less.

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06-03-2003, 05:31 AM

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06-03-2003, 05:32 AM

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use the computer only for messaging during the weekend and spend the weekends with her.

Pretty close to what I do. A weekend break's not a bad thing. It's pretty easy to end up in the depths of a depraved wild-eyed work addiction.

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06-03-2003, 05:41 AM

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Pretty close to what I do. A weekend break's not a bad thing. It's pretty easy to end up in the depths of a depraved wild-eyed work addiction.

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06-03-2003, 05:52 AM

Originally posted by evie
I work with my husband, we want more money we work harder. Try getting her involved in your business.

This is what we do too. For awhile I was like TGF's GF. I went out to a normal job and thought that he should spend time with me when I was at home. Unfortuantely this meant that he didn't earn as much as we both wanted. Now instead we both plow on in the biz, he more than I but I do most of the cooking and cleaning (while looking after the baby). We still don't get out as much as I'd like but at least we are together most of the time. TGF if you could convince her to help you, make sure that you do stop during the day and have a couple of meals away from the computers. This has made a big difference in our lives. Just taking a half an hour at lunchtime and dinnertime, away from the monitors, gives us time to talk (both about work and other things) and reminds us that we aren't just people who work together but also people who love each other and enjoy each others company.

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06-03-2003, 06:43 AM

Originally posted by quiet
i broke up witih my last girlfriend due to my work ethic and drive for success.

work #1
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Oh, I can feel the pain. I've been there, twice now.
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06-03-2003, 06:52 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather

My goal isn't to work less.

Well if you don't feel you need to work less but she does then there's something wrong!
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06-03-2003, 07:05 AM

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06-03-2003, 07:16 AM

TeenGF, I know what your saying, I was married to a DIVA type and having neglected her to work online I threw money at her to keep her entertained and off my back. So I am the one that enabled her and grew her love for money, once you start putting out the $$$$, it becomes expected....

Tell her to go out and get a hobby and to develop some new interests.....
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06-03-2003, 08:08 AM

Im glad my hubby and I dont work together.. we need time apart as well as time together..

I have always worked my ass off for everything i wanted..my hubby knows how long of hours i have to put in on the computer to satisfy my lust for $$$$$. He spends time visiting me while i work and i take breaks to hang out with him and the family when i feel the burn out coming on....the discipline of self employment...
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06-03-2003, 08:12 AM

Yes! This is the main reason why I moved out and separated from my wife. I couldn't get any work done at all. Make no damn sense wtf.

Before you all flame me, I know family should come before work but there are a few other reasons also, and when this same woman likes to live rather large $ becomes a priority.

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06-03-2003, 08:36 AM

I feel ya pain brotha!

I went through that a couple times also. I dont regret leaving both of those females cuz I got more things done. During this time I was building the foundation of my business so hanging out and fucking around wasnt in my gameplan. So I told them to haul ass. A lot of people fail to understand that if you want to make a better life for yourself you have to put in work.

I hung out with plenty of females when I had time - feeling them out to see where their heads we at. Finally I found my girl - She has her own interest, friends and things to do, so if I need to bury myself in a project she can go do something else. I do walk away from the workload sometimes to do the family thing with my baby boy and my lady. You have to set aside some time for them to keep things in order on the homefront.

You will learn that every female is different, what the want, need, how much maintenance they require, etc. If your current chica is giving ya grief it might be in your best interest to let her go. Believe me cuz, she will be in your ear bitching about no flow coming in if ya stop working.
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06-03-2003, 09:13 AM

put the screws to her...thats it. men who have ambition and are successful are a better catch in the long run.

wait til you start spending all this time she wants you to spend with her. you will hear next on how you are smothering her and how she wants time to herself. she will push you to go play golf (or whatever you do), she will get you out of the house and away from her as often as she can cause women are funny that way. i know, i use to be that way.

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06-19-2003, 04:25 AM

the only way i think to remedy the situation since women love money so much is learn how to shit a pile
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06-19-2003, 06:11 AM

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06-19-2003, 06:39 AM

Originally posted by TeenGodFather
Isn't it peculiar, a girl I live with wants more money.. naturally. Now, what's peculiar about this is the fact that she thinks I shouldn't work so much. She always complains and cries when I work, she insists I should spend more quality time with her etc.

Now, I don't fully understand women but... how can I make more money AND spend more time with her? I guess it's time to win the lottery or get a killer idea that requires only a few hours a day.

damn women.

Your post is very interesting & true.

A lot of the other people who have posted here have bought up some great points!

And yes, I think all chicks are the same, they want both money & time and don't understand they can only have one or the other!

I think that a good method around this is to ensure you have similar timetables & goals - so you both work hard at the same time, to make $$$, then you spend quality time together when you're not working - it's no good if you got a chick just waiting around for you 24/7!

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06-19-2003, 06:50 AM

Originally posted by BlueDesignStudios

Your post is very interesting & true.

A lot of the other people who have posted here have bought up some great points!

And yes, I think all chicks are the same, they want both money & time and don't understand they can only have one or the other!

I think that a good method around this is to ensure you have similar timetables & goals - so you both work hard at the same time, to make $$$, then you spend quality time together when you're not working - it's no good if you got a chick just waiting around for you 24/7!

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Hate to burst your bubble..but not all "chicks" are the same.... I love to make my own money.. I cant stand to rely on my mate for that....hell i would have starved to death and killed the bastard and ate him if that was the deal..

saying that all women are alike is just like saying all men are alike....now we wouldnt want to go and say something stupid like that would we?

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06-19-2003, 07:09 AM

Originally posted by Ross
If she says money. Kick her to the kerb coz she's a gold digging chick..... Either way you win. You either work less or save money

Every chick digs money. No exceptions.
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06-19-2003, 07:12 AM

My wife is pretty understanding. She does whine sometimes and wants me to come spend time with her, but it's not to the point of where it hurts my work. She works alot anyways, so it's cool I guess.
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06-19-2003, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

Hate to burst your bubble..but not all "chicks" are the same.... I love to make my own money.. I cant stand to rely on my mate for that....hell i would have starved to death and killed the bastard and ate him if that was the deal..

saying that all women are alike is just like saying all men are alike....now we wouldnt want to go and say something stupid like that would we?

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Ok yes I concede all generalisations are dangerous - there are always exceptions - I feel the evidence is pretty strong in this case though Chicks do go for men with money!

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06-19-2003, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by cezam

Every chick digs money. No exceptions.

every guy "digs" money just as much if not more cause it is a measure of your success!

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06-19-2003, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by quiet
i broke up witih my last girlfriend due to my work ethic and drive for success.

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You're not alone on that Quiet. Same here. Women have a hard time with the entrepreneurial lifestyle, especially when we love our businesses more than them.

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06-19-2003, 07:19 AM

Originally posted by Colin

Pretty close to what I do. A weekend break's not a bad thing. It's pretty easy to end up in the depths of a depraved wild-eyed work addiction.

Good Point.

I think that if you work TOO MUCH you actually end up getting less done, because you're so tired that the wheels are spinning but the truck isn't going anywhere.

Taking a day or two off and spending it with people who are important to you really helps to recharge your batteries.

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06-19-2003, 07:33 AM

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Dont get angry. Smoke some weed instead.

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