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  • RP Fade
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    • Sep 2003
    • 3343

    #1

    Would you tell your children?

    Had an interesting discussion with my fiancee about what we would tell our children, when the time comes, about our line of work. Would you want them to follow in your footsteps? Would you try to hide it from them as much as you can? I know we have alot of parents on GFY so it'd be interesting to hear how you dealt with it.
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  • bluff
    Too lazy to set a custom title
    • Jan 2004
    • 6253

    #2
    would never tell them. Furthermore, it has no connection whatsoever what I really/mainly do at this moment, and the only thing I will do at the time I have children, which is one of the best respected jobs I could have. So: no

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    • RP Fade
      Confirmed User
      • Sep 2003
      • 3343

      #3
      Originally posted by bluff
      would never tell them. Furthermore, it has no connection whatsoever what I really/mainly do at this moment, and the only thing I will do at the time I have children, which is one of the best respected jobs I could have. So: no
      That's cool..I'm also planning on getting involved in more 'mainstream' businesses as well which will hopefully do well. If anything, it's good to diversify anyways..
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      • sexsup
        Confirmed User
        • Feb 2004
        • 3004

        #4
        When the time comes I would say everything, it is not a secret, we are in 2004

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        • Herb Kornfield
          Is on the 1
          • Sep 2002
          • 4996

          #5
          I tell them that I work in the internet, thats all.

          They could care less and I keep my shit all under lock and key here at the house. No one knows what I do and the kids just do their thing.

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          • Ross
            Ik ben een aap
            • Sep 2002
            • 18874

            #6
            I'm only 20 years old. Far too young to be worrying about something like that.

            If I was older and had kids, I think I'd be very hesitant to tell them. By the time they get older and start asking questions anyway I would hope to be out the business.

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            • RP Fade
              Confirmed User
              • Sep 2003
              • 3343

              #7
              Originally posted by sexsup
              When the time comes I would say everything, it is not a secret, we are in 2004
              I agree..but would you want them to do what you do professionally, not morally. Like if your son/daughter said 'I want to work in your company' or 'start my own adult biz', ect..
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              • Trax
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                • Aug 2001
                • 14486

                #8
                i will NEVER tell my children

                we are in 2004

                bullshit dude


                why should i cause my own kids problems
                i won't tell them

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                • okny
                  Confirmed User
                  • Aug 2002
                  • 5761

                  #9
                  Hmmmm not planning to have children anytime soon but i wouldn't tell them exactly what i do but would explain that it has to deal with net and hopefully retire buy the time they get old enough to understand.
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                  • hydro
                    Confirmed User
                    • Dec 2003
                    • 4216

                    #10
                    i would tell them but not at a young age, i think a good time to tell them is when they are about 20 or so. But chances are that if they use the same computer you do or get on your computer they would find out.

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                    • Adult Site Traffic
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                      • Mar 2003
                      • 5093

                      #11
                      They already know, but my youngest is 15.

                      We sorta have a "don't ask don't tell" policy. They don't even walk in the office.

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                      • zzgundamnzz
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                        • Apr 2002
                        • 6102

                        #12
                        I'd tell them the truth. "I make websites".


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                        • FreeHugeMovies
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Dec 2001
                          • 14141

                          #13
                          Diversity Fade,

                          Buy property and rent it out. Buy some business's run those while this stuff makes you money in the back end.

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                          • jasmine
                            Confirmed User
                            • Aug 2001
                            • 1013

                            #14
                            I have two sons ages 13 and 14 years old. They have no clue what I do in the business.

                            I have been working in this business now for over 6 years and have kept it safely away from them. I will tell them when they are 18
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                            • just a punk
                              So fuckin' bored
                              • Jun 2003
                              • 32385

                              #15
                              Our son is 9 y.o. and he knows we do Web design and that's all. BTW, we also do lots of mainstream (non-adult) design so we always have something to show.
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                              • SykkBoy2
                                Jesus loves bacon
                                • Feb 2001
                                • 19969

                                #16
                                I believe all information should be age appropriate. My kids just know that I work with computers. I also keep some mainstream stuff for when their teachers start asking too many questions (actually, the ebook business is doing nicely now).

                                I try to be very concious of not being "the embarassing dad" to my kids. I keep a low local profile and keep conversation about things adult to a minimum.

                                They do know that sometimes dad works with "boobs and butts" but nothing more.
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                                • RP Fade
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Sep 2003
                                  • 3343

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by FreeHugeMovies
                                  Diversity Fade,

                                  Buy property and rent it out. Buy some business's run those while this stuff makes you money in the back end.
                                  Yup..kids or not..not planning on having all my eggs in one basket..
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                                  • RP Fade
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                                    • Sep 2003
                                    • 3343

                                    #18
                                    It's kinda funny..when people ask you what you do and you reply vaguely 'internet business' or whatever, do you get alot of 'are you in porn?'

                                    I must have one of those smut peddler looks
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                                    • Raven
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                                      • Jul 2001
                                      • 6874

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by RP Fade


                                      I agree..but would you want them to do what you do professionally, not morally. Like if your son/daughter said 'I want to work in your company' or 'start my own adult biz', ect..
                                      I wish I could get my son interested in what we do. We could use the extra set of hands.

                                      He's 20 and capable, just not interested.

                                      We shielded him when he was fourteen; but, by the time he was sixteen, he figured it out.

                                      I'm not ashamed of what we do and neither is he. It pays the bills and allows me to be home.
                                      Raven

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                                      • TweetyBird
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                                        • Feb 2004
                                        • 8532

                                        #20
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                                        • axelcat
                                          Adult Locals
                                          • Jun 2002
                                          • 25450

                                          #21
                                          I would tell them because its part of life its better you tell

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                                          • fyrflygrl
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                                            • Nov 2003
                                            • 250

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by jasmine
                                            I will tell them when they are 18
                                            What she said

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                                            • bdld
                                              $100,000
                                              • Dec 2001
                                              • 11452

                                              #23
                                              I wouldn't tell them the exact details, just a broad "internet marketing" will do

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