Sandro,
now I am not going to tell you your site suxs or anything. but you need to do some things to make yourself more presentable. First off get yourself a graphics program like psp7 or photoshop, something that you can use to resize photos. There is another program you can use it is called thumbsplus. the reason I mention this. is the reason your pages are so slow in loading, is that you need to make thumbnails of your pixs. don't use the full size image and shrink it down by the img tag.
make good size thumbs. something like 100x100 pixels max. they will load quicker. Then some of your surfers might not mind the pop-ups. but if the have to wait 2 mins for a page to load they will bail and never come back.
If you want or need some help in this please feel free to email me at
[email protected]
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Thumper The Amatuer next door!