IMO Men and women cheat because they want to
Somethings not right in the relationship and it takes too much work to fix it so they stray.
I get so tired of hearing "I was drunk" ," it's in a mans nature" etc... These are not excuses ppl. Take responsibility for what you've done and deal with the outcome. Men know what they're doing just as much as women do,there is no excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy with who you're with then tell them, try and fix it or leave. Yeah some of you have kids and you're not happy in your current relationship, and you think it's best if you stay just because you have kids. Well imho I don't think it's best to stay.
Kids are very smart little creatures and they can sense when somethings not right.
To make a long story short, just think before you act. A few minutes of new pussy or new cock prolly isn't worth losing everything you've got
I've been with my hubby for 5 years and we talk all the time...maybe too much LOL. We know what the other one is thinking before they even think it. Neither of us have cheated on the other one, Just like Tam said
communication is the key. And having a loving,working relationship takes time , commitment and hard work. Anything in life that comes too easy prolly isn't worth much
And for the men... if you cheat or are cheating now just tell your gf's/wives. Don't let her think everythings okay when it's not. Yeah you'll prolly loose her but if you're cheating on her then you really don't care about her do you?