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Originally posted by GonePhishing
Lying is not cool, but some lies like cheating are much worse than the one she is telling. I think that perhaps she meant to get you a gift so told you there was already one. Then I think perhaps she got way to busy/lazy to get a around to it but means to actually go and do it. Which would be why she keeps telling you she forgot it. It could be something like she doesn't have enough money to actually get it as yet perhaps.
So, I would not be happy that she lied. I think she probably does mean to get you a gift and it kinda got out of hand. She also probably told you she got you one because she would feel too ashamed to tell you she has not.
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How long have you been dating? The first Christmas can be hard to shop for. Although I agree that lying isn't okay, I suspect that you caught her off guard and she planned to get you a gift. It's wonderful that you are not material and don't care about gifts. A lot of guys are not that way. She was probably a little embarrassed and scared when you had a gift for her and she didn't have one in return. When you approach her, be gentle. She'll probably realise that you're a special guy and she should be honest from now on. If not, you're better off without her.