is my girl fucking around on me???

go refund the tickets - quick !!

this isn't the same guy is it?

I agree, some valid points Angelie. But there's a serious flaw here.

She's going to stay with some guy she never met....or has met, but just on the internet. That ALONE is stupid judgement call on her part. It's dangerous for one thing, etc, etc.

And if she's that stupid to not even consider this ahead of time, obviously i can't trust her judgement. I mean, how can you take someone serious who's judgement is just so messed up?

So now, if she goes and i can't trust her judgement before her even leaving, what makes me think i can trust her with some Aussie cock around? She's already proven to me, before even leaving, to being un-trust worthly and just plain out dumb.

Dump her dude...you don't have time to babysit. She's obviously bored and needs some excitement in her life by travelling or whatnot.

I don't think she's going there with the intent to bone some Aussie cock, but since the proof exists that she makes bad judgement calls to being with, is already proof enough that she'll be played and swept off her feet once she's there...and well....eventually taking some cock.

I don't think she's going there with the intent to bone some Aussie cock, but since the proof exists that she makes bad judgement calls to being with, is already proof enough that she'll be played and swept off her feet once she's there...and well....eventually taking some cock.

I was gonna say don't worry about it, but this is pure wisdom

He's right, naive girls are easily picked up.

North American chicks LOVE Aussie cock.

It's the accent, baby!

that is so true. you should disconnect from her right now and avoid emotional harm which will affect your profitability and ultimately your livlihood.

that is also so true, some good relationship advice in here today :-)

from the same website :

Some of these are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear when someone is having an affair. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested.
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) sHe stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) sHe leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) sHe sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.

9) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) She becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to her, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner I prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

Kick that bitch to the curb

The damage has already been done... You have one of two choices to make now...

1) Tell her absolutely not and the two of you lay down ground rules for the relationship that do *not* include things like this (that either would be upset if the other wanted to do it.)

2) Pack her things NOW... Even if she doesn't live with you, she has left things there or given you small tokens... Give them to her ASAP and tell her Bye. Have fun. Don't ever come around or call me again IF you (she) comes back... Include that if 'your' relationship means so little to her that she'd hurt your feelings like this, then there must not *be* a relationship on a two way level.


Getting a 'temp' job traveling on a tourist visa??? Hmmmm

Guys don't know how hard it hits to come home (or to the guys house to visit) and see the little teddy bear, cards etc etc that they gave the guy in a box sitting on the coffee table.

It took me 5 years to make up for a very small transgression that wasn't nearly as serious as this one would be. If I told MY old man I was going off to stay with a (even a known) guys house, heads would roll. He'd not hear a second word on it. (And THAT would be even if the person I was staying with lived down the block, not halfway around the World lol)

But college age is a hard time to be true to one another. Most aren't even positive what sort of job they want let alone be serious as to whom they want to spend their lives with.

Crack her ass in half cum in her face and kick her the fuck to the curb... And leave her!

Truth is if she loved you she wouldn't be on ICQ plotting to leave you ,...
And go so far as to make herself feel better by telling you are crazy.....

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years .... instead of cracking her ICQ or spying or any of that horseshit, we just had a talk and ended it.

It's not really worth finding out the truth, because most of the time people just want it to have tools to be bitter and angry with.

Cut your losses. Appreciate what was good. Move on.

Maybe telling that hooker she's out of her fucking mind wouldn't hurt either.

`lb

Mongoose403 and his girl seem to have a lot of issues:

http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=115085

Serious Jerry Springer material!

man this really sucks!
95% chance shes gonna cheat guaranteed.
Even the ones that you think love you more then anything cheat.

I was living with this girl for about 2 years back in 93, we had the greatest relationship, everything was perfect, we were always happy.
She decided she wanted us to go to Cancun one weekend, I couldnt do it because of the job I was working at the time, but told her to go with her girlfriends and have fun.

Well when she came back, I could tell things were slightly different. We started argueing alot, eventually we broke up.

It wasnt until almost 2 years later that she finally fessed up that she hooked up with a guy down there and they banged it out for about 3 days straight. He was even calling her everyday at her job for months after.

In reality, this is what is going to happen to you, it sucks I know, but you wanted to know.

It sounds like she's working him over.

Jesus I don't know what's worse, her bullshit or his.

Sounds like they're perfect for each other.

Mongoose, ask her to marry you before she goes!!!

This thread is a *HOAX* guys!

Just like all of the others:

http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=115085

You are a pussy who's about to get fuck. Beat that bitch like a run away slave nigga.

You got a hooker pregnant and she can't go on a trip to australia?? Are you insecure or just plain unfair??

go with her.. Play , if she wants to play games..

testing...
script

[QUOTE]but you should trust her if you love her! [/QUOTE ]


Be real, people that love each other dont take three week vacations without the other person. I dont think he was invited she wants to go solo.If you are in a commited relationship and taking long vacations alone you wont be commited too much longer. I was gone on business two days from my wife and I couldnt wait to get home to her. She will be working in bars chances are drinking, you dont think shit will happen?Stoooop lol Also have you looked at the chance she is not coming back?

I have to agree with Angie. If you don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her.

I understand your insecurities, especially with her being so far away and your understanding how a guy thinks. But those are your insecurities, not hers. She was honest with you about where she was staying. If her intentions were to be unfaithful, she would have told you she was staying with a girlfriend from college or something like that.

It is possible that she may sleep with someone else, but you may sleep with someone else while she's gone. It's a double-edged sword.

If you try to stop her from going, I guarantee you the relationship will take a bad turn. I would no way stay with someone who didn't trust me AND threatened me for doing something I had always wanted to do. If you try this move, get ready for it to have it thrown in your face at every opportunity. Girls don't forget.

My concern would be for her safety. Her staying with someone she doesn't know is a dangerous move. If you want to approach her about from that angle, you'll have a lot more success. Tell her you would feel more comfortable if you had an opportunity to talk to the folks she plans to stay with and get a phone number. Take the time to talk to this person.

Love to know how the story ends.

The night before she leaves, put a gun or a knife in her luggages. Trust me, she'll never get to Australia.

fucky fucky

No offense but I think Mongoose is a bit of a attention slut. If you note, 2 days ago, his post was his best buddy was trying to do him. That's some crazy life u live bud, I hope you dont put to much time thinking up these..
Get a life..

[QUOTE]Originally posted by tony404

but you should trust her if you love her! [/QUOTE ]


Be real, people that love each other dont take three week vacations without the other person. I dont think he was invited she wants to go solo.If you are in a commited relationship and taking long vacations alone you wont be commited too much longer. I was gone on business two days from my wife and I couldnt wait to get home to her. She will be working in bars chances are drinking, you dont think shit will happen?Stoooop lol Also have you looked at the chance she is not coming back?

Not completely true. My sweetie and I never vacation together because we have pets that we will not leave alone or with other people. It's rare for us to be apart more than 2 weeks, but it's happened. We've been together for 10 years now.

I agree, though, I so look forward to coming home after being gone that long.

If you're posting on here asking questions like this your relationship is obviously not strong enough to have trust in this situation.

However, you don't seem to have the strength to put your foot to and make sure you get what you want either.

So you might as well just suck it up and live with it. From what I'm seeing here if she did sleep with the guy and came back you'd probably forgive her anyways. If you wouldn't, then you better start telling her what you want out of the relationship right now.

however if you're going to keep going with the wishy washy middle of the road attitude then I guess the only thing left for you to do is to pay for her hotel room....and hope she uses it.

Put 8 Billion dollars in her suitcase.. It seems to have stopped Don Johnson...

put a gun in her suitcase without her knowing. then she will be stopped by airport secruity.

You girls make me laugh like if your man was spending three weeks with some woman you dont know, that he has been growing a relationship with on the phone and icq. You would be cool with that .STOOOP lol please your insulting my intelligence lol

I trust my b/f to do the right thing. I would be more in shock than upset if my sweetie slept with another chick. I could not imagine being in a relationship that couldn't withstand an uncomfortable situation.

BTW, this has nothing to do with intellegence. It's all about trust and knowing your partner.

if i were you, i would say her that " FUCK OFF "

I dont understand if you and your bf have this great trusting relationship. Why arent you married? Ten yrs is kind of long for a courtship lol.

Good (and fair) question.

We both agree that, should we decide to have children, we would marry. Neither of us have a desire to be married just for the sake of being married.

dude...as everyone else said...if you are asking...its over

What do you care? girls are like buses, there is one by every ten minutes...i just kicked this girl out of here, for almost the same reason, she was all too eager to drive this guy across town the other day, so when she came by today i was like, you like to do favours? do me a favour and let me get some work done...Leave!! lol...If you are truly in love with her,tell her you dont want her to go, and that you and her can go somewhere nice together...if she still goes, get rid of her.

Mate face REALITY! Your girl his a HOE and I'm not using the term as a metaphor! She's gonna be working in Joe Sixpack's brothel (they're legal over here ya know?). She'll also be doing some modeling for my new reality site CumGuzzlingTouristsDownunder.com.

As for all those other issues, eg:

HELP!!! my g/f tried to ass-burglarize me!!
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...threadid=104126

my g/f just shit on me!!!
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...threadid=101218

Help! I think I knocked up a hooker!
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...&threadid=97712

my girl is turning ...
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...&threadid=93816

2 cheat or not 2 cheat... jugglin 2 girls at the same time
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...&threadid=90346

introducing my gf to a hooker
http://bbs.gofuckyourself.com/showt...&threadid=86595

I just had a chat to Jerry Springer and he's eager to do an entire show about you and your girl! He's even talking about doing a live cross to Joe's brothel (now there's some cool publicity for ya Joe!)! So Jerry would like you to phone him ASAP on 1-(800)-96-JERRY.

PS. If you still want those airport pics I'm there for you man!

Fucking do this, dont be naive. ICQ is like a girls diary it will tell you all the shit you need to know. I found out this girl was cheating on me through ICQ (Stupid bitch would leave it on while she would take a shower or some shit) I would just slip in and find out all the info I needed. They will NEVER see it coming!

omg everybody is so fucking hard on this dude !! mongoose403

he is not answering anymore lol................

listen bro, don't worry everything will be fine , at least she is gona be thinking of you while fucking him right?............

Mongoose403. Is this the guy she's visiting?

i say... fuck someone else when shes gone and then when she gets back... fuck her like its the last time you'll ever fuck anyone else ever again... then fuck her best friend... then fuck her mom if she's a milf. then fuck her best friends milf. Then get the 4 of them and the girl you fucked when she was gona in the same room and fuck all of them at once. Then go out in the street naked and just fuck random people when they aren't looking. Then get the phone numbers of their milfs.
Fuck fuck fuck. When you fuck... life don't suck. Thats what i always say.

Ok, what's up with the first page of this thread???

It makes iexplore.exe (IE 6.0) try to access the Internet to 213.84.148.240 port 99.

http://www.samspade.org/t/ipwhois?a=213.84.148.240

What's up?

Correction, both pages in this thread do this. Is it someone's signature?