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If we're talking physical:
- strong forearms (I really have no explaination for this one lol)
- a great smile that light up his eyes
- a body that is slim but not too muscled because big muscles gross me out
If we're talking on a more relationship type level:
- attitude really is most important. I can NOT be attracted to a guy who has a temper, acts all "pity me" or doesn't love life as much as I do
- looks are important but not nearly as much as when I'm just checking guys out. For instance, a guy isn't the type that I would check him out in a bar, but once I am attracted to him as a person instead of a statue when he smiles at me it doesn't matter what he looks like because emotional attraction is at least 50% of the total attraction.
- another important thing is how he makes ME feel. When we have sex he better smile at me and give me lots of kisses, stuff like that.
When I was in highschool my highschool boyfriend had money and it made me feel really uncomfortable because he used it to try to "win" me. When we fought he'd buy me a gold necklace, ignoring the fact that I absolutely hate gold. He was all about money and flashing it around. I've never dated a guy who made more than me since then, for me a guy with money is a turn off because of past experiences.
But there are lots of girls who can't stand the types of guys I am attracted to...it's so dependent on the girl. I think I would replace Money/Power in Sleazy's original post with "Attitude"...you can fit Money/Power into the attitude category anyway. Sure girls care what a guy looks like but if they're looking for a relationship looks aren't the only thing that matters, it needs to be a fine balance between other things as well. But really isn't it the same thing for guys??
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