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Originally posted by SleazyDream
I only really know of three things that people become attracted to. sure attration is often based on all 3, but I'm curious, which one do you think is THE most important factor in determining whether or not you'll fall in love or lust with a guy.
a. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
b. MONEY/POWER
c. ATTENTION on YOU
most reasons for attraction fall under these three topics. Which one does it for you?
for me with women money is least important when it comes to lust/love - couldn't care less if she's rich or poor, powerful or not. Then I'd say physical, as attention is probally the most attractive thing about anyone. least in my books.
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This is a really hard question to answer. My current boyfriend called me to sell me a newspaper 2 years ago...never paid him much attention over the first year, when he would call me. Later on I did pay attention to him and found out he is extremely smart, sensitive, FUNNY (which may have been the most important thing) and attentive. I flew him here this year in March and we have a great relationship. He had no job, no money, no power and I had no idea what he looked like (and for the record I'm not an ugly chick) yet I took my chances. Now, in this situation I guess it was his humor/personality that I was attracted to.
In a different situation, physical appearance would have been my first answer...if I was in a bar/club.
As far as money and power go...they're pretty much moot in my book. When you go home at night (not you personally) you're just like anyone else...just a regular person. No one cares what you have when you're at home, what matters then is how much you love someone, and how you treat them not how big your bank book is, or who wants to know you because you're "powerful"
Attention is VERY important. My boyfriend is VERY attentive and if he weren't, he would not likely be with me. I have to admit, I probably am not as attentive as I should be though...something to work on.