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The main thing to keep in mind is
a) This is _your_ child & you love her to death
b) Never bad-mouth your ex
c) Your ex is only taking care of your daughter for you
My ex had my son and remarried etc. I always told him - 'Your mom is the greatest but it's you and me, my boy" He always knew I respected and liked his mother, (which I really did), but he also knew that he was my boy. When they get the feeling that both parents know how important and valuable they are they feel secure & loved.
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