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Originally posted by muchmoreporn
I made a point once that when they have their new kid, will he/she come with me for 50% of the time? can this kid call me daddy danny? and how will she feel when i let jada call the girlfriend xxxxx mommy?
they dont understand the feelings that i feel and things will only change when its upon themselves.
besides men dont have feelings remember.....
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I think allowing or encouraging your daughter to call your girlfriend mommy in any sense of the word is a bad move on your part.
As much as I HATE my ex, I still would not encourage this type of thing. I have always told my children, they only have ONE father. Hopefully you can make a plea to your ex girlfriend, and ask her to please understand that it hurts your feelings. You're probably going to get a better response if you discuss your true feelings rather than anger and threats of you doing the same thing to her.
For your daughters sake, just let her do what feels natural, but make her aware that she only has one father and she does not have to call this other person daddy...I do think at four she may be old enough to understand, my daughter was. I think it depends on the intelligence and maturity of your child. You'd have to make that decision. Perhaps if you have a court order, you can call your attorney and have it modified that your daughter is not to be encouraged to call your ex's new man daddy.