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  • Naughty
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    • Jul 2001
    • 6485

    #1

    For women only

    Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him?

    I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.
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    Hell no, you're an asshole
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    Sure, it is not my problem, but his
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  • Butrflied
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    • Aug 2002
    • 1344

    #2
    I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.
    ~Butrflied~

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    • Naughty
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      • Jul 2001
      • 6485

      #3
      Originally posted by Butrflied
      I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.

      hehe, well .. a friend of mine () saw his ex girlfirend and they hit it off pretty well, but he is in a long term relationship, nonetheless wants to meet the ex some more times. The ex does not know the current girlfriend.

      I hope his current girlfriend is not reading GFY today
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      • Cheshire
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        • Jul 2001
        • 5738

        #4
        I might email, but a phone call could be too intimate as a first encounter. It takes things to a more involved level right off the bat when a casual friendship 'should' be the initial goal.

        (25 and 3/4)


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        • p00p
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          • Dec 2002
          • 5125

          #5
          Originally posted by Naughty
          Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him?

          I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.
          I wouldn't do it unless I knew his girlfriend knew about it. Also, I would make sure I knew what his intentions were, first. If he won't come clean, don't do it.
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          • Beastiepoo
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            • Mar 2002
            • 1971

            #6
            Originally posted by Butrflied
            I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.
            I'm on the other side - I think it would depend on how well I knew the other girl . But then I'm only almost 24 too so my opinion can go with Butrflied's
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            • Naughty
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              • Jul 2001
              • 6485

              #7
              By the way, I said 25+ because most teenagers like to play around anyway, when you get older your conscience is more evolved, as it seems
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              • Cyndalie
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                • Jan 2002
                • 3615

                #8
                I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;)
                J/k - guess how I voted!
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                • Naughty
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                  • Jul 2001
                  • 6485

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Cyndalie
                  I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;)
                  J/k - guess how I voted!



                  Thanks, I .. uuhhh ... my friend feels guilty enough as is.
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                  • toonces
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                    • Feb 2003
                    • 453

                    #10
                    Sounds like he gets off on women chasing him. why can't he call you?
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                    • Miss Novette
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                      • Feb 2003
                      • 230

                      #11
                      To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain.

                      I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do.

                      Unfortunately, not all women would do the same.
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                      • LunaC
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                        • Oct 2002
                        • 148

                        #12
                        I think it makes it much worse that it is an ex... harder to maintain just a friendship with someone you have been intimate with before. Harder to claim that was your intention in the first place. And if/when the girlfriend finds out, she will probably feel a lot more upset if she hears you...uh, "he"... has been chatting with an old ex than if she just found out he had been chatting with some girl.

                        I just turned 27, so there you go.

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                        • Cyndalie
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                          • Jan 2002
                          • 3615

                          #13
                          I do agree with you though, would have voted much differently 5 years ago. No when you answer a question like that you think "That could be MY man! Step off Bitch!" LOL
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                          • LunaC
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                            • Oct 2002
                            • 148

                            #14
                            Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

                            I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.

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                            • Naughty
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jul 2001
                              • 6485

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Miss Novette
                              To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain.

                              I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do.

                              Unfortunately, I agree.
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                              • Naughty
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                                • Jul 2001
                                • 6485

                                #16
                                Originally posted by LunaC
                                Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

                                I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.
                                Not a date.



                                Just the average late night calls and invitations to come and sleep over every once in a while .. I think that would be the asshole factor 100.

                                It is all hypothetical by the way, nothing has happened so far.
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                                • Naughty
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                                  • Jul 2001
                                  • 6485

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by LunaC
                                  ... try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

                                  2nd thought, that too.
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                                  • Cheshire
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Jul 2001
                                    • 5738

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Naughty
                                    hehe, well .. a friend of mine () saw his ex girlfirend and they hit it off pretty well, but he is in a long term relationship, nonetheless wants to meet the ex some more times. The ex does not know the current girlfriend.

                                    I hope his current girlfriend is not reading GFY today
                                    Oh well that is a completely different situation than I was thinking you ment.
                                    I change my answer to Hell no ~ NEVER date backwards.


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                                    • Butrflied
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Aug 2002
                                      • 1344

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Naughty


                                      Not a date.



                                      Just the average late night calls and invitations to come and sleep over every once in a while .. I think that would be the asshole factor 100.

                                      It is all hypothetical by the way, nothing has happened so far.
                                      Okay .. adding in the ex factor .. and booty calls .. HELL NO .. can I change my vote?
                                      ~Butrflied~

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                                      • Naughty
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jul 2001
                                        • 6485

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Cheshire
                                        Oh well that is a completely different situation than I was thinking you ment.
                                        I change my answer to Hell no ~ NEVER date backwards.
                                        Yeah, I guess you're right ... Thanks all, I think the problem is solved. I'll take a step back and get off the asshole mode.
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                                        • CosmicKitten
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • May 2002
                                          • 225

                                          #21
                                          I can't seem to think of any reason why I would call a guy I knew was already involved with another chick. Thats stupid.

                                          Unless she just wants sex. So if she calls you, she's a ho fo sho.

                                          mesa 28

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                                          • amber438
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Sep 2002
                                            • 230

                                            #22
                                            Hell, no..
                                            I'd never step on toes or plant in someone else's garden..dump the other broad then we'll talk..
                                            But..if he'd do it to her, what's gonna stop him from doing it to me..? Capice?
                                            So, I'd tell him to go fuck himself..
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