The obvious question here is are you public about the nature of the business you are in? If you are, this (sadly) explains the principle's attitude toward you and your girlfriend. If you have children school age or younger, you have responsibility as their parent to keep your mouth shut about your business. Even though they may enjoy countless fruits of your labor and their life be greatly enhanced by the money you make (however you make it), they are children and other children (and adults) can be cruel. Your actions will be judged and they will be treated according to those judgements however unfair or amoral that may be. Rule number one for anyone in the adult business with kids ( or may one day have them) is to keep your work a secret. It is not a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed of what you do, but a matter of following the path of least resistance where our children are concerned. If you are public in any way about your business ( trusted friends and/or family never keep your secrets), then you need to drop this. Do not draw any more attention to yourself or your child. Be ever watchful of the people they are exposed to at school and out, but don't let YOUR emotions in this case or any other over-ride your common sense. If you are already talked about, going to the school board or making any trouble at all will result in more gossip/tongue wagging at your child's expense. Voices carry.
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